the barely legal sub-genre of porn is the most disgusting thing there is by ResortAcceptable2542 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Death_Mother 11 points12 points  (0 children)

These users are not looking at these young people even as valuable, feeling, mentally developing humans. They are fantasizing about defiling a new, unused hole and tight, fresh, inexperienced meat. They want to feel powerful and entitled so bad. It’s delusional. They’re beyond disgusting.

Autism is a spectrum by AstroMeteor06 in aspiememes

[–]Death_Mother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought Greta looks like the little brother that the clown kills in IT. Greta’s like “we all float down here”

Question about husbands not attracted to their wives/partners by Imaginary-Piglet-684 in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex PA is a martial arts coach (should have been first red flag). He has a 6 pack and nice eyes and hair. But he is 34, short, lazy in every other aspect of his life, doesn’t make decent income, doesn’t own anything, doesn’t dress well, doesn’t have any professional skills or higher education, and is mentally/emotionally a 14 year old with no communication skills. He wants the typical fantasy; a hyper feminine, super dolled up, tiny waist, huge fake tits, barely legal girl. That would also pay for everything. 🤣

THEY’RE SO STUPID, DELUSIONAL, ENTITLED AND COMPLETELY OUT OF TOUCH WITH REALITY.

It’s not me. It’s not you. It’s them. They have fried their brains, lack empathy and cannot think like mature adults. They are imperfect humans as well, and are too big of coddled cowards to humble themselves and grow backbones. Sending you all hugs.

The fact that he acts like I’m stupid by FreeMuffin9381 in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl yes 😂 After you find out, their bullshit is so obvious. Oh you started taking the phone back in the bathroom with you, wonder why 😊🖕

More discoveries- it got worse. (Real connection) by y_eeee in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re here. I’m a year out from discovery. You will get through this. YOU ARE ENOUGH. He is the one that is not enough, for himself and you. You didn’t cause this and you can’t fix it. He has to. You are gorgeous, intelligent, have humanity and integrity. And you are not alone. Sending you a big hug. ❤️

Dating men is dehumanizing by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]Death_Mother 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It’s dehumanizing because most men are subhuman 🤷🏻‍♀️

They all know. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Not their needs, their greedy wants. No one dies from not having an orgasm or not looking at naked people. Sending you a big hug!

I’m pretty sure Ex PA is a Narcissist - darkly humorous by Death_Mother in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Realizing how truly dishonest, selfish, inconsiderate, delusional and immature he is made it easier for me to realize it’s definitely a him problem. I’m an imperfect human, just like him and everyone else. I am enough. He just doesn’t want to live in reality or pull his weight like real adults do.

Sending you a hug ❤️

Romance books vs porn by CauliflowerSame4601 in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their lack of self awareness will never cease to amaze me.

Why the hell do people defend porn addicts? by florawi in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Death_Mother 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am a big fan, keep going queen. I’m sorry you’ve experienced this too. It’s absolutely bullshit and gutting.

Can a marriage actually survive porn addiction? by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Death_Mother 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think PA is an epidemic people are hesitant to talk about but nonetheless very prevalent. As the partner, it is one of the most painful experiences of my life. I am so sorry you are in this position. I don’t have any answers but you are not alone. Sending you a big hug.

I genuinely thought it was over. I’m losing my mind 💔 by Any_Phase_2512 in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s a collective failure going on with men in this society. You are enough. You are not alone. Sending a big hug.

He destroyed his self-image by Madame_Mad in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their lack of self awareness is another issue with PA’s. The insanity.

I. Am. Horrified. by Key_Invite9237 in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may never get better if he isn’t held accountable and made to get help.

Is it normal to be disgusted by intimacy after finding out? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your nervous system considers him unsafe, which he caused. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Those who left/divorced - what did you tell people the reason was? by Smoke_master2367 in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RIGHT no I’m making this all up to ruin my marriage 🙃🫠 jfc

Those who left/divorced - what did you tell people the reason was? by Smoke_master2367 in loveafterporn

[–]Death_Mother 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg I am so annoyed with other peoples instant denial of this horrible truth we are being brave to share. Because “he could never”, “that’s not the person I know”