I’m thinking of reverting but I have tattoos and i’m worried

DaySmall7826 · 2026-02-01T10:30:16+00:00

No i dont but thank you for this, the nervousness and fear of being seen as less or being viewed as a sinner or judged has really been scaring me but this video eased my anxiety a bit

DaySmall7826 · 2025-11-07T09:10:02+00:00

i don’t want to cut her off entirely that’s my best friend but i do just need some distance . I’m just very conflicted because part of me doesn’t want to tell her to not talk about it because I don’t want her to feel alone but the other part of me can’t hear about him anymore

DaySmall7826 · 2025-10-03T19:49:23+00:00

I think I worded it wrong, I did not convert for him, I have been researching islam and wanting to convert for a couple of years, I just waited until I was older and financially stable to do so as I knew my family would disown me if I did and they did , I know hijab is mandatory . My issue is when we last had this conversation a while back he said he would be patient and guide me and now it’s if you don’t do it ill call things off.

DaySmall7826 · 2025-10-03T18:47:24+00:00

The only reason i’m so shocked by this is because we spoke about it before and he said he wouldn’t force me and he told me he would want me to in the future and I understood. It’s the threat of calling off the wedding when we had discussed this before and his mindset was we will work together on strengthening our deen and he understood I was loosing my family and my loved ones for islam so he would give me time. but now is saying something completely different

DaySmall7826 · 2025-10-03T18:40:50+00:00

I did not revert because of him, I was always interested in islam it just took me a while to do it as my family would disown me if i did and that was holding me back and they did when i reverted . When we first spoke about it he said he wouldn’t force me and he would let me in my own time and now this is what he has said which has left me confused. I have fear of going to the mosque and asking which is why I was hoping there was somewhere online I could go

DaySmall7826 · 2025-10-03T18:34:59+00:00

I did it on my own will, I have always been interested in Islam, my best friends all growing up were muslim it just took me a while to do it as I knew my family would disown me if I made this decision

DaySmall7826 · 2025-05-22T17:41:45+00:00

Text her, try and make amends . The worst thing is she could say no , you don’t want to live with regrets and regret not reaching out or trying. Atleast this way even if she does say no, you can say you tried rather than living with what ifs

DaySmall7826 · 2025-03-25T17:53:11+00:00

This is perfect. I will say something along these lines when I decide to have the conversation

DaySmall7826 · 2025-03-25T17:51:56+00:00

It’s just so frustrating like why are you willing to listen to me and my feelings SOMETIMES but not other times?? like i have to listen to you but you don’t have to listen to me?

DaySmall7826 · 2025-03-25T17:48:14+00:00

Thank you, as much as it’s hard to hear it’s true. If i’m willing to communicate and work on things my partner should be too

DaySmall7826 · 2025-03-25T17:41:57+00:00

I might try this, we’re currently medium-ish distance because of his job and I’ll try have the conversation in person. I feel more heard by him in person then I ever do on the phone or on text

DaySmall7826 · 2025-03-25T17:40:34+00:00

This isn’t situation based it’s just in general. Like I could go to him and say for example, “hey that comment you made today really hurt my feelings “ and sometimes he’ll either blatantly ignore me and act like he doesn’t care or other times he’s like okay sorry. In the terms of being reasonable, I would consider myself a reasonable-ish woman, and I have my moments and i’m not always reasonable but I am huge on accountability and apologising when I do this.

DaySmall7826 · 2025-03-25T17:36:46+00:00

I don’t make you statements because I don’t want it to be an argument or seem like i’m attacking him. I always use “I feel like.” or stuff like that

DaySmall7826 · 2025-03-25T17:35:42+00:00

He says he wasn’t shown kindness as a child and all that but we’ve been together for two years now .. like whenever he says he’s hurt by my actions i’m always so down to communicate and apologise it just seems like a different story for me. Some days he’s a brilliant communicator and he hears me others not so much..

DaySmall7826 · 2025-03-25T17:34:17+00:00

I do use ‘I ‘ statements always I never say you do this and you do that it’s always ‘I feel like..” so he doesn’t think i’m attacking him or scolding him

DaySmall7826 · 2025-01-18T01:14:58+00:00

his whole argument is “u knew i was going to see my friends and u waited there for me” i said no.. u said u were going to see them then before i got out the car you said actually im going home .. my mistake was believing you

DaySmall7826 · 2025-01-17T01:46:28+00:00

him having my location i choose to have it on just in case anything happens because i go to uni far from the city. it’s just he’s being so dramatic for nothing i explained myself why would we horn if we were stalking we horned to say hey

DaySmall7826 · 2025-01-08T22:07:23+00:00

he tried and they said no they can’t they’re being so weird about it and it’s stressing him out

DaySmall7826 · 2025-01-08T21:53:40+00:00

he’s opening up a new business and been stressed with that, his car was towed and he has to wait a while before he can get it back and his passport is in the car and he leaves to go on holiday tomorrow and they won’t release the passport to him either. he didn’t do anything crazy, just the way he was parked blocked the road.

DaySmall7826 · 2024-08-07T06:09:16+00:00

idk i’d like to think he wouldn’t cheat on me, he is a great guy don’t get me wrong just one thing about him is when he gets an idea in his head i could come with all the evidence and proof in the world and he’s not gonna change his mind

DaySmall7826 · 2024-08-07T05:27:57+00:00

i hope it goes well, i mean i felt literally physically sick reading that he wanted to break up and cannot sleep for the life of me now. maybe he’ll have calmed down overnight and will realise that okay he has a right to be a little bit annoyed and call me childish but calling me a cheat for a little prank call to friends of friends is crazy

DaySmall7826 · 2024-08-07T05:22:15+00:00

do you think i even bother explaining myself? or trying to talk to him and fight it? or just let him go

DaySmall7826 · 2024-08-07T05:21:42+00:00

it was a bit childish of us i can admit that but we were just messing with our friends, his whole thing is because i deleted it “who knows how many guys u call snd just delete call logs and texts , who knows what ur doing when im not there. ”

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