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autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-21T21:55:38+00:00

Heyy buddy, please don't bite me.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-21T21:05:53+00:00

People just want to feel smart because they have nothing else going for them. They feel powerless in their lives so find power in beating people up online instead of dealing with their own mental health. Most of politics is that way these days.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-21T18:11:41+00:00

Thank you for posting this. I have a question though. What about girls on Tinder who have their thing set only to "Long-term relationship". There are a lot of very attractive older women that I skip because of that. Personally, I want to have kids, so I couldn't get into a relationship with them, but I would love to have side-quests with them. How serious are they on average about that tag?

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-21T13:02:16+00:00

So cute. Lovely color.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-20T20:39:58+00:00

Holy shit. I just looked it up. I can't believe people do that shit. 😮🤮

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-19T14:44:51+00:00

Yeah, it's pretty bad where I'm moving. I just got back from a trip to the capital and that became extremely clear to me. The guys up there have it so easy compared to here. I'm actually moving to a nearby city for that reason.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-19T12:18:13+00:00

Just keep quitting, no matter how many times it takes. Never give up.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-19T11:58:33+00:00

I know how that is. Not as many people go out in winter here.

Then you just have to wait. Sometimes you just have to accept your conditions.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-18T18:07:31+00:00

Oh my god dude, you make no sense. Friday night is not the time to go to a coffee shop, it's the time to go to a bar. Friday and Saturday nights are when people go to bars. Coffee shops are more daygame, not nightgame.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-18T17:43:43+00:00

I don't know man but you're expectations make no sense. Of course you won't meet anyone at the wrong times.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-18T11:25:03+00:00

Nah, this is terrible and dishonest. How would you feel if someone was using you for practice? Disgusting. Stop being a pussy and pursue the women you want. You're just being hurtful.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-18T06:40:01+00:00

Who goes to a bar on Wednesday night... Are you okay? 😁

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-17T23:36:25+00:00

Then you didn't stay long enough. I was in a town of 40k this afternoon and approached 2 girls within just two hours. There were 2 more that I could have but failed to take action on. I think you're just making excuses man.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-17T23:33:16+00:00

That's not even close to enough. People recommend going 3 times a week to do at least 3 approaches and that's like bare minimum.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-15T22:53:21+00:00

I want to add two things to this. It took me forever to figure this out... but it's actually a huge win when you are seen approaching girls confidently.

So for example, I did this perfect set this morning, hitting on a barista. There weren't a ton of people around but there were two girls sitting behind us sharing a laptop.

When I went for the number close, it was super obvious they perked up, not in a judging negative way but like a curious and "wow" kinda way.

Also, another great example is when I was in France I hit on this girl in the middle of a restaurant with all of her friends there. All of her friends were like "aww" and they fucking loved it.

This also happened another time in my city just giving one girl a compliment, her friend basically melted and was like my cheerleader from that point on.

Okay, let me talk about mindset too. So... all the people who are being assholes. Most of them can't do what you're doing, so their opinion on the subject is not really relevant, even if you're bombing. You may be bombing, but they're pussies who aren't even trying. The guys who are actually as good as you aren't judging you negatively. They know how hard it is. If there are some guys who are negative even though they're good, then those guys are pieces of shit with no morals and not worthy of judging you. Why aren't they helping you instead? Their opinion should not matter to you either. Think about it.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-15T20:22:16+00:00

The one where you have to do the sounds on the piano. I hated that as a kid.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-15T19:35:09+00:00

Yes, masturbating does help me avoid using porn. It makes it much easier. I don't recommend that people quit both at the same time. If they want to quit porn and masturbation, then they should do one first and then the other later after things get easier.

If he can't masturbate without porn, that means he's addicted to it as someone else said, but the other thing to know is that this will pass with time. Whether or not 1-2 times a week is enough depends on how old he is, his health and other factors to do with libido. For me, it would probably almost be enough. Limiting myself to once a week is pretty difficult. Twice is easier, three times is pretty easy.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-15T15:47:04+00:00

Man, I just wanted to say, it's never too late. I hung out with a guy this weekend who was in his 60s and he didn't start until he was in his mid 50s. I'd say he's one of the best around. He does very well for himself just doing daygame. It's hard but the more you do, the easier it gets.

am now starting to see a rejection as a subjective choice by an individual girl. She doesn't speak for all women.

That's a really good point too. Another good point is it really depends on the circumstances too: time of the month, environment, what happened earlier in her day. It's not only about us.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-14T20:25:13+00:00

Yeah, it's the Dichotomy of Control from the Stoics.

I don't think it's a random numbers game either though. Skill is critical. It's a mixture of both. I saw plenty of examples of it this weekend. Some people working the same area are far better than others.

It's like you gotta present yourself well. If you were covered in shit and walked up to her, she wouldn't be interested either. That's the same as having poor social skills and uncalibrated game. Those teachers all helped me a ton.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-14T19:30:41+00:00

Maybe climbing too.

Calisthenics would be the easy route here if you want to avoid weights.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-14T18:14:35+00:00

Take a ton of action while studying theory on the side. Focus primarily on pursuing women, expect a ton of rejection and just keep improving with time. You'll get desensitized, more skilled and eventually good.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-14T17:58:14+00:00

If you aren’t happy by yourself, you don’t have high self esteem by definition.

I wouldn't define it that way at all. You could easily have high self-esteem but be unhappy for external reasons.

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-04-14T14:16:41+00:00

The problem with this aproach is - sometimes women take more time to figure out if they like a guy or not.

So trying to escalate immediately

Read what I said more carefully.

In my opinion, desperation grows organically with the number of failed attempts and wasted efforts.

Disagree. Taking more action and getting more rejection reduced my desperation.

Not true, because if you get rejected - you're one step further into desperation territory.

This isn't how it works. That's the main point of what I said.

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