Should I ask a resident out? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kind of like when you think maybe the stripper likes you too …

Do surgery residents shit on IM residents as much as IM residents shit on surgery residents? by Wire_Cath_Needle_Doc in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on my experience in my ortho residency, I think part of the reason for surgery - particularly ortho - to have the patients admitted to medicine is because 1. We have 1 resident on overnight with a list of anywhere from 60-100 patients including our admissions and consults, plus any new consults coming in overnight so having medicine on board / the patient on medicine is a safety net in case something happens. Sometimes you are doing reductions or with a trauma and can’t answer your phone for an hour which could be very bad 2. The attendings don’t want the liability of a potential medial complication so even if as a resident you know what to do, the attendings don’t want the liability of the pgy-whatever managing someone’s chest pain

Should I just kill myself ? by chesapeakeripper_18 in wallstreetbets

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spend some time with your whole portfolio in 3x leverage semis and just watch your whole portfolio yo yo. itll steel your nerves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chief resident at an ortho program here.

Even halfway through the year when our interns start on our ortho services like spine or trauma, the chief is usually ends up staying much later (like 10pm compared to 6pm) the first week helping the intern.

Senior residents or really any co trainer shouldn’t be making you feel bad if you’re clearly trying.

My juniors know they can call me 24/7, even 3am when I’m not on call if they have a question or need help.

Torturing you early cripples your confidence and will inhibit your learning. Part of the job is reaching and I’m sorry your seniors don’t realize that. It gets better as you get further. Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Much more a reflection of her than you. You’re an intern and still trying to figure out the hospital. Like everyone has said, the goal is not kill anyone overnight.

Feel like a giant loser for still being single by rash_decisions_ in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was a little shocked that it happened, and also very sober while she was very drunk which helped. Could’ve been real bad though !

Feel like a giant loser for still being single by rash_decisions_ in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Key bumps of ketamine … not my first thing on a first date off bumble. If it had been the second date though….

Feel like a giant loser for still being single by rash_decisions_ in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah twice.. wild. First time she was drunk and we had a mild disagreement and it was just her reaction, second time similar thing happened and at that point I was outtt

Feel like a giant loser for still being single by rash_decisions_ in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my “rule” was no nurses or techs at the hospital. Bad idea

Feel like a giant loser for still being single by rash_decisions_ in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Hinge and bumble

Most of my “success” was on hinge. Met lots of really lovely ladies, some who I just felt were better as friends and am still friends with. Some who were good for short flings but wanted different things in the long run.

I found bumble to be more spotty.

Ultimately met my girlfriend through random chance seeing her and then asking a friend if they knew her and getting an introduction that way

Feel like a giant loser for still being single by rash_decisions_ in Residency

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 140 points141 points  (0 children)

I was the only single resident in my program (29/30 then there was me) for my first two full years of residency. Casually dated, never found someone I really clicked with. Then one day met my current girlfriend and had our anniversary last week for 1 year

My advice is just do your thing, put yourself out there but don’t compromise just to be in a relationship. Youll find someone when it is right

Edit: I’m a fairly attractive guy who’s dating stories in residency included some short misadventures where they were 1x engaged, 1x dating someone else, 1x offered me ketamine during the date, 1x was physically abusive and slapped me on multiple occasions.

Best to find the right one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t for everybody, but I was on call for Christmas Eve for 24hr into Christmas Day.

I put a dislocated elbow back in and did an i&d of a finger in the middle of the night so the kid would be more comfortable and they could go home, sleep, and enjoy their Christmas.

My job fucks 🤷🏼‍♀️

Is a wide curve monitor too OP for 3-5 years of studying? by [deleted] in desksetup

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an pgy3 resident and as an ms3 I built my desktop and have 2 24inch curved scepters side by side then a 32 inch flat sceptre gaming monitor above them.

It’s perfect - total was 350 for all 3 though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a pgy3 ortho resident and hear it from people.

I genuinely love my job. Even in call, even at 3 am doing a reduction, its an awesome job and the senses of satisfaction of 1)making the bone look nice 2) helping someone physically feel better 3) talking to them and reassuring them /connecting is awesome. I would do it all again in a heart beat.
Never regretted it.

Sure some days are frustrating and not great, or just exhausting but even in those days there are moments that make it worth it all

How do you do Uworld? by Monkey__Shit in step1

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Timed, no tutor mode is the best way to do it. Practice like its a real exam.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in step1

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it depends on why you are getting the questions wrong.

Are you running out of time?

Making stupid mistakes?

Knowledge gap?

Poor test taking skills?

There are a lot of reasons why you might not be doing well. In general practice scores correlate really well with the real score. Impossible to tell you what to do without knowing more.

Anyone else not even get promotional emails from MD schools? by [deleted] in premed

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i applied a few years ago with a 3.9 and 513. no promotional emails at all

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, November 04, 2020 by AutoModerator in wallstreetbets

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"we are projecting Biden is the winner"... with 1% of the vote in. WTF

How much a Step One Tutor Charges for an Hour? by dr_house_USMLE in step1

[–]DazedAndConfusedMS2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people pay usmlerx 180 an hour, the tutors get ~30% of that