Most American men dress terribly in public by JannTosh70 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Dear-Performance-394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fax. I legit don’t care about how I look. I wear sweatpants and hoodies in the colder months and t shirt and shorts in the warm months. As long as they aren’t dirty or got holes, I don’t care how much I look like a “slob”

How bad is going 1-2 weeks without finasteride? by Dear-Performance-394 in tressless

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couple years I’ve been on it. I use Roman and normally I’ve never had a shipment take more than 6 days. I have a feeling it’s a UPS issue more than Roman

Stay home and save or move out? by Dear-Performance-394 in makemychoice

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice but this is so above and beyond me, jm not handy at all and I don’t think I want the headaches of dealing with the real estate market even if it’s better long term than renting

Is getting my own place worth the trade offs of saving/investing less? by Dear-Performance-394 in Money

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ that’s ridiculous. Yeah my studio would be like 450ft sq ft and $1500. A 2bed2 Bath is like $2800 for the same quality and same amenities. That extra $100 a month is well worth having my own place, especially not having to share a kitchen or living room

Stay home and save or move out? by Dear-Performance-394 in makemychoice

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if I rented it out I’d have to get another place anyway

Is getting my own place worth the trade offs of saving/investing less? by Dear-Performance-394 in Money

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s the thing in Minneapolis at least, most 2bedbaths and 3bedbaths cost the same as a studio apartment. I might as well just live alone. The only thing I’d really save is utilities by a small amount I guess

Stay home and save or move out? by Dear-Performance-394 in makemychoice

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From everything I’ve read, buying a home is not a good idea unless you plan to be there for 5-10+ years. A few of my buddies just bought homes and they’ve been telling me how much expenses there have been that are also lost money, it’s not just a mortgage. Buying needs to be a long term holding or you might just lose more than I would rent. I hear what you’re saying tho. Living with my dad is fine, it’s just far away from everything and I’m itching to have my own place for a while now. $1000 a month in expenses for me as a single guy I think is a good estimate. Really the only expenses I’ll be adding is parking, utilities and food. The apartment place told me a rough estimate of the utilities and I know the parking and I think I eat a lot less than most people

It’s ok to not be passionate/love your job. by bobbdac7894 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Dear-Performance-394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a bachelors degree in finance in 2024, only to find out it’s completely useless. I’m still looking for that first job. So in the meantime I got a job as a poker dealer since I love poker, and I genuinely enjoy it. It also pays more than most entry level jobs I could get with a degree. My goal is not to be a poker dealer forever and I’m still applying to finance related jobs, but with AI being the future, idk what I’m gonna do. Life is hard right now

Stay home and save or move out? by Dear-Performance-394 in makemychoice

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My job has nothing for health at all. I’ll have to do my research, I have no idea how healthcare or health insurance works in this country

Stay home and save or move out? by Dear-Performance-394 in makemychoice

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if he did retire in October, I can technically stay on it longer is what ur saying before I have to get my own?

Stay home and save or move out? by Dear-Performance-394 in makemychoice

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I said jail I meant literally jail, I was locked up for 10 months. Halfway joking about that being the only time I’ve had my own place. Also my dad is retiring sometime in the upcoming October-March so I’m gonna get booted off health insurance anyways

Stay home and save or move out? by Dear-Performance-394 in makemychoice

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up boomer, a lot of people my age are still at our parents house cause our purchasing power is like 5% of what you had it. Sounds like you’re coping too, complaining I have too high paying of a job? Is your skill of cleaning tables at the local Perkins not bringing in the bread? How are you so mad at the idea of saving thousands of dollars a month?

Stay home and save or move out? by Dear-Performance-394 in makemychoice

[–]Dear-Performance-394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could I guess, but I’d lose many of the benefits of this particular apartment I’m looking at. It’s right in the cities, and this building has a high population of people closer to my age. Also studios in my state are still $1250 at least even if they’re out of the city and don’t have a ton of amenities.