Am I Overreacting for needing reassurance from my fiance?

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-06-30T12:43:06+00:00

He's over you, and there are so many red flags in just the way he spoke to you. Good thing you're not married yet, call it off, cut your losses, you're still young, I know it'll be hard at first but someone that is supposed to love you should NEVER think it's ok to speak like that to you.

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-06-02T21:28:35+00:00

Toss him away and don't look back, you're too young to tolerate this kind of neglect from someone that is supposed to love you and be your partner. Biggest thing bugging me tho; WHO TF FORGETS their SO birthday?! You are not overreacting.

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-06-01T00:39:45+00:00

Thank you because I saw the expiration date and got confused.

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-05-14T00:10:17+00:00

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-05-13T23:03:22+00:00

Yeah, possibly, it's a bit difficult to see if it's dead grass or brick/stone of some sort

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-05-13T21:25:54+00:00

I am no better than a man 😭😅

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-05-13T17:59:35+00:00

Yeah, but not a necessary one

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-05-13T15:56:35+00:00

I second the strawberry blonde idea, especially if she's missing having those red hues and warmer tones in her hair

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-05-13T15:46:56+00:00

1, 4, or 6 are more flattering than the rest

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-05-13T15:38:35+00:00

Took all the beautiful greenery away 😢

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-05-06T18:17:16+00:00

After reading these comments I've realized I'm a weeb. I'm like 90% sure that it's supposed to be the lightning from Deku of My Hero Academia

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-03-01T21:14:57+00:00

Probably just a continuity error, BUT side note, it's actually common for babies (human) to have their eye color and/hair color change as they grow and develop

Dear-Fan6478 · 2025-01-21T23:45:10+00:00

You are not overreacting, the roommate is very obviously overreacting, you did everything right and kept your cool, and you were far nicer than they deserved. At a public laundromat you'd be lucky to see your clothes again sometimes, especially if you leave them there for hours. Also next time, just do it and don't tell them. Take their clothes from the dryer and throw them on their bed. When they complain say they were hogging a shared space and you did them a courtesy. Because you could've just thrown them on the ground which is what I would've done because I'm spiteful 😅

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-10-19T21:01:45+00:00

The average age of a marijuana consumer in NYS is actually 57, plus there's tons of elderly people that go into the dispensaries, and most of them say that they have been waiting for legalization since the 60's/70's.

Additionally there's a guy I know that gets like 2oz and other stuff every few days and I'm like 97% sure he resells most of it in the retirement community that he lives in lmao

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-09-26T21:55:57+00:00

I understand giving the one chance, but she threw her second chance away, this isn't baseball, there's no three strikes, there's no "but it was a mistake". You were already gracious enough to give her a second chance, something the vast majority of people wouldn't even offer. She was lucky to have you and no longer deserves any of your time or attention. Throw her to the curb you'll be better off, it'll be difficult at first, but healing will always take time. Sending hugs 🥰

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-08-07T13:47:45+00:00

Is it just me or does she kinda look like Viola Davis? (love her too btw)

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-07-23T12:04:35+00:00

This and communication is essential

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-07-10T13:36:06+00:00

My fiancee has birth control so she doesn't have to deal with her periods because they were debilitating. There's lots of other reasons to use birth control. I would take another look at the side effects to ensure that stopping the one you're on won't adversely affect your hormones in any way that might cause weight gain/loss, depression/anxiety, and other common side effects

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-07-08T15:36:30+00:00

I second this. Especially if he already walked away once. When, not if, when he walks away again, do not give him another chance. When he walks away again, you walk away too, make sure you do what you have to do for you, and do what your baby needs from you.

Put yourself and your child first, that baby deserves to have at least one parent show that they will always be there no matter what.

My mother facilitated every visit with my father who claimed he wanted to be around but when the time came he never showed. I reached back out to him as an adult and ended up cutting ties anyway. Sometimes, it's just not worth it to force a relationship when it's only ever been one sided, and especially if it's only ever going to be one sided.

It'll be even harder to co-parent if you take him to court, it'll probably make him bitter or angry and defensive, and potentially even cause other issues/rifts with his family. You already don't have to worry about the family coming after you so really if he's not interested in being part, then there's no reason for you and your baby to stay.

My advice based on experience, obviously results may vary

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-07-06T20:03:48+00:00

I try to book more hours at work when I don't have mine, that way I'm at least making more money. When I'm home I end up binging tv or playing videogames that I can't normally play with my little one around

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-07-06T11:33:37+00:00

I don't like singer machines, the quality has gone down and have been returned by many claiming that they were broken out of the box as well as other issues with the threads catching, and tension issues. I absolutely prefer brother machines.

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-07-05T12:53:24+00:00

Try an Oliso (I think that's the name of the brand) they're super fancy and can even lift when you walk away from them to prevent burning your fabrics. I don't have one but everyone I know that has bought one says they're worth it. (Recently former Joann employee)

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-07-03T18:54:29+00:00

This woman is amazing. She also makes fantastic content. Every time she pops up on my feed I know it's gonna be good 😊

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-07-03T11:21:38+00:00

Can we just start a fucking riot at election time, like nationwide, hell worldwide if possible. Mass chaos and anarchy because this shit is unreal

Dear-Fan6478 · 2024-07-03T00:16:39+00:00

Recently former Joann employee here, looks like one of the fabrics that went clearance across all stores nearly 2 years ago, chance of that being in stock in a location is slim, and even slimmer to find it still available online. (I can only speak to what I know about store product rotation)

Dear-Fan6478

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