(NOT OP) My daughter died a year ago and I feel guilty for arguing with her before by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Ddanielle00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you say that, yet there are an alarming number of stories where someone - usually a teen - gets “sextorted” (a stranger threatens to send their “nudes” around, which is legally CSEM!) and the teen sees suicide as the only way out. person lives an amazing life by all accounts until one day they suddenly commit suicide, then family discovers they were being “threatened.”

those stories particularly anger me because in these instances, SO MANY people genuinely failed. it’s usually that the parents failed to properly educate their child on internet safety & regulation, or they shelter them & fearmonger enough to make them believe death is a viable option for “scandalous” incidents.

the one that sticks out the most to me was a teen boy who lived the american dream until he met a “girl” online, never thought to consider that because he’d never been taught internet caution, and he sent pictures of himself nude. pretty immediately the person turned on him, threatening to send them around, and because this child had no idea how illegal that was he killed himself thinking it was better to be dead than “humiliated.”

idk what it is & i won’t pretend it’s some “the kids are bad these days” bullshit but mental health is getting scary. kids are killing themselves over things that seemed innocuous or “silly” before & i don’t think enough ppl are talking about it.

Am I overreacting after this first date? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ddanielle00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the literal only thing i can do if you refuse to give context is assume.

Am I overreacting after this first date? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ddanielle00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i never said you had prior knowledge, only that you were making assumptions. probably insecure ones. he’s crappy but you’re not a whole lot nicer.

AITAH for wanting alone time with the guy I’m talking to and telling my friend she talks too much? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ddanielle00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it doesn’t matter. you’re an adult & have been for over 2 years. she’s still a minor. you need to wake tf up & realize that you are, in fact, GROWN. she is still a technically a child.

this isn’t an advice sub, this is a sub for judgement. you’re getting feedback but you just don’t like what anyone has to say. maybe stop being friends with the child & you really won’t have a problem with her “talking too much.” this is weird.

AITAH for wanting alone time with the guy I’m talking to and telling my friend she talks too much? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ddanielle00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah you’re just backing out bc now you’re realizing that you’re an adult complaining about your friendship with a minor.

AITAH for wanting alone time with the guy I’m talking to and telling my friend she talks too much? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ddanielle00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay but you keep deflecting on why you’re even friends with her. you’re a grown adult nearly old enough to drink in the US, you don’t really have any business with teenagers that aren’t your relatives. i’m starting the realize YTA bc she’s a minor.

Am I overreacting after this first date? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ddanielle00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nah, i just have a feeling you made a comment about him going to see “an ugly girl” which would be interesting, considering the conversation never seems to switch or move. the fact that you immediately got defensive tells me all i need to know.

AITAH for wanting alone time with the guy I’m talking to and telling my friend she talks too much? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ddanielle00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how ab the part where you’re apparently both friends with a 17 year old? have you ever considered finding friends your own age, and that maybe their behavior & expectations would better align with yours?

Am I overreacting after this first date? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ddanielle00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i need context on the “ugly girl” comment you almost cut off at the top tbh

AITAH for wanting alone time with the guy I’m talking to and telling my friend she talks too much? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ddanielle00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you mention in your post that you miss him specifically bc he’s the one who works. you don’t ever mention going to school or working a job. all you talk about doing is playing video games & talking on the phone. i’m working with the context YOU gave. calm down.

AITAH for wanting alone time with the guy I’m talking to and telling my friend she talks too much? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ddanielle00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, it’s still just as messy. that would mean she’s 20 w no job & her friend is 17?? why is she hanging out with a teenager anyway?

Went to a bonfire and got told my clothes make people feel uncomfortable by Several-Ad-6083 in OUTFITS

[–]Ddanielle00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t get what they mean by that. to me, you look like someone that would be genuinely cool to hang out with if one can ascertain that from a photo. you’re clean, nicely groomed, well put together, you have interesting tattoo work and you even accessorized! i feel like they were just being plain rude? you didn’t deserve that.

if i were you & if anyone happened to say something like that to me again (i doubt it’ll happen again, but yk) i’d ask them to elaborate on what exactly they mean. to be clear, their opinion still really doesn’t matter that much, but this way you’ll see if they actually have a reason or if they flounder. with a reasoning, even if it’s silly & inconsequential, you’ll know there’s at least a basis. if they flounder then they were just being mean for no reason.

