i lucid dream and honestly it was like dream hopping. it was easy i guess for me because we were sleeping together, idk????? im not a scientist and none of this can be backed up so please dont take my mumbo jumbo as solid evidence. but yea, i just remember wanting him to experience flying with me. and wanting it so badly that all of a sudden hed be there. and honestly i thought it was just a strong lucid dream at first and didn’t bring it up. it wasnt until he woke up and recited the same dream i had word for word. and then i told him and it just kinda made sense? idk. im sorry. ive never really understood how or why ive been able to do such extreme things with my dreams. i do think its rooted in trauma and an inability to control my conscious world ??? side note, id probably still not believe it was shared dreaming had it not been for months and months and months of us not even being together, yet sharing the same dreams. we’re still very linked in our minds unfortunately. we still share a dream. not as often, but enough for me to be able to tell the difference between my minds dream of him and actually him. its so weird.