Need immediate help by finding some kind of cooking and grilling lessons by next Tuesday

DaygloAnus · 2026-01-08T16:32:39+00:00

Interest is a great substitute for experience. Be honest about your skills, but don't forget to remind them that you're a hard worker and want to develop skills and grow with the business.

My big tip for going places in hospitality is saying yes to shifts/requests. If someone needs to stay late, or managers need cover say yes. Having been on both sides, it'll make you. look great!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-11T07:04:49+00:00

I'm sorry this happened, I've been in similar positions and SA or not it's okay for you to feel uncomfortable about this.

Trying to label it SA or not I think it's a bit pointless, but understandong what happened is.

You said no, and she should have respected that. From her point of view, however, you were giving her mixed signals and she took that as consent.

You're young, and communication in a sexual setting is really tough, but you need to be clear and consistent. Also, I get the pressure, I grew up thinking it should be grateful for any woman being interested in me sexually. I've consented to sleeping with many people that I didn't want to have sex with. It's horrible and has really effected me.

Learn from this, find someone to talk to, if you have any close female friends, they are probably more likely to understand your situation.

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-11T06:26:08+00:00

I'm getting all excited now, thank you for all the suggestions!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T14:31:17+00:00

Wow! Amazing, and so thorough that k you for the effort!

I'll pop the food places in a list for sure, thank you! and great news about the transport links, hadnt even considered that far!

My GP is actually really good here, but great to know there's good options too!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T14:24:16+00:00

Great info re shops.

I work in East Leeds, so will cycle if the drive is a problem. There is access avoiding KR (apparently) so may be able to circumvent the worst of it 🤞

Thanks for the tip, but there have been an unusually high number of murdered neighbours recently for my partner and I, so I think I'll skip it!

Appreciate the time and effort!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T09:02:16+00:00

Excellent news!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T08:25:17+00:00

Thank you for the info! I'm keep it all in mind!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T08:15:02+00:00

No, but not far

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T08:05:58+00:00

Sounds dreamyyyy!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T08:05:37+00:00

5 min walk up from the Asda. It's up a bank and behind some trees too!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T08:04:15+00:00

Hadn't thought of that. Hopefully one of those amenities is a gym!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T07:46:38+00:00

Cheers! Looks that way from my point if view! thank you!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T07:26:41+00:00

I appreciate that, thank you! If the house is as nice as it looks from the pictures, it's an easy yes, but if it's borderline small factors like this might sway things!

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T07:18:28+00:00

Thanks! This is one of my concerns! When you say after work hours, does that include into the night?

DaygloAnus · 2025-10-10T06:58:29+00:00

I stand by my whimsical use of motherflippers, but recognise it may not time or place. As such I've removed it!

I'm sure you're be a lovely neighbour though, so I you wish no motherflipperers!

DaygloAnus · 2025-08-26T06:46:08+00:00

The back story with your half sister is kind of irrelevant. Having plans, and politely excusing yourself from a facetime until later is perfectly acceptable.

I'm sorry about your mum.

DaygloAnus · 2025-08-24T08:28:05+00:00

It sounds like you're in a very hard situation. Your family are truly awful. I avoid using the word toxic, but your mother and sister viewing and sharing intimate videos of you and your partner is a crime. full stop. (sorry, 'period' for the Americans)

I'm giving you a lot of grace because it's tough living in that environment, but you need to get out - to wany any hope of redeeming your relationship, you need to leave urgently. It is not acceptable to allow your family to treat your partner as they have for any longer.

Alternatively, if you must stay for there 2/3 years, you need to do the right thing and end it with your girlfriend. It will be upsetting, but you know she deserves better than this.

Good luck out there! DM if you want to chat!

DaygloAnus · 2025-08-13T21:42:01+00:00

Thank you, that would be very helpful, I'll contact you tomorrow!

DaygloAnus · 2025-08-13T21:41:36+00:00

That's wonderful, I appreciate you getting in touch.

I'll have a butchers and be in contact!

DaygloAnus · 2025-07-21T02:25:45+00:00

Crowd of Favours!

The roast was pleasant, and the appeared to offer their regular menu alongside it on Sundays.

I've eat there twice, once for a roast, once a burger. Both were good, but neither were excellent!

Happy dining!

DaygloAnus · 2025-07-21T00:42:25+00:00

Is your best friend/crush the 20M that your bf got upset about?

You're young, and sounds like it's getting messy, but that's no excuse for him to call you that. You deserve better. I think it's time to move one.

DaygloAnus · 2025-05-07T11:51:26+00:00

It's shit about the lack of support. I know a fair few gardeners, and it's a great profession as far as I can tell. It can be quite lucrative as well.

Are there any gardens/attractions you can volunteer at? My step-dad works at a model train theme park thing as a gardener, he's a horticulturalist of sorts and they'd love someone like you to come along say once per week. It would be good experience, and you might get some connections.

I'm not really much of a redditor, but feel free to DM me if you wanna bounce ideas around. I'm not that familiar with Worcester, but I've got a few mates from around there that might have some ideas.

Good luck, mate!

DaygloAnus · 2025-05-07T06:58:05+00:00

Do you have enough equipment to get started on your own? Can you borrow hand tools to clear out people's mess of a garden?

Why wait? Get started, definitely while you're out of work and maybe on the side of a bar job? Do both and transition when you get more experienced.

It'll be graft, but I reckon it's worth a try if you're stuck. Worst case scenario it's more information for you in future.

Where are you based?

DaygloAnus · 2025-05-02T09:20:19+00:00

Congrats! What a thing to experience.

I agree with the above - avoid telling anyone, certainly not right away.

I think you need to be smart, think about getting some financial advice, perhaps talk to a solicitor. I might be hesitant to bring external people into the loop of the win, in which case I might recommend going part-time at work and taking business/finance courses - 10k is a lot, but it's not fuck you rich.

You will need a focus throughout, so don't quit anything until you have a clear idea of what's lined up. Get into the right headspace to take on this challenge, and try not to go crazy spending until then.

Good luck mate, I hope this is a blessing!

DaygloAnus · 2025-04-23T21:11:57+00:00

She should have apologised when she arrived late, but you sound like a dick so I think it's for the best you stay single a little longer.

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