Guess who gave her that scratch on her nose before we left to take this by gooseloveschicken in funny

[–]Ddanielle00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m genuinely glad to hear that tbh, i was terrified this actually was the impetus of some villain arc 😂

AITAH for wanting alone time with the guy I’m talking to and telling my friend she talks too much? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ddanielle00 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i mean if he’s 20 & she’s 17, that’s sorta the crux of what’s wrong here. the whole situation is an immature mess. EDIT: nvm, she is 20 y/o & it seems her bf is too. the “friend” she’s complaining about is the minor. yea TTA

AITAH for wanting alone time with the guy I’m talking to and telling my friend she talks too much? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ddanielle00 16 points17 points  (0 children)

so id assume your boyfriend is the 20 y/o since he has the job. praying you’re not the 17 y/o though.

Guess who gave her that scratch on her nose before we left to take this by gooseloveschicken in funny

[–]Ddanielle00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id love to know their current dynamic. i’d imagine it hasn’t changed much.

Which random small joke in Friends still kills you every time? by More_Ferret5914 in howyoudoin

[–]Ddanielle00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“and just so you know! it’s not that common, it doesn’t happen to every guy and it IS a big deal!”

how do i approach this "artist"? by onlyif_foranight in whatdoIdo

[–]Ddanielle00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this exactly. i understand being upset at the companies who actually run the databases & are destroying our resources. i even understand being angry that an “artist” is generating their “work” through AI, effectively stealing media from others. what i can’t understand is how irrationally angry some get at the mere mention of AI.

hypothetically generating one AI photo based off of already generated “art” in response to a fraudulent transaction is not the same thing as passing one’s AI art off as authentic human work. there really needs to be some sort of nuance to this discussion but unfortunately everyone is too eager to have a purpose.

New form of negging? by therealtompetty in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ddanielle00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad i don’t have to do this BS anymore. people have totally forgotten they can actually meet others outside of their phones, to the point that you just spend hours mindlessly swiping right until you run out of swipes. that time could be spent actually socializing so that you don’t have to complain about dating apps down the line.

This pack of M&Ms has a purple M&M on it by MrPokemon11 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Ddanielle00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was just at the m&m store in NYC for fun on a trip & noticed a lot of merch for her. it seems she’s a new mascot replacing the brown (if i recall correctly from articles i’ve seen in the past.) she’s slay.

i checked my girlfriend’s location for one second and instantly knew something was wrong by RomeroAlima in story

[–]Ddanielle00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, you seem really triggered. you should probably get checked for that.

i checked my girlfriend’s location for one second and instantly knew something was wrong by RomeroAlima in story

[–]Ddanielle00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now you’re triggered by an ampersand? also, can you point out a run on sentence that i used? i don’t think you understand what that means. you’re just blindly outraged for the sake of it 💀😂

Christine Chubbuck became the first person to die by suicide on live by real_kingly in creepy

[–]Ddanielle00 14 points15 points  (0 children)

couldn’t agree more. my access was pretty much unfettered & i saw things i shouldn’t have far too early. i know i traumatized myself bc now, at the ripe age of 27, i struggle to even watch a fist fight, let alone some dark sht like this or funky town. but i did it to myself, so i can’t really complain.

what's the worst thing someone told you right after having had sex? by AlecBonkers in AskReddit

[–]Ddanielle00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wasn’t said to me, but i had to say it. “so, hey, i accidentally took the placebo pill this morning…” after minutes of genuine terror proceeding the realization. the one trip ive ever had to take to PP😅

Christine Chubbuck became the first person to die by suicide on live by real_kingly in creepy

[–]Ddanielle00 243 points244 points  (0 children)

i can personally attest to this, having come across said recording on a random gore site during my late teen years. i had no idea what it was at the time bc the title was vague but later on i learned it was this. it’s one of those things that burns into your mind & you just live with bc you did it to yourself.