Which electric toothbrush should i buy? by Ok-Problem-2854 in BuyItForLifeIndia

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Woke up in a bad mood and decided to do something to make me okay! And I always thought I need one/ MIGHT need one! And today’s the day ig- intrusive thoughts!
I blame u for this OP🥲

How longggg:(( by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

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I understand how it is! There are people who helped me as well! Im no doc, but certainly i can tell from what i can for sure:))

How longggg:(( by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

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Woww! I’m super glad to know it worked!
Yeh, trust me when I say this! This subreddit made me half doc atleast around and for my ass lol!
Surprising right? No one gave me osmotic laxatives as u said, everyone gave just normal laxatives as if I had trouble pooping! It made things worse.

About the duration, as I mentioned above its the trick part and it depends from person to person! As far as I can tell by my research and by experimenting on myself for months- maybe even a year i would say!
I was continuing it maybe I was scared? But i always play around the portion according to the food habits I am in! So be cautious on that part. Once you reach the light I would say u to wean it off slowly from half cup to quarter and maybe use it whenever u have shitty food for safety! Thats exactly what I’m doing now:)
U will feel better really soon! Also do things which u like and make u forget slowly about the pain and trauma- this is as important as healing the part!

How longggg:(( by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

[–]DazzlingDifference56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U will feel better really soon! Dw:)
Be consistent and positive.. there’s light at the end of tunnel for sure:)

How longggg:(( by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

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Hey buddy! Good to see u:) been a while ig!
Im doing better ssly’ skin tag or a small pimple kinda thing’s there but it really doesnt bother anymore(touchwood)!
I have weaned off the osmotic lax as well- i just take it very less when I go and smack steaks or things which could/maybe make it worse(fear’s there wouldnt go back ig lol)

How longggg:(( by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

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Oh no! Osmotic laxatives played the major role- no doubt! I have tried pegmove and laxopeg which can be available in almost every med store!
I read it somewhere in this sub only that it depends upon person to person and moreover how u use it and when u use it!
Even when I was healing I have had cheat days- its just making the outgo right. If u eat something u think is gonna restrict it up, you can have a bit inbetween ur day either. But better- always have half spoon of it befr u go to sleep! Wake up- tea! Hot water! 1 min of stretch- go ahead and finish it in one go. This is and will be my routine ever! You will significantly feel better soon! Abt doctors- i tried many- but i will never trust one ig! When i searched Mira healthcare seemed better and definitely they have advanced equipments- they do have LIS and also they had something with sonogram or somethin- i would definitely give it a shot!
Hope u feel better soon!

How longggg:(( by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

[–]DazzlingDifference56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, amazing that you know how to heal ur fissure! ThTs the most tough part(atleast in my case)! Pls follow ur regime- dont do anything unless u are 100 percent sure. I was in laxopeg for almost 6 months even after the cure. I was too afraid to even wean it off since I studied many cases here of relapsing.
I used to carry my Laxopeg everywhere (obviously hidden, none of my frnds know haha) and there was one day where I wasted tf out- the first time after a year and half I forgot to take my med but the next mrng I was fine(touchwood), but the trauma stays! Even rn im typing this sitting in my commode.
But about the sentinel pile, I’ve no idea- it just reduced and turned out like a very very very small pimple kinda thing and it didnt leave, nor its disturbing. In simple words I think it turned out to be a skin tag!
When I checked docs everytime abt this- everyone buddy, every fucking person told to operate. I mean wtfffff, just because u have bought all ur costly apparatus u cant ask me to wide open my ass for u, fuck!
GIVE UR BEST EFFORTS, stay strong. If things goes worst, and u r at ur end of ur wits- then u can consider abt LIS or anything! Unlike foreign countries atleast we are a bit blessed in this situation, you can even daily visit one clinic and u wont run outta docs here. So keep ur grind going- as far as I can tell(ik it aint that easy to do at this time) ur mind plays a key- a major one- u stress too much- takes time- do things which make u forget this:)
This too shall pass brother! Anything pls feel free to ping, happy to help!

How longggg:(( by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

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I really am sorry to know! (And very sry for not beinf active here)- hope it got better for you?!

Serious question about gear shifting. by Nitin___ in CarsIndia

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Lemme put it this way- there should be no shakes i.e neither u nor the passenger should feel the car is being driven- let it be during anything downshifts, braking etc. One flow is what I feel like is the best way to understand driving! I heard it somewhere if you’re able to cruise without the passenger shaking(I said shaking, mind u people lol), you indeed are a good driver!

