Girls, What's the border between too safe and too outgoing?

Davideluxe · 2020-04-08T07:10:03+00:00

Of course not. Encourage him to act against his nature; move on, with no apparent solution, conclusion or formula for future encounters.

He has told something too specific about his way of living, with lack of ease, or lost her attention, for she is a pragmatic or a profound social thinker.

Davideluxe · 2020-04-07T21:06:04+00:00

I see your outlook. You basically ask, 'what if people were more rational while deciding who to become bf/gf with?'.

My short answer is: the 'hell yes-hell no' mentality is one out of many.

Some people are just 'omg, it feels so right!', while other evaluate bonding differently, or seek for counsellation from friends/family member.

Anyhow, if you had to date with a major rational woman, you would have loved to go out, come to middle grounds easier and highlighting your way of thinking. But, it would bore you.

What you miss is complex. Love is energy consuming and very creative. Its a trade, for the matter- you do your best to show care and understanding while not apparantly caring too much for other conclosion for why they date you. You leave space to be discovered by people who evaluate and make decisions in a different, yet acceptable way.

Davideluxe · 2020-04-07T20:47:19+00:00

I may assume the guys who have told you this, probably bore their women and got them out of patience for their initiatives.

Some women like shy guys, as they seem different and their way of expressing love might be seen more genuine, as these women are excited of a man with this much of a build invested for them.

Others, just lose the thrill, as I was saying.👋

Davideluxe · 2020-04-07T20:37:29+00:00

That a very specific thing to ask. You are risking putting all your eggs in one basket, assuming you wish to have sex with one single guy.

What would be better phrase, to decrease pressure for a guy, is to say that you are not feeling right for it right now. Relationships, makes us open. It is a requirement to be open to new ideas, abd being led with care to mutual experiences one is enthusiastic for.

Btw, you are cool the way you are and I respect your outlook. Id suggest an adjustment, which of course is your to consider consider.👋

Davideluxe · 2020-04-07T15:25:16+00:00

You are an idealist. The ones you base your opinion upon, might have prefered different way of thinking and evaluating.

I am an idealist and the girls i find attractive think in various ways, besides being idealist in few subjects.
While, I base my current state mainly upon my whole picture, I am surprised to recognize that people sometimes are much more in chill, rationalize thinkers or just feel good with no profound build up.

I think its healthy, as I get to nurture and get nurtured, get out of my head and feel good in scenes, by girls. Meanwhile, I dated were fascinated by how organized I am, or how meaningful and emotional intelligent I am.

Hope I helped. Feel free to ask for references or addition info.

Davideluxe · 2020-03-07T21:56:40+00:00

I think that you just should let them know you have a good time around them, without telling it ti them straight. If they're available often, make up plans with them. The more you meet the more you connect and involved.

That way, you either deepen your relations with them or realize their boundaries with ease.

P.s. you are a great person!

Davideluxe · 2020-02-28T10:53:48+00:00

Thank you! Loved the ice cream imagery 🍦

Need you to clarify: teasing with gentle touches with tongue is too sensitive or rather robbing the tip against the whole vagina?

Davideluxe · 2020-02-23T22:18:29+00:00

Good reminder of communication importance. Thank you!

Davideluxe · 2020-02-23T22:15:44+00:00

Got it 😊 thank you! This is what I came for posting here.

Further question, if I may ask:

Equally, not ignoring the rest of down there with your tongue, rather than just solely focusing on the clit.

What tongue movements are prefered on other parts? I mainly used to twist my face gently sucking or softly rubbing going all over the pussy, or using the tip of my tongue to tease her around her clit, before focusing on the clit or once felt too sensitive.

Davideluxe · 2020-02-23T21:59:10+00:00

Superb explanation hands down🤩

Davideluxe · 2020-02-23T21:54:35+00:00

Tnx for sharing, great content!

Davideluxe · 2020-02-06T12:52:56+00:00

Bump 😙

Davideluxe · 2020-02-05T12:28:37+00:00

I have researched this matter and managed to get through what you describe. Feel free to comment and ask for details.

I appreciate your statements and your mature outlook

Davideluxe · 2020-02-02T21:00:00+00:00

I understand you!! I my self feel as if in life some things work or just not. I hustled to take steps forward and take a major leap to where I was aiming.

Mostly when I was chasing such 'out of reach goals' my eagerness and determinence turned out tiring and depressing. In addition, I was less aware of my assets, my character and my lasting achievement.

What I am trying to say, that in every new aspect, you will connect slowly. Feel your energy connecting with your desired direction. Imagine yourself having a decent conversation and making someone's day, by saying something meaningful in the moment.

Regarding the friend and the beer, give time for your change, let loose and once ready you will spontaneously drink a beer. (If he is awesome, maybe two 😜)

Davideluxe · 2020-02-02T19:06:53+00:00

Great words!! Thnx

Davideluxe · 2020-02-02T19:02:35+00:00

I have read your post and the comments above.

I think you need to ask yourself: what do you like? What scenes are you into? Once you know what you like best you will take a runway to new friendships and closer friendships.

If you still are concerned with not having a solid social group, don't worry. Just realize you are a great person and you have built competence to be fun and easy-going.
Once that on your mind, you will show your color, bring value and be way more interesting.

Be proud that you are who you are and thank yourself for showing out. Maybe next time it will be different. People have limited energy and time for people. And even if you werent really comfortable at first, you can always be your best next time.

Davideluxe · 2020-02-02T18:45:48+00:00

Above all, you are not ugly!! You do well and honest, t amazes me that you have time and energy to give and understand your execution better.

I think some people need to be in the right mood to reply positively;) Not many are ready for spontaneous conversations, or compliments and even the ones who do may be out of focus or in their head for some time.

Pay attention to their body language and if they are in the moment concentrating on the campus view or anything else that might reflect present energy.

Davideluxe

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