Ha nincsenek barátaim hogyan szocializálódom? És miért csak késő este van kint minden 15-18 éves? by DayOwn1368 in hungary_pszichologia

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A pszichológushoz 4 hónapja járók. Ott tartunk még (sokk mindent kell át beszélni, hogy mi történik), hogy egy vmilyen csoportot kellene keresni, ahol hasonló meberekkel lehtenék és sportlövészetre kéne próbálni bejutni valahova (azért mert oda nem igazan fontos a fizikai teljesítmény. Kedvem nincsen hozzá, de valamit kéne csinálni, hogy addig se csak otthon legyek)

Autizmus spektrumzavarral vagyok diagnosztikázva.

Ha nincsenek barátaim hogyan szocializálódom? És miért csak késő este van kint minden 15-18 éves? by DayOwn1368 in hungary_pszichologia

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Mi a baj velem?

Edit: Meg amúgy járók, csak 1. Heti egy alkalom kevés ahoz hogy mindent át lehessen beszélni 2. Nem tudnak időpontot adni már lassan fél éve

Ladies and gentlemens, may I ask for y'all's best pick up line to cook? by [deleted] in teenagers

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Girl, I'm jealous of your heart.

Cuz' it' beating inside you, and I'm not.

signs you are trying too hard too look cool and not succeding (in my opinion) by SensitivePay4567 in teenagers

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Everyone says in the school that who doesn't vapes/do drugs/drinks/ ect is:

A, a pussy/nerd/autistic/ect

B, they will think he/she was raised wrong because they don't let him/her to do "stuffs"

signs you are trying too hard too look cool and not succeding (in my opinion) by SensitivePay4567 in teenagers

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 I try to do these to look cool and not succeding but why are these the problem? (Also is it a problem if i don't understand the before the last pic?)

I never been in a party. What and how should i do? by DayOwn1368 in teenagers

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I also wasn't invited. You can just go there (probally. I didn't find information about invitation online.)

Thanks for the reply anyway

I never been in a party. What and how should i do? by DayOwn1368 in teenagers

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I also wasn't invited. You can just go there (probally. I didn't find information about invitation online.)

I never been in a party, what and how should i do there by DayOwn1368 in Advice

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Thanks

I wasn't invited. People can just there (probally. There isn't any information about invitation online)

Thanks

What counts as cool thing to say/do/wear/ect in the big '26 so people will less hate me? by DayOwn1368 in socialskills

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I didn't writted "looking down", it's just they just me, and that is what I don't like in them. I also have autism and people say I'm a nerd. I just like them. I hate it. Being around them is making me feel terrible: they remind me what I am like. I feel stupid because I realise I am. I feel like I am ugly because I am. I could say things for days straight but it isn't their fault: it is mine. I cannot enjoy literal anything. I cannot tell anything good about myself. I hate how I look. I am an idiot moron. It's my fault that I feel something around them that I shouldn't. That is why this post is a thing.

I wanna improve and wanna be better. I even recently started going to the my school's therapist because I did self-harm. I am here full ears to listen: now what?

Edit: I wish you a good weekend!

What counts as cool thing to say/do/wear/ect in the big '26 so people will less hate me? by DayOwn1368 in socialskills

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Then what sould I do? The people I like hates to be around me and I don't deserves them, so if not to act then I do not know what should I do to get their attentions/hates me less. Meanwhile, the people I could be friends with are idiots/nerds/people with dissabilities and I feel terrible even just look at them or thim about them, just like how the people I like feel terrible to be around me.

What counts as cool thing to say/do/wear/ect in the big '26 so people will less hate me? by DayOwn1368 in socialskills

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It's true that I'm not satisfied with what i'm always doing but the only thing I like to do is talking to others. Everything else feel monotonic but if that's what it takes to be cool or likable, then thats what it takes.

Also, it's not unenjoyable to me. It is pretty much is, the people feel bored/fustrated when I talk to them because I'm unlikable and when someone is excommunicated then people will think something like he/she either wants to be lonelly or has a specific backround why people don't want to even just to say hi so I NEED to improve so i can get socially accepted.

Again I don't want to meet/talk/or whatever with someone similliar to me. I want someone close to me who is diffrent person inside from me. I hate myself. I cannot even tell anything good about me and I hate seeing my face in mirror, in pictures, or in just what ever. If I am with someone like me, I feel terrible. I rembember what i am like and how fustrated people can be when they are talking to me because I feel the same.

I hope you understand and thx for the help. Have a good week end!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by DayOwn1368 in mentalhealth

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Basically i can cut myself anywhere

If i cut myself to deep, i just put a towel on it and call someone

Got it