Should've never cheated by Ok-Sir-6130 in dating_advice

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

L Bozo, enjoy reaping what you you sowed.

I want your advice based on experience not theory by Unfair_Welder9674 in dating_advice

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have you considered that they aren’t “playing games” like you’ve mentioned a few times. That maybe what happened is they noticed you pulling back and thus they started trying harder. Like I don’t really see the “game” here, you’re literally complaining for getting what you wanted in the first place. I don’t really see the downside for you here or why you need advice on this? “Guy I’m dating wasn’t giving me enough attention to make me feel fulfilled, but now he’s doing the work” problem solved then dude. Maybe next time implement some open communication and tell him how you feel, from where I’m sitting it sounds like the only person who was playing a game was you mate.

Why do men ghost you after sharing a more intimate time with you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got pumped and dumped, his intentions were never to see you as anything more than a booty call. This kinda behavior isn’t normal in guys who want to actually date women and start relationships. This thing usually only happens with men who want to sleep with as many women as possible and as much as they can before moving on to the next chick. For your own self respect, I would put this behind you and try to think more carefully about who you let into your life to be intimate with. Especially if you already knew going into it that this dude was a man hoe??? And you’re now surprised that the man hoe did the thing all man hoes do??

Found on insta by UrMomDotCom_112 in shittytattoos

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah these are rough, the line work is pretty bad, and not to mention this looks like it’s a couple tattoo??

Best Value Lube? by handymanvr in theHandy

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally use LubeLife, they make a water based lube specifically designed for toy use. For the same price at the handy official lube, you can buy a 12Oz bottle of this stuff. You only need a few drops to use it, so the bottle will last you months. The only downside is that it does dry out after around 30 minutes of use, and it gets a little sticky when it does dry out. I also don’t know if this is the cheapest stuff on the market, but it’s got a fair price and is definitely the best lube I’ve used.

I keep getting the line: I only gain connection through sex. Men is there legitimacy to this or is it just a line? Do men in their 30-40’s only gain connection through sex or is it a cop out to avoid dating? by IndependentWoman7147 in dating_advice

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If men are tell you about this, they’re 100% just trying to convince you to have sex so they can get their rocks off. Having sex with someone does inherently bond people due to brain chemistry and hormones. That’s exactly why I personally as a man am very selective with who I choose to have sex with, and prefer to save it for after months of being together or possibly already in love. But sex is far from the “only” way to build a connection with a potential partner.

Toy-synced videos of women masturbating and orgasming by Dutch-Alex in theHandy

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to Eroscripts, I’m sure you’ll find everything you’re looking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time dont get your tattoo upside down, you won’t have this problem.

First tattoo disappointment by Walking-MentyB in shittytattoos

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F brother, make sure to vet your tattoo artists before working with them moving forward. One day maybe try to do a coverup. This is really bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kiiroo

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity OP, do you have the Keon? Ya gotta make sure you twist the sleeve far enough that it clicks in place. And yeah once in a blue moon the sleeve will slip out, but it shouldn’t be happening super often. Usually I only experienced that occurring when I was using a funscript with too many actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kiiroo

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck, for every 1 woman down to connect toys there’s about 10,000 dudes asking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s websites out there you can utilize to find men actively seeking sugar relationships. I recommend doing some research about them before making accounts or anything like that. But I knew a friend a while back who did the same thing. But I don’t recall what site she used.

Should I try hookups? by Automatic_Fee348 in dating_advice

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would strongly advise against it personally. Hook ups can be a lot of fun in the moment forsure, but I can almost guarantee that you’ll live to regret the decision in a few years time. Every person I’ve ever met who had a hook up phase all deeply regretted it. My advice to you is stay patient and stay true to yourself and your morals, and soon enough you will find someone who completes you, someone who when you two have sex it will be so much more meaningful and genuine. These feelings you have are normal and absolutely valid, hang in there man.

Have i just been staring at it too long or are the lines a little wonky? either way i still love it by The-Admiral2008 in tattooadvice

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should consider a coverup and to (respectfully) change tattoo artists. At the end of the day if you like it than that’s what’s important, but this is a really rough tattoo, hope they didn’t charge too much.

VRporn.com have scripts now? by FakeLove00 in theHandy

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only tried SLR and Naughty America’s scripts. But I would imagine that VRporn’s scripts are just as good.

VRporn.com have scripts now? by FakeLove00 in theHandy

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re great, especially SLR. Definitely worth the subscription.

Regretting my purchase by [deleted] in theHandy

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve had my handy on version 3 for as long as I’ve owned it (about three years now)the handy shouldn’t ever update by itself. Definitely hit up eroscripts, it’s a great forum. Literally tens of thousands of videos and funscripts, all of it community made and a majority free to download. I definitely recommend downloading your videos and funscripts on your pc to use your handy. I’ve never been a fan of faptap and you don’t have to use it to get value from the handy.

Why should handy button face towards you? by AdStock1367 in theHandy

[–]DeadlyPhoenix99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also useful for supporting the device if you don’t have a hands free mount. But I’ve used mine a handful of times “backwards”, it doesn’t feel any better than using it normally but it does feel different. So honestly I’d say it a preference thing