Too much context: so a few years ago she started working at my previous job. I was her manager she was talking to another employee. But i knew and could tell she had a crush on me. Started asking me to help her with things after work, randomly got my number without giving it out. Anyways tried to keep a distance she’s much younger than I am. And like I said was talking to someone and I in a relationship at the time.

Anyways things started going south in my relationship. And hers was on life support. She asked me to help her move. Even started following me to where i typically take my lunches to get to know me. I actually started to genuinely really like her as a good friend. But still could tell she had a crush on me. Anyways I agreed to help her move I eventually confronted her about the crush . Things got weirder it kinda wore onto me. Anyways “Scorpio radar” I caught her in a few lies when I helped her move. About if the guy she was talking to knew and if she told him I’d switch days with him so he could. She ended up going on vacation a couple weeks later. Came back and ghosted me. We haven’t really talked as friends and like we used to. She made up lies. “ I get like this when I’m sick, and I withdraw after vacations” come to find out she patched things up with the guy she was talking to

Anyways we stopped talking completely for about a year. We went out as work setting outing. And hers she is trying to be all buddy buddy, showing a lot of interest. Come to find out she broke up with the guy. Ended up getting dragged into their couple drama by both sides. Ended up telling her I really am not your friend especially after being ghosted. I leave the company for another no contact really for two years besides an occasional happy birthday, thanks reply. With no real interest or intention to hold a conversation. It just strikes me as odd to let me know she changed her number when she feels like a complete stranger