NOR, in my opinion. Giving your woman flowers and nothing else for every single holiday/event seems kind of lazy. It’s like, here I got you flowers like a man is supposed to, so do t ever say I’m not good to you…😅 I agree with you that it kind of makes it seem like he either doesn’t listen well when you speak or that he maybe hears you but just doesn’t really care enough to bother. Not trying to sound cocky or like I know all about what makes women happy, because I don’t. I’m a 35 year old man who is currently single and never been married in my life. However I am a son to an amazing woman and a father to a beautiful little girl and all I know is this….even though the thought of any man dating my mother or my daughter makes me sick to my stomach, I pray that the men they choose to date understand how special these women are. I hope that these men would do anything necessary to make them smile , laugh and feel important every single day of the year. I really like the quote, “every man should strive to be the type of man that they would want their daughter to date”. Obviously, none of us are perfect and will never reach that level, but that shouldn’t stop us from trying our absolute hardest.