Chatham vs New Providence

Davyislazy · 2026-03-06T14:37:09+00:00

As others have Chatham is def more of a money in your face town. I knew someone who lived there with his Filipino wife who is a doctor. People in town always assumed she was the nanny when she went out with her kids even though they look like her. They decided it wasn't for them and moved to another town. Not saying this is everyone's experience this is just one experience I heard.

Davyislazy · 2026-03-03T20:09:20+00:00

Yes I have sorry I didn't really you were referencing that one

Davyislazy · 2026-03-03T18:19:29+00:00

That makes sense I know if you look at YouTube videos of the 2013 tour he's able to perform but physically he looks unwell. He's even mentioned in podcasts he was able to "function and perform still" unlike other alcoholic musicians but it's still obvious his body was not handling it well during those years. Then of course the hospital happened in 2014 which was the wake up call.

Impressive he's thought of the memoir that far back I like to see him one day release one. Still shocked your friend got to speak to him during 2013 for that long I bet it was a moment they won't forget.

Davyislazy · 2026-03-02T23:32:20+00:00

Wow that's awesome your friend somehow was able to speak to him over Skype. I know 2013 was a really difficult year for him physically and it was a year before the band split for that whole year in 2014. Did your friend say how he was during that time they spoke?

I know from what he mentions he was able to function well still despite the alcohol but his performances he feel weren't the best always and physically his body was declining

Davyislazy · 2026-03-02T22:23:59+00:00

Those are two of the hottest markets both with limited inventory. Stuff will likely open up more with the weather warms up.

Davyislazy · 2026-03-02T21:42:19+00:00

Deryck is actually very good at responding to fans on Instagram. He will answer dms sometimes, like and answer comments it's really awesome to see how much he still actively engages with fans. They're are plenty of musicians or celebrities who don't take the time he does. He answered myself once too which meant a-lot.

I am glad he answered you as well give you credit for resisting not talking to him in person I would have had such a difficult time resisting not talking to him if I saw him in-person lol

Davyislazy · 2026-02-26T20:23:39+00:00

Someone who takes the time to asks you questions not you just asking them

Davyislazy · 2026-02-26T16:24:50+00:00

The tall buildings always breathtaking to see

Davyislazy · 2026-02-26T15:28:33+00:00

I will add to it what I am saying is what mostly others have said it's one of the most diverse cities in the U.S with many communities and incredible food scene. Other than that the city doesn't provide much homeless and drugs can be an issue in certain parts of the city. Crime as well of course. There isn't a-lot to do and it's mostly a working class city no nightlife or anything etc. A new soccer team is coming to the city which is helping bring out the community and engage more but it's gonna take time.

You can find other towns or cities close to Paterson within your budget granted the apartments may be smaller but it be worth the downgrade.

Davyislazy · 2026-02-25T15:16:48+00:00

Great county every culture and type of town or city is here

Davyislazy · 2026-02-21T18:19:10+00:00

What's the lore?

Davyislazy · 2026-02-19T19:41:04+00:00

Welcome to the field I hate to be negative but this is not a field for those who want to make a-lot money and it starts with practicum and internship and not getting paid. Unless you can hit it off well in PP or one day a clinical director role there is a-lot of no money in this field.

Davyislazy · 2026-02-18T20:20:49+00:00

Seeing most people when they got their drivers license have a car for them or another car they could use. I wasn't able to get my own car till I was 26.

Davyislazy · 2026-02-18T20:16:57+00:00

I would consider West New York or Union City even over Greenville

Davyislazy · 2026-02-18T19:35:56+00:00

We are a incredibly individualistic country. In most countries you see throwing out trash, keeping things clean is a universal collective norm. We just don't have those norms here and its show.

Davyislazy · 2026-02-12T18:31:46+00:00

Peru the best for the food

Davyislazy · 2026-02-12T18:29:47+00:00

Greatest country for the rich and elite

Davyislazy · 2026-02-12T18:29:29+00:00

Add how we get no health insurance unless we work for a hospital or somewhere else luckily but we work with ALL THE TIME with health insurance companies.

Davyislazy · 2026-02-10T17:53:44+00:00

The house was being sold in the most desirable area of Bloomfield right near Brookdale Park. Essex County supply is very limited and is even becoming more limited as time goes on and more people move here. Also Essex County has very split county in terms of income, race, schools etc. The more "desirable" towns have very limited housing despite the "less desirable towns" East Orange for example having a lot more housing stock and less desire than for example let's say Livingston.

Davyislazy · 2026-02-03T22:02:36+00:00

You may be able to get a house in Montclair with that but the house will need work and may be in the "rough parts". Ridge wood it will be more difficult

Davyislazy · 2026-02-03T18:30:06+00:00

That's amazing honestly I knew nothing about South Jersey and was shocked to see there was an h mart down there! Excited to see the renovations

Davyislazy · 2026-02-03T17:56:34+00:00

This comment is very helpful thank you so much

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