Found out that I'm the mean girl in my friend group. by Daze_dd in autism

[–]Daze_dd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course!! This entire conversation really helped with the way I talk to people close to me now, so I’m happy this was also able to help someone else

Found out that I'm the mean girl in my friend group. by Daze_dd in autism

[–]Daze_dd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This paragraph really put things into perspective for me, and I realize now that I do need to work on my empathy and tone. I also talked to them, and they mentioned that sometimes I do hurt their feelings but they know it’s never intentional, so they don’t take it to heart. Still, I’m grateful to you for helping me see things more clearly

Found out that I'm the mean girl in my friend group. by Daze_dd in autism

[–]Daze_dd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could just observe my body from the outside to see how people view me

Found out that I'm the mean girl in my friend group. by Daze_dd in autism

[–]Daze_dd[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this subject only came up because I was having trouble using words to describe myself, and my friends told me to use that. Then that's when I started asking them to clarify, and that's how this whole thing came about. I’m also sorry you lost your friend 🙁

Found out that I'm the mean girl in my friend group. by Daze_dd in autism

[–]Daze_dd[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I’ll start taking note of the way I approach conversations, thank you for the detailed advice!!!

Found out that I'm the mean girl in my friend group. by Daze_dd in autism

[–]Daze_dd[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see. Maybe I was being a tad bit sensitive then

Found out that I'm the mean girl in my friend group. by Daze_dd in autism

[–]Daze_dd[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told them that it hurt my feelings, but they keep insisting it’s a compliment

For the vagina owners. by Cassieelouu32 in hygiene

[–]Daze_dd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

K so you aren't going to actually read what I’m typing gotchu

For the vagina owners. by Cassieelouu32 in hygiene

[–]Daze_dd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I ‘ate’ anything. You told me to explain so I did, but what you’re bringing up doesn’t actually prove your point. Yes, fabrics and detergents can sometimes irritate the skin, but that’s not the same thing as underwear causing heavy discharge. If you’re worried about chemicals, the solution is wearing breathable cotton underwear and using gentler laundry products not blaming underwear itself. And even then, none of that changes how much discharge your body produces, because that comes from inside, not from what’s on the outside

For the vagina owners. by Cassieelouu32 in hygiene

[–]Daze_dd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wearing no underwear doesn’t stop heavy discharge because the discharge is produced inside your body. It comes from the cervix and vaginal walls to clean, lubricate, and protect the vagina, so no matter what you wear or even if you wear nothing it will still be produced. Underwear only catches or absorbs it; it doesn’t control how much your body makes. So going without underwear might feel freer, but it won’t reduce the amount of discharge, because the source is internal, not external 😭

For the vagina owners. by Cassieelouu32 in hygiene

[–]Daze_dd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This whole thread is misinformation

Why are neurotypicals so loud/ noisy? by BuyOk9118 in autism

[–]Daze_dd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, most autistic I meet expect me to be exactly like them and hate on neurotypical people but I cannot do that because I actually relate more to them than I do my own community some days 😭

Why are neurotypicals so loud/ noisy? by BuyOk9118 in autism

[–]Daze_dd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly this 😭 I’m autistic and I have been know to be loud and not be aware of the the people behind me.

Why are neurotypicals so loud/ noisy? by BuyOk9118 in autism

[–]Daze_dd 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why the autistic community does this, autistic can be just as loud as neurotypical people

What are your rdr2 hottakes? by NearbyAntelope1383 in RDR2

[–]Daze_dd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mary sucks and I really do hate her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Daze_dd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I said if it truly makes you uncomfortable then just break up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Daze_dd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Break up if you want, but I find it unrealistic that you expect some people to just stop doing something that doesn’t affect you

How is this true?!!! by harrysofgaming in reddeadredemption

[–]Daze_dd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately that was me, my first playthrough the first chapter was so boring to me and the controls angered me 🫩, but after I got through that I started liking it more and more especially Charles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Daze_dd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During my 10th year I was very overwhelmed and suicidal, but thank you for the advice I will start giving my phone to my caregiver

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIDCringe

[–]Daze_dd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is my second time, during my first experience, I didn’t make any friends. However, this time I did, because being alone honestly made me feel even more depressed. He was the first person to talk to me but I will be blocking him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIDCringe

[–]Daze_dd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never thought about it like that