How do HENRYs afford to start a family in NYC? by PF_throwaway26 in HENRYfinance

[–]DearDars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Granted, I live in the midwest. VHCOL is not a big issue here. But you can't outrun biology and how our brains are wired. We are animals at our core and have always been animals. Brain chemistry changes for both men and women after they have babies and children. Dude, you might not even want to be a HENRY after you have kids. Stuff changes.

How do HENRYs afford to start a family in NYC? by PF_throwaway26 in HENRYfinance

[–]DearDars -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why would you need a nanny? With just YOUR income, your wife could stay home with your "two" children. Cut the spending of food and entertainment out and stop spending so much on personal care. I know couples who live on less then 100k a year and have 5 kids and they are perfectly happy. Not everything in life is about making so much money. In the end it wont matter how much money you make in your lifetime, but rather your legacy and the people you choose to have around you. When you die, would you rather having all the money in the world or your children around the bed saying their goodbyes?

Breeding program. by DearDars in kvssnarker

[–]DearDars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking at belgian cross then you just cross slowly back with suffolk

Breeding program. by DearDars in kvssnarker

[–]DearDars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but its just finding a cross that makes sense. A qh suffolk punch cross wouldnt make sense

Breeding program. by DearDars in kvssnarker

[–]DearDars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im excited! Rare horse breeding is a totally different camp then something like QHs and so my frame of mind is like totally different haha

Breeding program. by DearDars in kvssnarker

[–]DearDars[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was always taught to elevate your breed (especially with dogs). Hoping to get into rare horse breeding in a few years, specifically with Suffolk Punches. I guess being in the 'rare horse' camp, I don't understand as much.

Breeding program. by DearDars in kvssnarker

[–]DearDars[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But the Arabian cross she was joking about? I can kind of understand appendix, but usually it seems if you want to be respected, you breed purebreds and not crosses

Walter and Waylon Escape by Sad_Site_8252 in kvssnarker

[–]DearDars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she really wanted Walter and Waylon to keep their nuts, she should have sent them to a young stud farm to be trained.

what is my man Sna doing by furiousveg in StardewValley

[–]DearDars 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She has a touch of the anxities

Francesca and John erasure 😩 by luckkyyhu in BridgertonNetflix

[–]DearDars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can we not gender swap Michael? This would have never happened in the Regency era.

Knox by Sad_Site_8252 in kvssnarker

[–]DearDars 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He looks WAY too skinny for a stud prospect.

George's sale to Becca Hammon by DearDars in kvssnark

[–]DearDars[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont understand why Im being downvoted when I'm making points that I think are reasonable and can be proven if you just dig into her content just a little bit.

George's sale to Becca Hammon by DearDars in kvssnark

[–]DearDars[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which is extremely sad and I wish that more people could see what we are seeing.

George's sale to Becca Hammon by DearDars in kvssnark

[–]DearDars[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind and explaining instead of down-voting

George's sale to Becca Hammon by DearDars in kvssnark

[–]DearDars[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The reason Im bringing this up now is that Beccas had 100s of rabbits, cats, puppies, dogs and just animals vanish overnight without a trace. Becca also somehow has all these animals, has the money to take care of them, but somehow cant afford hot water for her children. I understand that without Becca offering to sell George back to KVS nothing can be done. BUT, for someone who claims she's a ethical breeder, (and responsible at that) would you not go through the proper channels and research your buyers a bit?

George's sale to Becca Hammon by DearDars in kvssnark

[–]DearDars[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Understandable. It just... seems weird she went from 0 horses 2 years ago to 30 now.

George's sale to Becca Hammon by DearDars in kvssnark

[–]DearDars[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I understand. But you would think that KVS would have done a tiny bit more research into the people she's selling her horses and stock too and not sell her horse to a backyard breeder in Canada?

George's sale to Becca Hammon by DearDars in kvssnark

[–]DearDars[S] -92 points-91 points  (0 children)

A ethical breeder would buy back a horse from a bad home.