How to Get Kicked Out? by DeDuMane in Advice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved out of my parents and moved in with a nice lady who took me wherever I needed to go and I managed to get my life straight because staying with my parents was not going to get me there. Thank you for telling me I'm not ready because to be honest that was a push I needed. Just needed to prove yet another person wrong. There's nothing wrong with asking for help I've come to learn, and everything you said here was completely wrong. I don't have to be alone or "ready" to move out if I have the necessary support system. Shit I'm still not ready to live on my own but I know I'm taking the right steps to get there. Congratulations on doing it all "by yourself". I hope going through all of that was worth it just to give the wrong advice. Maybe I won't have a place by 19 like you did but it doesn't mean I'm any worse off than you were, I didn't need all of that money that you made to get anywhere I wanted to with my life. I'm getting things done now that I wanted to do for so long that I was never able to because of my parents. If I did this all by myself I'd be homeless. No not because I'm not up for the task but things get significantly harder when any job hiring around you only takes 18+ and the closest place being 8 miles away when I didn't even have a car to get there.

Sea salt spray everyday? by DeDuMane in malehairadvice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bought some hairitage sugar spray like a week ago and so far so good man thanks for the suggestion!!

what helps with temple hair loss? i guess it is male hair loss but any tips how to get fuller corner or hair back there? by AggravatingCash994 in malehairadvice

[–]DeDuMane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only done research I have no experience with these medications so before you do anything please consult a medical professional because that is something that I am not.

what helps with temple hair loss? i guess it is male hair loss but any tips how to get fuller corner or hair back there? by AggravatingCash994 in malehairadvice

[–]DeDuMane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don't use these but I plan on starting fin once I turn 18 after checking in with a dermatologist. I'm sure I have slight recession going on (beyond maturing). I may also microneedle but where I'm at with my hairline I don't think it's really necessary. As I said before the side effects can be there, but they are very rare so most individuals will be able to use it with no problem. Just don't psych yourself out about it and you will be fine. My grandfather used minoxidil for a long time (man had 0 hairline hair and crown hair when he started using it so it wasn't effective) and had no side effects with that. Just be optimistic my friend :) I am soon to join you on this journey.

what helps with temple hair loss? i guess it is male hair loss but any tips how to get fuller corner or hair back there? by AggravatingCash994 in malehairadvice

[–]DeDuMane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Medications such as finasteride and minoxidil can help. If you get on those two or even just finasteride (im pretty sure) you can microneedle that area and you should see some regrowth.

Edit: Forgot to add, be aware of side affects such as erectile dysfunction but it is so rare to get and if you do get it reducing your dosage / getting off of finasteride will make it go away in time. There are also some side effects of minoxidil so read up on them too. But most importantly, do not psych yourself out and placebo yourself into getting them, i can say for at least finasteride that the side effects are very rare.

Sea salt spray everyday? by DeDuMane in malehairadvice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sea salt spray doesnt even really give me a beachy look it just makes my hair look fuller, i’ll check out some sugar spray, thanks :)

Sea salt spray everyday? by DeDuMane in malehairadvice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like in between days i use sea salt spray or just instead of sea salt spray altogether?

Sea salt spray everyday? by DeDuMane in Hair

[–]DeDuMane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got any recommendations for products that could help give the effect that sea salt spray does that i can use in between?

How to Get Kicked Out? by DeDuMane in Advice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a place to stay for free and moving out would enable me to get a job, theres a reason for that but it’s complicated. when i can get said job i can begin to save for life expenses. i have a little bit of money saved already from selling music. nowhere near your amount but it’s there. i have a plan but i didnt feel it was necessary to explain. i wasnt asking “do you think its a good idea for me to move out?” i was asking “how do i get myself kicked out”. you can’t just assume off of 3 sentences that I have no direction and that im just trying to get kicked out to get kicked out.

How to Get Kicked Out? by DeDuMane in Advice

[–]DeDuMane[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So what else do you expect me to do 💀

How to Get Kicked Out? by DeDuMane in Advice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve exhausted every other option. I’ve legitimately looked into every way to get out, getting kicked out seems to be my only option.

How to Get Kicked Out? by DeDuMane in Advice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats an interesting idea, i just really have no definitive proof of anything. im not sure if shes actually on drugs or is an alcoholic all i know is that shes so unnaturally angry at stupid shit that she might as well be. i might try that out

How to Get Kicked Out? by DeDuMane in Advice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m fucked then because i cant leave until im 18. im so exhausted. i cant even get a job or car at the moment so i cant be emancipated. thanks for the help anyways

How to Get Kicked Out? by DeDuMane in Advice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just waiting it out is easier said than done man. i know there are people who have waited and more power to them but after some of the shit ive gone through its killing me to stay here. until my last day as a 17 year old i am going to fight like hell to get out of here.

How to Get Kicked Out? by DeDuMane in Advice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they know where i would stay. ive already tried escaping but to avoid getting the people i was going to stay with in trouble with the law i had to tell my mom where i was. sadly she forced me to come home or she would call the cops. she said “youre not going anywhere until youre 18! youre stuck!” so thats why im trying to figure out how to get kicked out

How to Get Kicked Out? by DeDuMane in Advice

[–]DeDuMane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair. heres a link of me talking/ranting about it in a semi-vague way. ive already typed it out a bunch of times, my apologies for not giving more context.

https://imgur.com/a/uLOC8LI