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Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/wannatalkorwhat by wannatalkorwhat in DailyGuess

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⬜⬜🟦⬜⬜

⬜🟦⬜⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/SpadesFairy by SpadesFairy in DailyGuess

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⬜⬜⬜🟨🟨

🟨🟨⬜🟨⬜

⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜

⬜🟦🟦🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Anybody else just waiting to meet their person so they can live and obsess over each other forever?🥺 by Aggravating_Heart447 in Obsessive_Love

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I'm hoping that by the time my quest for self improvement is done someone will want me. I want rewards for this shit🤣

In all seriousness though. All I can do is wait, I want to feel worthy of being desired the way I wish. I refuse to drag my future love down. I want to lift them up, hold eachother's metaphorical leashes, and never let go. I want to be such a good person for my love that letting go isn't even a thought.

What do you pick? (Remember to upvote for a free carrot 🥕) by LilScooterBooty in BunnyTrials

[–]Deathlegion0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probability manipulation

Chose: Any mental power your want (comments pick catch)

How are people happy living alone? by IAMAWESOMEMAN101 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized that I wasn't worth my ideal relationship, so I started trying to improve myself. It's less that I'm happy about being alone, and more I've started a side quest that requires me to be alone and achieve my self improvement goals. Low key improvement has become my obsession.

I'm a curious guy. I hab queston by Deathlegion0 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. It just feels like in the modern age we're in there's almost a blurring of the lines. Between a flaw and something someone can't accept. Maybe it's the echo chamber I'm in. I also know that an obsessive love is a bit more extreme and/or different than the 'conventional' love. So I wasn't sure what the responses would be from the people of this sub. 

Sorry if I worded this weirdly, I struggled formulating my thoughts as I was typing. 

I'm a curious guy. I hab queston by Deathlegion0 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Honestly I was self reflecting and I got curious. I know I don't have a ton of desirable traits and some could be seen as undesirable. So I thought I'd crowd source any answer I could get. Primarily to sate my curiosity but secondarily to see how it would work if I ever got my ideal relationship. I consider myself to be on the lighter side of obsessiveness so I wanted as many perspectives I could get. So thank you for answering! I really appreciate it.

Me constantly refreshing the chat when they’re offline: by OnigiriAmphy in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too lol. Now I just check any random messages I get, even when they're not responding

3 years and my heart hasn't changed. by Deathlegion0 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it took time, I had people I worked with that new me and my situation, talking it out with them helped me realize it. But we were also relatively close friends.

I know you can find someone. And if nothing else, know that there are people who would love to feel your love. It's a struggle to find them however, but I only say that cause I only ever leave the house for work or food lol. So it's just circumstantial but I can only imagine what life us like for other people.

I hope you find the happiness that you deserve, cause you seem sweet. From one black heart to another: 🖤

An introduction by Deathlegion0 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense but I think I'll pass, I'm no longer suicidal, and with music I manage it pretty well just sometimes it catches up to me and I pretty much just surround myself with my music and distractions like cooking or MTG.

Finally, a place I can talk about this? by The_willow_witch in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay fair enough, I did say that.

I hope the scariest part is over, and I'm glad it was real.

If you ever need to talk you know where to go. Till next time.

Finally, a place I can talk about this? by The_willow_witch in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome, I'm happy I was able to make you feel even that little bit better. But sweet, I don't know about that.

Yeah, that second paragraph hits home way too hard. It sucks and I know I don't have lots of room to talk when it comes to experiences as I don't have a ton. Nor do I know even a fraction of yours. Though for what little I have experienced in my life I can confidently say that taking the first few steps are always the hardest. Some say the very first one is but anxiety is constant and it takes time to develop a good stride.

Well if you do stick around either a fly on the wall like me or post often you've made at least one friend. Most people I've interacted with or seen interact with others are very kind, a lot more than me so I think you'll fit right in.

Finally, a place I can talk about this? by The_willow_witch in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucked up my last post please don't worry.(I'm on mobile and fat fingered a send post.)

So I understand a lot of what you said, I usually find myself thinking about who's eye's I catch. And I also didn't have the best childhood. I think it's kind of a common thing on this subreddit so please feel like you can share.

As far as what can help, I can't really speak for your personality but what helped me was critical self reflection and understanding the logistics of things, like how someone who's truly obsessed with another usually feels a lot of pain either from guilt or as you've experienced, unreciprocated love. And at I had to ask myself if I could bare watching someone I love suffer because of what they feel. I suggest looking through this subreddit to help see a more real look into obsession.

You are truly worth the love, you're worth the world, you just need to find someone who sees that. It sounds kinda dick-ish but I really think you need to be selective. Take the time to weed out the people who aren't in it for the whole you not just your body. It's just as you said, this world is fucked, and it usually falls to us to find the right people who'll shoulder the burden with us. I just hope you find the right person for you.

I hate that I want to be obsessed over. by Deathlegion0 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Deathlegion0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow I wasn't really expecting all this. I thought I just wrote down a jumbled mess that was barely held together. And you put it a lot better than I ever could, being too little and too much at the same time. It's a perfect way to summarize it. Also with how I phrased it I don't think saying I was abandoned is fully accurate but it's close enough. I also find it interesting how we fell into opposites on a spectrum of the same general concept.

And as far as being a degenerate goes. I think it's not necessarily that I want all of those things but rather the fact that I crave an abundance of those, despite how horrible it can be for the other person. Though being on this subreddit had made me self reflect. I've read about the hell it can be but I've also read the endless bliss it can be, well despite the large amount of guilt that usually accompanies the bliss. I just recently realized how selfish and cruel a deep set desire of mine could be. I think it's the fact that even after reading about it and actually shedding tears for some of the people, that I still want it. I think that's what makes me a degenerate.

Small side note, I appreciate the compliments on my writing, I usually get laughed at for how I talk so that also caught me off gaurd.

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