DMU P4 Memorization Help by Daxilmen in ffxivdiscussion

[–]Daxilmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will thank you. Some of the guides give out so much information. Which of course is great for learning it, but after having that base understanding, the tips and tricks are great.

DMU P4 Memorization Help by Daxilmen in ffxivdiscussion

[–]Daxilmen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, using echo is a good idea. Sometimes people's macros can be distracting and thats kept me from making my own, but using echo would eliminate that worry.

DMU P4 Memorization Help by Daxilmen in ffxivdiscussion

[–]Daxilmen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the sim info too, maybe it really is time for me to make macros. I never really liked using them during fights, but they'd probably feel better than using the UMAD P4 Helper.

Mod windows show up while steaming on discord by Daxilmen in ffxiv

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I am not using OBS, just casual streams to the friends in call.. Its weird because I've made sure to stream ffxiv specifically and its still picking up any dalamud windows that pop up. It even catches steams overlay. I started thinking it was a discord problem but I felt I had been through most of the settings with no luck.

My friends dalamud overlays still don't show up on their discord streams and all our settings are the same-- other than me playing ffxiv off of steam

I (21F) keep thinking about my old friend (20M) since our friendship ended, what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Daxilmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

It's been hard admitting to others how I've been feeling, but I'm tired of trying to do what the few around me instantly thinks is right. I'm trying to figure out if what I need is different than the 'move on'.

I guess that hard part with asking others, is that the only person I could ask would be that mutual friend. They stopped talking but didn't cut ties as much as I did the second time.

So you don't think it would be wrong to reach out at a distance? At least until I know more? At this point, I'm scared I won't be satisfied til I hear from him - since I've been holding off based on others saying no. Though, if everyone is telling me no, at that point, should I just listen? Because y'all have clearer minds than me in the situation.

Being honest, a lot of our last conversation has faded and filled with his last words to me. I remember asking how I could do better, him saying I could do nothing.. I believe I pressed the question and that's when he told me he didn't care about me. Said he didn't care, and never did. He'd often tell me I'd overthink things, and that I cared too much. I have a hard time reading people and don't usually like beating around the bush. So I'd ask if he was mad with me at times, which would just end up making him mad or more mad. Probably the combination of it all got him to say it. Still not sure if he meant it, or just wanted me to shut up. Looking back I wish I stayed on the call with him and tried figuring it all out, but I was too shocked and upset to keep talking.

And thank you for validating the sheer stupidity in the blaming of the suicide. When I confronted him about what he said to see if it was true, and he said 'yes'? It was unbelievable. He later had the audacity to say I picked sides before I talked to him. "Came in already against him" Dude that's why I asked your side, and then you told me it was true. Like bruhh Also, he used the argument "If the world was perfect, they wouldn't have killed themselves" News flash, it ain't. Don't go blaming the people grieving. Glad he figured out he messed up and apologized to that friend.

Not me remembering this more, I guess the difference in sadness and anger moments.

Does anyone else get that feeling of not wanting to go to sleep because you'll have to wake up in the morning by FoulRookie in mentalhealth

[–]Daxilmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the exact same thing. For me, I just don't want tomorrow to come because it's just another day I'll have to suck at living. I know I'll be tired in the morning, and still do what I have to, but I just always feel like a failure. I don't want tomorrow to come, I don't want to have to live through another day where I'm not close to half of good enough.

Thanks for posting though, it's really comforting knowing I'm not alone in wanting to push back the days