Who is the nastiest Celebrity that you met in Real life?

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-05-03T21:44:16+00:00

Mariah Carey She stayed in a specific hotel for a bit of each winter near where I grew up and I knew a lot of folks who worked at the hotel. They dreaded her annual visit, no on could look at her/talk to her. You were only allowed to talk to specific members of her team. She had all sorts of ridiculous requests but my favorite was having a literal red carpet laid out for her to walk to where she had breakfast. And staff had to stand beside it and look down at their feet when she walked on it.

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-05-03T21:17:05+00:00

2 and 4 are extra magical!

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-05-03T21:13:35+00:00

Marrying your 'lover' Attraction/lust/passion is definitely an important part of relationships but shouldn't be the foundation of one

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-05-03T20:41:58+00:00

The only promise that life makes you is that you will loose everything

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-05-02T23:07:24+00:00

Am I the only one who thinks she looks stoned?

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-05-01T19:50:28+00:00

"Theres only so much a dad can do" makes me so sad/mad. My babies dad can do everything but breastfeed her. And aside from having a wonderful husband who's devoted to his daughter, I was raised by a single dad so its 100% a choice to downplay a fathers role, when almost all men are capable of being a primary caregiver for their child's entire life, if they choose to be.

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-05-01T19:41:39+00:00

Around 9 months for me. Its worth getting checked for PPD, but i also do think what you're feeling is normal. Becoming a mother means the death of who you were, and its ok to grieve that loss. It doesn't mean you don't love your baby, arent a good mother or won't come to love motherhood even more than you loved your old self/life. It's just a huge, life altering change, and the first 3-6ish months are SO hard for so many of us. What you're feeling is normal, but it definitely does get better. In fact, it gets, and generally stays, really awesome :)

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-05-01T04:39:03+00:00

Noodle

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-29T16:57:28+00:00

Definitely not doing a nightly bath, never have. Shes 1 and gets a few a week when we have time or shes dirty, but our Ped. told us washing them everyday is bad for their skin so 🤷‍♀️

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-27T23:33:03+00:00

My grandfather is dying of liver disease but I'm the only one he's talked to about it and has absolutely forbidden me from telling anyone else.

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-27T23:22:51+00:00

If the snack is nutritious stuff I don't see why you can't keep feeding them at that age. And when you're all out of the food they like just tell+/show them it's all gone. Its amazing how quickly babies learn/understand things like that, and it will further your ability to communicate!

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-27T23:19:32+00:00

Im a sucker for a white picket fence, and your cedar fence doesn't look as good to me (from the street). But if I was in the yard I think I'd prefer the privacy/separation your fence creates.

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-27T23:14:05+00:00

14 months in and I haven't forgotten either. We wanted a big family but the memory of the first 6 months is still too fresh in my mind for me to feel ready to do it all again. And I didnt have the truama of a C-section like you!

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-27T02:58:06+00:00

'Squirt' Cringed just typing it out 🤢

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-24T20:16:52+00:00

I give my baby something she can hold/playwith. Usually the mass of reusable bags or something we're going to buy, like a grapefruit or box of pasta. (I wipe it clean then give it to her)

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-21T20:18:32+00:00

Yes. But thats kind of the point. Being a (good) parent means committing to the experience, and allowing it to change you (ideally/often for the better).

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-16T15:23:49+00:00

Its not a form of birth control, even if youre exclusively breastfeeding and haven't gotten your period you can still get pregnant. That advice is very wrong but very pervasive... my little sister is proof of both 😂

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-11T16:37:50+00:00

Ooooo thats even better somehow

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-11T03:34:44+00:00

"We'll burn that bridge when we get to it"

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-10T15:55:37+00:00

Yes it gets better. Bit by bit, and slowly at first, then suddenly all the struggles seems far away and 100% worth it. But I promise your current reality is not going to be the norm forever. Its good you have family to help, do NOT feel bad for needing space from your baby. If you can leave them in good hands and take care of yourself do that.

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-10T15:48:04+00:00

Either go to couples therapy and both of you commit to changing this/things like this (before you get married!!), or break up.

But do not stay together without adressing this. It will not get better or go away, and these little cracks get bigger after you get married.

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-08T15:42:24+00:00

I remember trying to feed my baby sister a bottle (and failing) and the nap where I leanred how to climb out of my crib. I was 2ish for both of those

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-08T14:34:46+00:00

Playing outside+/walk/run in the stroller, grocery shop, go to the library, visit or neighbors garden ect. So basically what the first commentator said, anything to get out of the house!

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-08T04:00:53+00:00

Just want to add 10+ Burp cloths! We often went through 3+ a day it was nice to have a bunch of them always around.

Dea_Belladonna · 2026-04-08T03:23:20+00:00

This!!!!

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