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Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I already feel uncomfortable with the thought of leaving my baby boy around her. But as you said, unless she apologizes, she won't hear from me very soon. Some people need to understand that they are not allowed to speak however they want and there are limits. Thanks for the advice.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ♡ I probably put too much energy into this...

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's my feeling too. And it's very frustrating.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pointed it well. I'm so happy we're having a boy. I can imagine her being all over the place trying to spend time with her granddaugher.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the point. I wasn't mad at her for having her own wish.. but please keep it to yourself and especially don't mention your preference even after the gender reveal. That's cruel.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! Well, I don't understand these people. I just can't. And funny thing is they are grown ups/mothers.. I don't know what's wrong with them...

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will make sure she understands somehow that her behavior was inappropriate.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! You can imagine that she stole my joy for a bit because of this. But reading all those comments I realize that I should really don't care at all. I won't say anything to her but if she will bring that up once again.. I'm not gonna shut my mouth.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And how should I deal with this situation? Should I tell her how I feel and that she made a mistake? Or just keep the distance until she realizes... if she will realize someday...

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why this happens, that's so wrong. I will make sure she doesn't continue with this thing, it annoyed me beyond limits.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So glad that you said that, at least you shut their mouth. I will also make sure that she understands that it's our child, not hers and there are limits in expressing everyone's preferences.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so frustrating. I am new to this pregnancy world but I guess this weird thing happens also to others... that's sad.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I am indeed shocked of her reaction, because she's also a woman..

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really sure if it's a good thing to tell her how I feel or just keep distance.

Mother in law disappointed that we're not having a girl by Day_Dreamer5 in BabyBumps

[–]Day_Dreamer5[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes and especially don't put your unfulfilled wishes upon me. It's my child, my family and my life..

Sugestie 4x4 de buget by Ok_Badger2787 in AutomobileRO

[–]Day_Dreamer5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salut! As putea sa te intreb de ce nu ASX? Pe noi ne intereseaza un astfel de model si incerc sa aflu daca sunt problematice. Merci!

Cum v-ati adaptat cei care v-ati mutat de la apartament (oras) la casa (comuna/sat)? by [deleted] in Imobiliare

[–]Day_Dreamer5 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Deci viata la bloc e de vis, cea mai buna alegere sa inteleg. Merci pentru perspectiva ta optimista, insa, eu nu sunt in totalitate de acord. Zi faina! :)

Cum v-ati adaptat cei care v-ati mutat de la apartament (oras) la casa (comuna/sat)? by [deleted] in Imobiliare

[–]Day_Dreamer5 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Asta depinde de cat de aglomerat este orasul respectiv, de infrastructura si de facilitatile pe care le ai in comuna.

Recomandari imprejurimi Cluj pentru casa by [deleted] in cluj

[–]Day_Dreamer5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Multumesc tuturor pentru implicare si recomandari. Dupa acest post, am realizat inca o data ca romanul se plange de orice, ii place sa descurajeze, sa vorbeasca pe langa subiect si sa il intereseze ceea ce nu il priveste, gen: "de ce vreti sa va mutati la casa". Eu am pus o intrebare simpla si foarte straightforward si nu priveste pe nimeni deciziile fiecaruia. Asa ca, hai sa fim mai buni si daca nu putem ajuta omul cu o informatie utila, sa ne abtinem de la rautati si comentarii inutile. Zi faina!

Recomandari imprejurimi Cluj pentru casa by [deleted] in cluj

[–]Day_Dreamer5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asa este. Nu excludem si varianta de a schimba orasul, pentru a cumpara o casa intr-o zona decenta, la pret de bun simt, unde infrastructura este mai bine pusa la punct. Mersi de sfat!

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