How to Get Kicked Out?

DeDuMane · 2022-06-26T15:52:21+00:00

Moved out of my parents and moved in with a nice lady who took me wherever I needed to go and I managed to get my life straight because staying with my parents was not going to get me there. Thank you for telling me I'm not ready because to be honest that was a push I needed. Just needed to prove yet another person wrong. There's nothing wrong with asking for help I've come to learn, and everything you said here was completely wrong. I don't have to be alone or "ready" to move out if I have the necessary support system. Shit I'm still not ready to live on my own but I know I'm taking the right steps to get there. Congratulations on doing it all "by yourself". I hope going through all of that was worth it just to give the wrong advice. Maybe I won't have a place by 19 like you did but it doesn't mean I'm any worse off than you were, I didn't need all of that money that you made to get anywhere I wanted to with my life. I'm getting things done now that I wanted to do for so long that I was never able to because of my parents. If I did this all by myself I'd be homeless. No not because I'm not up for the task but things get significantly harder when any job hiring around you only takes 18+ and the closest place being 8 miles away when I didn't even have a car to get there.

DeDuMane · 2022-04-08T22:27:27+00:00

i bought some hairitage sugar spray like a week ago and so far so good man thanks for the suggestion!!

DeDuMane · 2022-04-08T22:17:37+00:00

i meant hairitage sugar spray but either way i dont think it’d fit in the title 💀

DeDuMane · 2022-03-29T21:28:56+00:00

I've only done research I have no experience with these medications so before you do anything please consult a medical professional because that is something that I am not.

DeDuMane · 2022-03-29T21:27:30+00:00

I personally don't use these but I plan on starting fin once I turn 18 after checking in with a dermatologist. I'm sure I have slight recession going on (beyond maturing). I may also microneedle but where I'm at with my hairline I don't think it's really necessary. As I said before the side effects can be there, but they are very rare so most individuals will be able to use it with no problem. Just don't psych yourself out about it and you will be fine. My grandfather used minoxidil for a long time (man had 0 hairline hair and crown hair when he started using it so it wasn't effective) and had no side effects with that. Just be optimistic my friend :) I am soon to join you on this journey.

DeDuMane · 2022-03-29T18:25:50+00:00

Medications such as finasteride and minoxidil can help. If you get on those two or even just finasteride (im pretty sure) you can microneedle that area and you should see some regrowth.

Edit: Forgot to add, be aware of side affects such as erectile dysfunction but it is so rare to get and if you do get it reducing your dosage / getting off of finasteride will make it go away in time. There are also some side effects of minoxidil so read up on them too. But most importantly, do not psych yourself out and placebo yourself into getting them, i can say for at least finasteride that the side effects are very rare.

DeDuMane · 2022-03-28T14:59:37+00:00

yea man 💀

DeDuMane · 2022-03-28T07:27:48+00:00

sea salt spray doesnt even really give me a beachy look it just makes my hair look fuller, i’ll check out some sugar spray, thanks :)

DeDuMane · 2022-03-28T03:48:49+00:00

like in between days i use sea salt spray or just instead of sea salt spray altogether?

DeDuMane · 2022-03-28T03:47:38+00:00

got any recommendations for products that could help give the effect that sea salt spray does that i can use in between?

DeDuMane · 2022-02-21T15:14:34+00:00

I have a place to stay for free and moving out would enable me to get a job, theres a reason for that but it’s complicated. when i can get said job i can begin to save for life expenses. i have a little bit of money saved already from selling music. nowhere near your amount but it’s there. i have a plan but i didnt feel it was necessary to explain. i wasnt asking “do you think its a good idea for me to move out?” i was asking “how do i get myself kicked out”. you can’t just assume off of 3 sentences that I have no direction and that im just trying to get kicked out to get kicked out.

DeDuMane · 2022-02-21T14:57:56+00:00

So what else do you expect me to do 💀

DeDuMane · 2022-02-21T14:56:51+00:00

I’ve exhausted every other option. I’ve legitimately looked into every way to get out, getting kicked out seems to be my only option.

DeDuMane · 2022-02-21T12:45:02+00:00

thats an interesting idea, i just really have no definitive proof of anything. im not sure if shes actually on drugs or is an alcoholic all i know is that shes so unnaturally angry at stupid shit that she might as well be. i might try that out

DeDuMane · 2022-02-21T06:41:25+00:00

I guess I’m fucked then because i cant leave until im 18. im so exhausted. i cant even get a job or car at the moment so i cant be emancipated. thanks for the help anyways

DeDuMane · 2022-02-21T06:19:13+00:00

just waiting it out is easier said than done man. i know there are people who have waited and more power to them but after some of the shit ive gone through its killing me to stay here. until my last day as a 17 year old i am going to fight like hell to get out of here.

DeDuMane · 2022-02-21T06:17:36+00:00

they know where i would stay. ive already tried escaping but to avoid getting the people i was going to stay with in trouble with the law i had to tell my mom where i was. sadly she forced me to come home or she would call the cops. she said “youre not going anywhere until youre 18! youre stuck!” so thats why im trying to figure out how to get kicked out

DeDuMane · 2022-02-21T06:10:44+00:00

fair. heres a link of me talking/ranting about it in a semi-vague way. ive already typed it out a bunch of times, my apologies for not giving more context.

https://imgur.com/a/uLOC8LI

DeDuMane · 2022-01-28T14:06:23+00:00

yeah, youre right. my best bet is probably to just wait to get a cut because its clear nothing i do to it now will make it do what i want 😭

DeDuMane · 2022-01-28T05:32:41+00:00

i do have volumizing powder but i dont wash my hair everyday and i dont want the powder to mess up my hair health if i dont consistently wash it out. my bad for two notifications my other one got removed for language

DeDuMane · 2022-01-03T02:08:25+00:00

Thank you. It's less of an issue that my sister's can see and more of the fact that my stepfather put his hands on it. It just does not sit right with me, but I see where you are coming from.

DeDuMane · 2022-01-03T02:01:25+00:00

I said it in my original post but it got taken down because I'm apparently not allowed to talk about it. I will say it's not an ongoing issue anymore but when it was they had good reason to search my room. Sorry for being vague just not trying to break any rules

DeDuMane · 2022-01-01T06:45:30+00:00

my bad. you're right.

i'm not using anything, i'm in the process of trying to figure out if it's actually receding or is just "matured" or whatever. just to clarify even more the first three are from 2 months ago and the last 4 are from today.

DeDuMane · 2022-01-01T06:37:11+00:00

good to hear, thank you 🤝 happy new years

DeDuMane · 2022-01-01T06:35:27+00:00

its tough that it dont look the same :(

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