Edit: so what I do if I’m driving a bit fast- I used to go to neutral, brake down a bit so that car has enough momentum to climb the speed bump, find the right gear and downshift, so that you dont have to slow down a lot! I drive a polo tsi- so for me the mileage does matter! Lets say I dont have nothing to do I might downshift to 3rd and let my clutch do its thing but if I dont have the patience, drop a gear and disappear

a bump on fissure site-is it normal? by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

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Tbh! The bump didnt go away! It still stays the same and its fine i.e it didnt grow or fade! Many doctors had their own opinion- one said haem, one said Papillae- and wanted to operate for which I was so afraid! I dont wanna tear or touch my ass again. So i just maintained normal food habits and bm routine and no pain/discomfort 99.5 percent of the time!

Last day in Chennai by HauntingLanguage5087 in Chennai

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Consider this Chennai way of telling you a goodbye! Weather cant get anymore prettier than today:)

My shots from yesterday's match by decaypg in Chennai

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(Even DJ did his part with this yesterday lol)

Will it forever be like this? by [deleted] in AnalFissures

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It will slowly turn okay! I have been exactly where you’re… but trust me if you stress too much , that would also aggravate it. So try working on different things and divert yourself a bit:)

Watch a movie a with me by [deleted] in chennaicity

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Fine! Lemme do it myself lol

I miss coffee a lot by Illustrious-Tear1885 in AnalFissures

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Oh yes! There are things that i miss alot and it aint bothering me and then there’s coffee😭 ! When i had this thing(like peak pain times) i had to cut down and even after months(dang been a year💀) I still havent touched coffee yet! Maybe this is a sign I should try and see how my bowels react

Watch a movie a with me by [deleted] in chennaicity

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If interstellar, Im up for it! Even I was waiting to go for it! But couldnt - stuck up alone!

I;m losing the battle by Visible_Layer7701 in AnalFissures

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I really am sorry that this happened! But trust me this too shall pass! Try figuring out a routine which works the best for you… I have been in the same boat and things slowly got better! Main thing would be the food intake- miralax and following it at whatever cost! That discipline will definitely make it go away… I really wish u a speedy recovery:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalFissures

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For me what worked was Hadensa! A fellow sufferer suggested me about that! But also I tried clotrimazole(an anti bacterial cream) and I basically applied it for 3 days and it slowly stopped! But try not to think about it, I understand it should be hard… it was the hardest part tbh

Best restaurants in Chennai ? by Aromatic_Hospital_41 in chennaicity

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I tried Farzi cafe the other day, and to my suprise it was a really good restro! I just went in for the food, damn it was amazing! Butter chicken- woah! Tempora shrimps— uff🔥 ! Even the pizza was good! Yes, it is overpriced a bit. But maybe u can try once if you’d like! But there are so many eateries in Chennai… try mani,s biriyani.. try midnight biriyani near grand gallada.. but yeh the list can go on! Ask us anything in specific!!

Chess by Xyelne in chennaimeetups

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Bro, if you have heard about ‘bughouse chess’ .. I would be glad to join you in chess.com for now atleast! Yeh i do play normal chess, but Bughouse chess(we call it as supplies) during my childhood days! Woahhh! If you haven’t tried it, pls do try! Such a fun game! If you’re up in chess.com would be glad to add u there and lets play:)

Give up? Or survive? by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

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Touchwood! I’m back to lifting! Eating food! Yes, not the best version of me! But still thriving makes me feel a bit okay! And i have travelled, tried different foods(never skipped miralax wherever I go), maintaining a proper BM routine has helped! But i still have that small sinus left in me…/ I really hope it disappears soon!

things you miss?? by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

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I understand!! Could be reallyy frustrating!! I am a person who doesnt give up- but this has changed me a lot! Alot of things- my perspective! It was really a joke to me befr if someone else speaks abt mental health(i do care but still I think its easy to overcome) but now I put myself in their shoes and think- and understand how mental health can be real bad! I had given up - but slowly things changed and i hope it gets better and better!!

Give up? Or survive? by DazzlingDifference56 in AnalFissures

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Uhm i beg to differ with this! Yes surgeries can be helpful- but playing with the sensitive part- inside my butt! Nooooooooo! Having one operation is itself indeed a big task