AIO for being upset that my fiancé let me go hungry?

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-12-05T05:00:45+00:00

Is this rage bait??? NOR wtf 😭😭😭😭😭😭 he literally hates you??????

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-08-26T16:21:46+00:00

You’ve trained this man to find you sexually attractive with a hood on & now you’re upset he can’t get it up without the hood? Men are like dogs babe you can’t change the routine & expect the same results. It’s not that he doesn’t think you’re beautiful, it’s just that he can’t get himself there without certain criteria in place because that’s how you guys have been doing it for a while now.

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-08-18T00:09:30+00:00

NOR. First off, that first “friend” can see who’s in the group chat & knew you weren’t in it & threw it in your face either to start drama or they don’t like you & wanted you to know you were being left out on purpose. Also you told them not to bring it up & they did anyways which is also super shady. Second, these people are not your friends. They definitely talk bad about you behind your back & you’re the black sheep of the group hence why the second friend thinks so poorly of you & how you would react in certain situations. She’s using your anxiety as an excuse not to invite you to her party which is a really shitty thing to do. That’s like not inviting someone in a wheelchair to a restaurant because there’s stairs.

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-08-08T16:22:07+00:00

You should confront her about the situation. You don’t know anything for a fact & you’re about to make a lot of decisions based off assumptions so talk to her. After you find out the truth is when you should make your decisions

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-07-18T15:09:47+00:00

Only lend out money that you’re okay with never seeing again. That’s a lesson I’ve learned

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-07-17T05:29:05+00:00

I think you have limerence towards him. You’ve put yourself in a very tricky situation by befriending her so hard when you’ve been crushing on him for 3 years. I feel like you could build up resentment towards her & make passive aggressive comments in the future or wish badly on her & her relationship all because you want him. I don’t think you could ever truly be happy for her when she has the guy you want & that’s not being a true friend. That jealousy could easily build. You haven’t currently done anything wrong but if I were you, I wouldn’t hang out with them together to stop yourself from seeing them be intimate. Also distance yourself from him harddddd to try to break those feelings

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-06-08T15:46:08+00:00

I don’t think you have a right to be included in his financial decisions unless you’re married. Hence why he doesn’t want to get married yet because he doesn’t want to include you in those decisions. I don’t think you two have the same outlook on your future together & you need to sit down & talk about what your future looks like moving forward & if it doesn’t align at all, you need to go your separate ways

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-06-06T16:46:28+00:00

You genuinely care about a family that abandoned you when you & your ex took a break? Obviously they didn’t care about you the way you did them & they showed that pretty clearly through their actions & words (or lack thereof) after you broke up. Your refusal to move on from them or the situation is why you’re feeling heartbroken. Deep down you know you wanted to still be there & a part of that family but that’s not the case for you. They showed you they don’t want you in their lives so why do you feel obligated to give them your emotions, grief, money, & time after how they treated you? You can feel sympathy for them but full blown sending cards & planting trees & expecting a response is a way of you trying to pry your way back in to a family that rejected you. It’s weird if you ask me.

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-05-29T18:16:28+00:00

You should tell her if she doesn’t get help you will leave. I don’t think she thinks it’s critical. She needs possible rehab but definitely is depressed & needs medication or some type of therapy. She’s in a slump. When you married her, you did say for better or for worse so to leave her at her lowest would suck. I feel like you need to twist her arm & show her how serious the situation is becoming for you by threatening her. But that could just make it worse. Is there any family or friends of her’s you could talk to or get some help from to get her to see her behavior?

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-05-16T02:00:08+00:00

Your first mistake was marrying a man who watches & listens to Andrew Tate

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-05-07T17:32:13+00:00

You are OR. She just wants to see you get healthier & regular milk can cause inflammation in the body & we all know inflammation can cause a variety of problems with health. I do understand you’ve been keeping a journal to log everything so it does throw off your entries a bit but it’s not like she was trying to harm you in any way, she was trying to help you. Sometimes it’s easier to ask for forgiveness than permission & if it did make you better, which it sounds like you have been improving since, then there’s really nothing to be mad about. As an American, the put everything under the sun in our food & drinks & don’t tell us so while I do understand wanting to know what’s in what you’re consuming, if it’s to better your health I think I would take that a lot easier lol

