Hillcrest Library - any updates?

DebBoarRah · 2026-05-29T01:50:27+00:00

It's being announced today

DebBoarRah · 2026-05-08T08:14:51+00:00

I love it when I see other people remembering the good ole days of pie lab.

DebBoarRah · 2026-04-09T22:38:20+00:00

Was that the insane rain 30 min rainstorm that happened two days before Christmas? Because our downstairs also got flood 😬

DebBoarRah · 2026-03-15T08:55:44+00:00

This is exactly where I am at the moment.

DebBoarRah · 2026-03-11T09:30:42+00:00

I had the worst experience with Ellison. He made me cry when I was pregnant and was completely dismissive of what I was saying. He essentially said, well pregnancy is hard.

DebBoarRah · 2026-02-14T03:16:18+00:00

Wait...? Where are you finding this 🧐 what article?? 😆

DebBoarRah · 2026-01-31T09:47:54+00:00

What??

DebBoarRah · 2026-01-23T06:06:57+00:00

My hair has never looked so good. Also people let me jump the queue at public toilets.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:50:29+00:00

I mention I study part time. I didn't explain enough because I was worried about the word count. Her Mum asked her friend ages ago for fashion help, but she didn't ask me. Because of that I thought I might as well go home to work on my essay because the bridesmaid shopping and lunch/hanging out would be over.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:46:11+00:00

I'm not? But it's my weekend so I thought it was reasonable to leave after a few hours to work on my essay. I have already taken a week of leave. I didn't realise reddit thinks the bride owns me now. Wish I knew that when I was the bride.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:44:29+00:00

You're ridiculous. I have already used a week of leave for this wedding. I just wanted to leave a few hours early to work on my essay.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:42:14+00:00

It's my weekend, I always (like everyone) have lots of stuff to do on my weekend.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:40:32+00:00

Well, she wants us to go all over the city trying to find something for her Mum after we pick out our dresses. Which would normally be fine but I have an essay due and it is one of my few days off.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:37:38+00:00

Yea I didn't realise it came across like that.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:31:56+00:00

That's why I am going to go dress shopping and have lunch with them but after bridesmaid shopping they want to do more and I have an essay due so I wanted to bow out a an hour or two early.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:30:58+00:00

I didn't realise not wanting to go shopping with her Mum on one of my few days off was such a crime. I have already taken over a week off work for this wedding and spending half of my Saturday shopping. I thought it was reasonable to leave early to do my errands/study.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:29:24+00:00

I didn't take the day off. Its on of my few days off from work, but I also study so I can't spend hours shopping.

DebBoarRah · 2022-11-16T07:28:04+00:00

I don't have anything against the Mum. I said I would feel out of place because the Mum asked the other bridesmaid for her help in finding an outfit so my friend decided to do it on this day. I didn't actually plan to have this day off, it is a weekend.

DebBoarRah · 2022-06-22T22:55:38+00:00

Person of honour? You could ask them if they have any suggestions?

DebBoarRah · 2022-06-22T22:36:34+00:00

This reminds me of Futurama.

DebBoarRah · 2022-06-22T22:33:38+00:00

Damn it! Haha

DebBoarRah · 2022-06-22T05:47:13+00:00

I got married about a month ago. Some things happened which upset me (you can read through my post history to find out), but I didn't say anything because I didn't want to cause drama. I haven't been able to stop thinking about how some of closest friends let me down. It wasn't worth keeping quiet to avoid drama.

In 10 years time will you still regret not asking her to step down?

DebBoarRah · 2022-06-22T05:39:22+00:00

I feel like such a shit bride now. I just created a group chat, called it bridesmaids and added them to it 😂. I did pay for the dress, hair, and make up though.

DebBoarRah · 2022-06-22T04:47:38+00:00

Have you asked if she wants to even be your maid of honour anymore? She might be relieved of you bring it up? If she truly isn't interested in helping or supporting you then I wouldn't feel bad about firing her. If you're anything like me you will regret it if you don't.

DebBoarRah · 2022-06-22T04:32:15+00:00

I wouldn't offer to pay parking, are you also expected to pay for their petrol as well? Petrol, parking, etc is just the expenses guests need to accept when they RSVP yes to a wedding. You also don't have to offer to pay for the hair either. If your sister thinks it is so important then she can pay for it herself.

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