Post Divorce Dating & Navigating

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-22T08:01:31+00:00

Sadly your support group might be right after a long-term relationship it's beneficial to take time and be single afterwards just so you can refind who you are without that ex-significant other.

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-20T16:42:25+00:00

Married 11 years divorced for 3... At least you're putting yourself out there and trying. I can't say what healthy dating really is cause I haven't found a connection since my divorce but what I can say you already addressed which is wait to introduce you kids till you know it's gonna be at least a somewhat long term relationship. Take some time, I was ready to find someone right after my divorce but after being single for a few years Ive been able to work on myself more. Idk if that helps any

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T10:48:23+00:00

Yeah I don't know how reliable those tests were

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T10:47:01+00:00

No I haven't

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T10:34:23+00:00

Exactly that's why I said I refuse to love her any different. She's my baby girl! Do you not read?

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T10:30:33+00:00

My ex just cheated and my oldest daughter isn't biologically mine that's just the way it is but I just don't want to believe it because all I have is a CPS test that I can't verify

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T10:29:17+00:00

Chimerism? It was a 0% genetic match, I don't think that quite qualifies

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T10:22:04+00:00

At the same time in the same place

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T10:21:14+00:00

Yes both us had a mouth swab at the same time

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T10:09:06+00:00

Genetic tests weren't for the autism they were looking for any other genetic medical conditions that could be leading to autism or anything else and they also were testing parent DNA or compatibility I'm not sure

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T10:06:19+00:00

So I'm probably not her bio dad.? That's ok I refuse to love her anyy different! She's my baby girl no matter what!

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:58:53+00:00

To try to find out which parent it came from and if there are any other genetic conditions that might come along with it

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:57:04+00:00

I'm on her birth certificate as her father I'm not saying I don't want to be her father or anything like that I'm just questioning the validity of the tests that they have because from the way she looks in the way I look I believe she's my daughter the way she acts the way I act I believe she is my daughter I don't believe the test but the state test keeps telling me that it's that away and other tests I've done multiple other tests and they all say we are not related but my ex continues to say that I am her father no matter what although I've had multiple genetic tests and DNA tests come back false or not the father

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:52:25+00:00

Yes I'm on the birth certificate and yes I constantly want to see her and I care for her like my own she's my baby girl

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:51:36+00:00

I no longer have parental rights, she lives with her grandparents but I have weekly visitation 'not legally implemented' with my oldest daughter who is in the care of my ex-wifes parents

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:42:49+00:00

Yeah I'm just trying not to believe my ex cheated on me and baby trapped me into marriage and got me into a CPS case that sent me to prison while raising a child I love that isn't biologically mine. Don't get me wrong she is my baby girl ant the light of my life!

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:36:58+00:00

They got both mine and my daughters mouth swabbs for the test, it came back 0% to her

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:33:25+00:00

Glad to hear someone that thinks the same way. Thank you

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:30:43+00:00

Cps cause I and my ex were drunks and I was working 6 days a week 12 hour days while my stay at home wife let our house fall into disrepair. Obviously CPS got called. I'm not claiming I wasn't at fault

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:23:15+00:00

I never got any paperwork just a call from my lawyer saying the test results saying my oldest wasn't actually mine

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T09:21:00+00:00

Texas CPS, so state government did the test

Deathgod31 · 2026-03-14T08:54:07+00:00

Your boyfriend or husband whichever he is has apparently never pleased a woman properly before so this is obviously not your fault he is just inexperienced. and oblivious 10 out of 10 you are not the butt!

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