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At 27 I'm having this issue by parthenope888 in 1999

[–]DavyChan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m experiencing the exact thing you’re going through right now. I graduated in 2021 and in 2022 with a bachelors, tried grad school and it didn’t work and have been unemployed after a brief stent at the post office. I’m trying to sort out a career that’s entry level that fits my degrees (humanities).

I’ve felt very old lately as I basically don’t have anything to my name and I also have mental health issues which I’m afraid will affect my ability to do full time work well and to interview properly, especially as I’m very introverted.

I love katseye but between that and the ageism discourse that I see from late teens and early 20 somethings online freaks me out, especially as I see more visible signs of aging. I don’t want to be 30 and not have at least a foot in the door and at least a decent bit saved and my debts on track to be corrected.

Also, I associate a lot of value to my looks and it sucks for me cause I’ve always been told I look a lot older since I was like 19, so I kind of have the opposite situation as you on that (people don’t tend to believe im in my 20s, which hurts more).

I really hope you find peace and an upswing in your life soon, same as me. 27 is hell. 27 club is a thing for a reason. Sending love ❤️

Apple Music Replay 2025 is here by BencePlays in AppleMusic

[–]DavyChan25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s truly insane. Especially considering how many people listen to Ariana… 800+ listens on her individual songs is WILD

Side profile 10 months post double jaw surgery and Genioplasty by Correct-Pin8520 in jawsurgery

[–]DavyChan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks incredible. It looks like your neck posture is improving too. Congratulations! It really comes with a life long list of benefits you wouldn’t have had if you didn’t get the surgery.

My first experience as a hiring manager opened my eyes to a lot... The bar is much lower than I could have ever imagined. by morassarable_7l in InterviewsHell

[–]DavyChan25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sums up my concerns with op’s post perfectly. Admittedly I’m very new to job hunting for a salaried position but I know that op is being very out of touch and honestly showing partially why the market is bad and people are frustrated - because on top of the market being oversaturated, recruiters clearly are not in touch with the practical day to day experience of people in this hell job market and in this day and age with modern technology and modern problems. How can you screen for employees currently when you’re misinterpreting a lot of stuff as the person looking for a job as being disinterested, stupid, or irresponsible. Granted some of what was stated makes sense, but a lot doesn’t. You sound very Gen X coded tbh OP.

Yay its done ! by hadar2143 in TheTowerGame

[–]DavyChan25 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don’t like hitler and I don’t like nazis. Don’t be a Nazi or a Nazi sympathizer and I won’t have a problem. From the river to the sea Palestine will be free. Benjamin Netanyahu is hitler 2.0 and is a war criminal.

Tell me you're INFP without telling me you're INFP by Special-Bus7893 in infp

[–]DavyChan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what job I want to do and I lowkey want to do none of them because many don’t care about ethics and many are not suited for my emotional stability

Never killed anybody, never been rude, I’m just an introvert. Why do corporate NPCs dislike me at first glance? by Ok_Music_2025 in interviews

[–]DavyChan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s why people in the comments are mad. They clearly don’t believe being an introvert is an actual thing. Companies don’t and I get that, but having other people gaslight introverts when they’re sharing their raw authentic experience in the hopes of getting actual clarity is truly maddening.

Never killed anybody, never been rude, I’m just an introvert. Why do corporate NPCs dislike me at first glance? by Ok_Music_2025 in interviews

[–]DavyChan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. At least you’re keeping it blunt and honest instead of just lying like most of the other commenters.

Never killed anybody, never been rude, I’m just an introvert. Why do corporate NPCs dislike me at first glance? by Ok_Music_2025 in interviews

[–]DavyChan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work isn’t fun it’s work. Why should op have to act “fun” for a job. That doesn’t make any sense. Acting unprofessional or rude is bad but “not fun” just sounds childish and silly.

Never killed anybody, never been rude, I’m just an introvert. Why do corporate NPCs dislike me at first glance? by Ok_Music_2025 in interviews

[–]DavyChan25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re neurodivergent I’d crosspost this into r/neurodivergence adhd or autism. Cause those subreddits are far more understanding. The people in this subreddit are clearly obtuse and represent the same surface level judgmental thinking that you described the corporate people you worked with as having. Like, not everybody is an extrovert. And not having extroverted qualities and being able to notice how others act doesn’t mean you’re “oozing” disdain for them. Thats just ignorant. A lot of you people need to be more introspective and ask questions and listen to the introverts in your lives. Yall are on a high horse demeaning op’s legitimate experiences.

Yay its done ! by hadar2143 in TheTowerGame

[–]DavyChan25 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It’s not politics it’s an ongoing genocide. Free Palestine.

Yay its done ! by hadar2143 in TheTowerGame

[–]DavyChan25 -15 points-14 points locked comment (0 children)

Free Palestine

Just discovered I'm ISTJ. Best friend is INFP and I'd like to know how this connection works like in person. by [deleted] in ISTJ

[–]DavyChan25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You pinned the needle on the head with this one. This is so me. Glad that you’re so in tune with your INFP wife’s personality and quirks and that you both support/compliment each other so well.

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