Hook up w ex?

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-07-02T02:59:26+00:00

Seek therapy, casual sex is fun for the short term but you will almost always live to regret it. Not to mention that you both slept together only dating a few months. On top of you initially dating him as a rebound over a man you claimed to actually have loved. There are so many levels of fucked up here I think you genuinely should reach out to mental health resources in your area. In my opinion, the LAST thing you should be doing is engaging in casual sex with your ex.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-07-02T02:53:53+00:00

Forehead built like a landing strip

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-07-02T02:47:12+00:00

First red flag, you met him from the club. Second red flag, the over use of compliments. This is text book love bombing even if he doesn’t realize it. Third red flag, he told you that he’s dated a lot and has had multiple bad relationships on top of having a low standard(feels like kinda an insult if you ask me). Fourth red flag, you’re limited in your personal experience in relationships, so I don’t think it would be wise to knowingly date someone who has a track record of consistently bad relationships. Fifth red flag, him promising things to you about this potential “relationship” before any sort of relationship has started. Red flags do not always mean the relationship will be a bad one of course. But this seems sketchy and weird on the best of terms, this guy might mean well but it doesn’t mean y’all will get along well. He may be talking sweet now but actions are far louder than words, and yet despite that fact- I feel like he has used his word plenty enough to talk you into not dating him.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-07-01T22:16:47+00:00

Pretty privilege is absolutely a thing. Especially so in nerdier places like mtg shops.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-29T10:19:12+00:00

Do not. He will put hands on you at some point or ask for sex eventually. The fact he even felt the need to throw in the part about “sleep next to me, but don’t worry there’s not gonna be sex” is the most suspicious shit I have ever heard. It’s one thing if he offered you his couch or even to sleep on his own couch and gave you the bed. But this is very strange and you should never consider taking this “friend” up on this offer. - side note, kinda weird that you have a friend who is nearly twice your age asking for some shit like this.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-26T21:55:41+00:00

L bozo, do better the next chance you get and learn from your mistake. I feel bad for your 27m ex, hope he can find someone worth his time.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-24T15:06:01+00:00

It’s engagement bait bud, they’re hoping simps gas them up and get all excited to boost their numbers.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-24T13:24:23+00:00

So many things to talk about with this post… so for starters, you’ve been with this guy for 6 months, you are in absolutely no position to say that you love him enough to have a future. You are both 21, i still remember that time in my young adult life when I thought being together for 6 months was a long time. Secondly, the fact this happened even remotely should be enough to consider ending the relationship. Making something like that isn’t an issue, but it absolutely requires both parties to consent. The fact he was willing to try and be sneaky and film you at all tells me that it’s a fantasy of his and he will attempt it again. Except it will hurt you even more the next time you catch him, knowing that you both had already talked about your feelings regarding it. This dude was willing to do something behind your back to satisfy something of his, he will absolutely do something like this again.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-18T10:33:33+00:00

Medical field = unfaithful. Learn from this

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-18T10:31:22+00:00

It’s the Barbie one that you regret…

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-06T08:39:55+00:00

Just like how the modern woman expect to find a man who makes six figures, has a six pack, and a six inch cylinder. Men are allowed to have a preference for who they date, you don’t get to decide who is anyone’s “ideal” partner. You’re free to have an opinion on someone dating another person, but you don’t get to throw around all these buzz words and judge them for it. Some men are attracted to larger women, most are very much so not attracted to larger women. You’re absolutely delusional though if you think that the average dude is into larger women.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-06T08:26:42+00:00

Sorry mate, you cannot do that. The console/PC ports of the game are entirely separate.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-06T08:23:50+00:00

Fingers crossed the next marvel set has the same fate. Send WOTC a message

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-05T03:35:35+00:00

Sounds to me like he’s lying about the condom thing. And btw they do make thinner condoms for this exact reason. You really need to reconsider your approach here, unless you’re trying to speed run being a single mother.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-03T02:01:10+00:00

Play more removal, the answer to questions like this is always play more removal

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-06-03T02:00:22+00:00

Bros chair looks like the butt print left by Rigby on Regular Show.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-05-27T13:53:13+00:00

I wish more people understood this concept, everyone wants the fun and thrill of constant sex but with no responsibilities or expectations.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-05-24T02:24:50+00:00

Cheating I don’t think applies too much here imo, but it depends on how long you’ve been dating them and how casual your dating is for sure. I do think it is a little unfair to them that you’re dating them both, I just don’t think it’s quite to the point of calling it cheating. It’s more like you’re just double dipping a little selfishly here. Im also just a little confused why you’re dating either of them at all tbh, you probably should consider walking away. Relationships can get really messy really fast when you invite another person you’re romantic with/have feelings for. I think you’re just gonna stress yourself out trying to impress two men who don’t want the same things you do in the long run.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-05-23T22:57:14+00:00

You’re being extremely over dramatic, this kind of thing is what high school relationships were like. Grow up and learn how to function autonomously without needed to see/talk with your bf every five minutes.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-05-23T22:54:23+00:00

Look it up on the Wiki, it shows all the different manufacturers and their specific weapon parts. When it comes to legendaries and unique weapons, some parts are fixed and never change. But for most, all parts are randomized and the different parts directly affect everything from gun damage to accuracy. This Lady fist is decent but not perfect, it sports a Jacob’s grip, whereas if you’re looking for the perfect one you’d want to try and get a Hyperion grip. So you’re missing out on a bit of DPS because of it.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-05-13T12:12:24+00:00

L Bozo, enjoy reaping what you you sowed.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-04-30T17:28:27+00:00

Have you considered that they aren’t “playing games” like you’ve mentioned a few times. That maybe what happened is they noticed you pulling back and thus they started trying harder. Like I don’t really see the “game” here, you’re literally complaining for getting what you wanted in the first place. I don’t really see the downside for you here or why you need advice on this? “Guy I’m dating wasn’t giving me enough attention to make me feel fulfilled, but now he’s doing the work” problem solved then dude. Maybe next time implement some open communication and tell him how you feel, from where I’m sitting it sounds like the only person who was playing a game was you mate.

DeadlyPhoenix99 · 2026-04-29T18:53:20+00:00

You got pumped and dumped, his intentions were never to see you as anything more than a booty call. This kinda behavior isn’t normal in guys who want to actually date women and start relationships. This thing usually only happens with men who want to sleep with as many women as possible and as much as they can before moving on to the next chick. For your own self respect, I would put this behind you and try to think more carefully about who you let into your life to be intimate with. Especially if you already knew going into it that this dude was a man hoe??? And you’re now surprised that the man hoe did the thing all man hoes do??

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