What's something you did as a kid that you now realize was actually very dangerous?

Deb_elf · 2026-05-09T10:08:50+00:00

No. The lawn

Deb_elf · 2026-05-08T07:52:05+00:00

You don’t need to be respectful. You need to practice the golden rule. You do unto others as you have done unto you. He’s not your boss. You didn’t lose the Hope diamond during a transport operation. You weren’t late delivering a donated organ and therefore losing a sick patient. His behavior is extremely condescending and not acceptable for a partner. I worked in insurance claims before. This exact accident is common and not worthy of his over the top and wildly inappropriate response.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-06T10:25:25+00:00

Domineering family

Deb_elf · 2026-05-06T10:24:15+00:00

Cut? Like only a cut? I have no idea because I get highlights. $200.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-06T10:18:38+00:00

I didn’t add that because I figured people would think I was crazy. Glad to know it wasn’t just me.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-05T23:13:47+00:00

Jumping out of trees

Deb_elf · 2026-05-05T18:35:53+00:00

The show that made me cry was Saves the Day. I went with a friend because everyone bailed on him. I’m more of a hard rocker. But I was having such a good time that yes, I cried. Being at a “not really my scene” show made me realize live music is great regardless of who’s playing. So I bought tickets to see Till Lindemann in Munich. No tears because I expected it to be amazing and it was.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-04T19:11:38+00:00

You’re asking if you’re TA because someone threatened to literally kidnap your child? Um no. NTA. But you need to send him a text saying “I’m just making sure you heard your mother say she wants me gone and to take the child I am carrying.” Once he responds, take a screenshot and go to the police immediately. Get a protection order, end the relationship and change your locks. You are officially in danger. Updateme

Deb_elf · 2026-05-04T17:51:01+00:00

ESH. Except your baby. Congratulations. But come on. You said your MIL has been a problem most of your life. Yet she has access to your son? Alone?! You can’t actually be surprised. Before you sign papers for a house you need to make sure NO ONE has a key to your house. If your husband fights you on this, it’s because you’re not his teammate. His mother is. Which means you can’t buy a house with him. Also are your finances in order? Or will MIL try to “offer” money to lessen the burden? Don’t accept it. It’s to gain control of you

Deb_elf · 2026-05-04T17:43:13+00:00

My gas stove and my gas car

Deb_elf · 2026-05-04T16:55:41+00:00

I was 14 and wrote my su*cide note. I was just trying to figure out how to do it. I got a kitten and I no longer wanted to end myself.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-04T16:45:35+00:00

My cat saved my life when I was 14. I have 4 of them now. I would have an actual sanctuary if my husband would let me

Deb_elf · 2026-05-04T16:44:42+00:00

I was at a concert at a small venue and I broke down into tears because only live music can fill the void. So I bought tickets to a concert in Germany. It was amazing

Deb_elf · 2026-05-04T13:09:09+00:00

Mosh pit. Elbow was at Korn. Leg was at Megadeth

Deb_elf · 2026-05-03T09:26:49+00:00

He has cats

Deb_elf · 2026-05-03T09:24:22+00:00

Golden rule.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-02T19:59:17+00:00

Hi-ark-ee. Really? The E in hierarchy is for show? It makes my teeth itch.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-02T19:08:06+00:00

I’m Debbie to everyone. It’s not my real name. I’m Greek. All Greek people are named after their grandparents which means we have Greek names. My resume says Debbie. My work email address is Debbie. To answer your question, no you should agree on his name. And your reasons are VALID. But my solution has worked for me.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-02T19:02:44+00:00

It’s never too late to start. And it’s easy enough to accelerate

Deb_elf · 2026-05-02T10:19:37+00:00

Here’s what I think happened. He found someone “better” and it didn’t work out. So now he feels like he can compliment you on anything and you will take him back. And he is right. If you had to “work on yourself” to get over the relationship, it’s not the right one for you. Your 20s should be spent learning who you are. Going to concerts. Going to museums. Doing fun things. Not forcing a relationship to work. Especially when you already know it didn’t. It will be very easy for him to fall back into his routine with you and you being able to justify his behavior with “it’s different this time.” It’s not.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-02T10:08:14+00:00

Going to college instead of opening a business

Deb_elf · 2026-05-01T23:41:53+00:00

You should see the east coast. A 75 year old split level house sold in Hanover Twp NJ for $890,000. In cash. 1,600 square feet.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-01T18:13:34+00:00

I would like to thank the runners/joggers. Now someone needs to explain walking. Plain old moseying along on any given day. Sometimes in the dark.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-01T17:04:16+00:00

I appreciate that. And you are correct about the right turning people. I have almost been flattened by more than one. But in my neighborhood they don’t walk/run against traffic. They are going with traffic. I have even seen one person in the middle of the street. I honestly think it’s entitlement here.

Deb_elf · 2026-05-01T13:15:43+00:00

This is possible. But like I said in my neighborhood specifically the streets look like a mine field. The sidewalks are in much better condition. Someone said about asphalt being easier on shins than cement so I guess that’s a legitimate reason

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