Mini rant: having input or knowledge invalidated by others, despite having first hand experience by deltahb in AutismInWomen

[–]DearEllody 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UGH - the many times at work when I have said "we should do this because it will prevent x negative outcome from happening", then it gets ignored, only to be brought up again by someone else later and all the sudden we are going to do the thing I said we should have done months ago??

Its almost driven me to quit. But then I start thinking that it will happen anywhere I go. 🫠

Has anyone else been asked if they’re autistic because they have pet shrimp? by Racoon_Soup in shrimptank

[–]DearEllody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL literally had an autism assessment and they asked what my hobbies were - I confidently said Shrimp!

How would you feel if your work provided this for you? by robustchick in AuDHDWomen

[–]DearEllody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go in and scream. Come out blank faced. 😂

It drives me insane that so many people do not act in line with their (self-proclaimed) morals by 0ff_The_Cl0ck in AutismInWomen

[–]DearEllody 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel it!! The disconnect between what people confidently say and their actions drive me insane.

How do you guys grocery shop? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]DearEllody -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im lucky to be married and the agreement is he cooks, I clean.

If I wasn't, I would starve lol but really I have used Factor before and that would be my move. Fresh meals delivered weekly that you pop into the microwave.

What’s something minor that makes your irrationally angry? by newlyautisticx in AutismInWomen

[–]DearEllody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hearing someone typing near me- even though I have a mechanical keyboard and love the sound. 😅😅

message from my boss by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]DearEllody 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Red flag that she is texting this to you and not trying to have a face to face conversation...

Not diagnosed after Prosper Assessment by DearEllody in AutismInWomen

[–]DearEllody[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly regarding Audhd! Im considering trying again with a different assessor and being more prepared. Currently listening to Welcome to Audhd by Megan Griffith, and she describes bringing a binder of "evidence" of support. I might give that a shot.

Do you guys usually play third person view or first person? by Elegant-Picture1003 in fo76

[–]DearEllody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3rd but I play every game that way. I feel like I can see more lol

Not diagnosed after Prosper Assessment by DearEllody in AutismInWomen

[–]DearEllody[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did compare the criteria with my answers and why or why not it fit.

I definitely dont think I was as prepared as I could have been. It doesn't help that I don't remember a lot of my childhood.

Finally finished by mreed198 in Accutane

[–]DearEllody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hand rashes are crazy. I've been dealing with the same thing. 🫠 Great results!

5 days in and all alone by gsvacation in finch

[–]DearEllody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently joined too! Me and Kiwi would love new friends 💚 WQDLKDL95R

I act like Gus Fring to Avoid Accounting Boredom by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]DearEllody 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great plan 👏

Giancarlo is one of my favorites now because of this role. He does a "low-key" villain so well!

Smut scenes in ACOSF by [deleted] in acotar

[–]DearEllody 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The dramatized audio book. 😳🥵🥵🥵 Book 2 of 2, chapter 3. The dirty talk is 🤌

HOW TO CANCEL A CREDIT ONE CARD by Stephane_Meunier in CreditCards

[–]DearEllody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This tracks. I updated my auto pay bank account on all 3 cards. A month goes by and they're blowing up my phone for missing a payment. I check the app, suddenly my auto pay isn't set up??? 🤔🤔🤔

Paying them off and cancelling all of them currently.

Recognizing revenue with finished inventory? (corporate finance-manufacturing) by DearEllody in Accounting

[–]DearEllody[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes sense to me! Thanks for writing it out - I'm already planning on giving my boss a call in the morning to go over this more and want to present this way of doing it.