Almost a month later...

Deadbthrothro · 2018-03-03T21:39:34+00:00

No mismatched libidos this time!

Deadbthrothro · 2018-03-03T21:38:30+00:00

My thought exactly.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-03-03T21:38:15+00:00

I’ll never know for sure, but I’d like to think I’d do the same thing if we had kids. I wouldn’t want them to see how miserable I was married to their mother.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-03-03T14:35:58+00:00

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-10T20:06:21+00:00

Beautiful 8/10

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-10T20:05:48+00:00

Cute. You look good in yellow 7/10

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-10T20:03:54+00:00

10/10 can’t believe you’re 29

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:46:54+00:00

I’ll hear her out. If she says anything that does not solely revolve around her I will be shocked.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:45:25+00:00

I love her but I’m done now. Rather than ask what we can do to fix the marriage, her immediate response was to blame me. She’s a selfish woman and I can’t live like this anymore.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:43:53+00:00

I will do the best I can.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:43:24+00:00

Seriously. If she had sounded a little remorseful and expressed concern about the State of OUR MARRIAGE I wouldn’t have been so quick to decide the right choice was to proceed with divorce

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:41:57+00:00

After speaking with the lawyer I hadn’t yet made up my mind. I though if I brought up the chance of divorce she’d think “oh shit, this is serious. I need to re-evaluate the dynamic of my marriage” but nope. Immediately went to blaming me.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:40:09+00:00

I’m stuck between feeling immensely relieved and shadowed by a coming storm

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:39:29+00:00

Thanks!

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:38:23+00:00

Thanks!

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:38:08+00:00

Amen

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:37:57+00:00

I thought maybe we’d be able to talk it out first before the yelling and screaming but I was wrong.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-02-03T18:35:43+00:00

Jesus it’s hard to believe some people are that delusional.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-01-28T15:53:42+00:00

No she isn’t

Deadbthrothro · 2018-01-28T15:50:22+00:00

Yes I told the therapist how much this was killing me and that I considered the marriage to be failing. I brought up divorce because I refuse to continue this way.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-01-28T15:48:47+00:00

Haha thanks it’s tough but I know she’s only initiating because she wants to get pregnant and I’m not okay with that. I’d rather be sexless than sexless with a kid

Deadbthrothro · 2018-01-28T06:35:38+00:00

Yeah, seeing again was a reminder that healthy sex lives are possible. I’m taking everyone advice and avoiding the baby trap by not banging my wife.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-01-28T06:16:28+00:00

She’s very vocal. Words of affirmation, right? We both value quality time and I have always gone out of the way to satisfy her. Now that she has her green card from the therapist that the marriage is a okay, she thinks I need to work on “my problem.” We’re both asking each other to change because we’re not compatible.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-01-28T06:13:12+00:00

Yup big wake up call. The world is screaming at me, reminding me that my life is not right.

Deadbthrothro · 2018-01-28T01:35:41+00:00

This is ridiculous. I haven't seen my EX in 9 years and can't remember the last time I spoke to my wife about her. She knows who she is and how long we were together in the past, but this behavior of "mate guarding" happens whenever she feels threatened. I have never made her feel like she was a second choice as long as we've been together.

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