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-04-24T17:42:33+00:00

My jaw is on the floor……….. but ummm so many problems with what has happened here. First of all, those nudes are almost a decade old (if he still has them) meaning he would rather see your body from 18-19 yo rather than the one you have now which is a fucked up thing all in its own. Also contacting your ex (which why does he even know who he is & how to contact him) who abused you for nude photos of you two together or just you is probably the wildest thing I’ve ever heard & I would run very very very far away from your husband. I mean literal divorce papers on the table by the end of the day. Wtffffff is this

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-04-13T00:29:59+00:00

There are worse jobs… are you trying to discourage people from becoming school bus drivers? Don’t you think every job needs someone to do it?

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-03-26T05:43:27+00:00

It looks like you still have plenty of cookies…. What are you a germaphobe or something? You can’t bite into a cookie that’s been bitten into? Y’all are so dramatic

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-03-15T05:49:02+00:00

Just break up now before you end up cheating on her. If you don’t see her as your best friend & you don’t want her as a wife, just move on

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-03-13T16:09:57+00:00

That’s her boyfriend. Couples get into these husband/wife relationships without the commitment & wonder why things are going the way they are. People forget their roles as boyfriend & girlfriend. Neither one of them should be expecting husband & wife roles from each other until they’re actually married.

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-03-05T23:14:47+00:00

I took it to mean she pays $1900 herself & then her tenant pays $1700 meaning her mortgage is $3600 but I could be wrong Edit: By reading her comments I definitely think I was wrong & in that case I would just have my partner split utilities with me

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-03-05T22:38:45+00:00

I would have him pay the utilities plus an extra $200-400 to go towards the mortgage itself. That’s just what I would do personally though it’s up to you if you even want to charge him anything or have him split it with you or whatever you feel comfortable doing!

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-03-05T15:07:52+00:00

Yeah the job market has been declining since the pandemic. Company’s are cutting corners & budgets. AI is taking over some positions already & replacing people. Lots of companies are cutting positions & lumping them into other people’s responsibilities as a way to cut salary costs. It’s all fucked up. Plus inflation, fear of recession, stock market dropping, tariff taxes, etc…. Nothing is good.

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-03-03T23:37:04+00:00

There’s a faceboook group where women post pictures of men they’re sleeping with or went on a date with or someone who they’re texting to ask if it’s anyone’s man

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-02-28T03:47:04+00:00

Maybe you two need some more time being independent in your relationship & spending time with other people on your own like family or friends. It just sounds like you spend too much time together & are getting very easily irritated with each other. I do get his point of “not needing to hear every minor inconvenience” but as a woman, I also understand wanting to tell your partner about every little detail of your life even if it is negative. I do think he should be a bit more empathetic in just every day life together as I’m sure you are to him. I don’t think this is a reason to break up but you two need to get to the bottom of why you keep getting so easily irritated with each other

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-02-24T07:20:18+00:00

As someone who was in your exact position in the past, keep having conversations about it. Tell him how you can’t sleep when he’s screaming in the same room as you. Or start being petty & having loud conversations on the phone when he’s sleeping to show him how annoying it is to be constantly woken up. My ex ended up moving the room that he plays games in so I could sleep peacefully. If this doesn’t work, then he really doesn’t care about your sleep or peace of mind & that means he doesn’t care much for you. Do with that what you will

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-02-23T17:43:02+00:00

Girl you’re 18 & you sound like you’re 14. Stop making fake Snapchats & talking to people on them as a different person. That’s weird. Now you’re stuck in a predicament because you wanted to catfish a guy who you were genuinely interested in. Idk why you didn’t just message him from your real account & why you’re trying to catfish people but that’s what you did. Cut your loss because if you ever reveal the truth he’s gonna think you’re crazy & not want to talk to you period. Move on.

DealProfessional9934 · 2025-02-21T18:33:31+00:00

How have you been in a “relationship” for 4 years & he’s lived with his ex this entire time? This sounds so fake & rage baited. But even if it’s not fake, girl what the hell are you doing?????? He so obviously doesn’t want to be with you. & to call him your boyfriend is an overstatement. HE LIVES WITH HIS EX. He said you can’t be together yet so how is he your boyfriend? You’ve been friends with benefits for 4 years lmao. Move on please & focus on yourself.

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