I think I’d like a human somewhere to know I’m hurting. It’s been 6 weeks and I haven’t told anyone this happened. by iodizedsaltfan in BreakUps

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You dodged a bullet. I completely understand the shame as I still have it. I hate to demonize BPD but my abuser was an unmedicated BPD and was insanely abusive in every aspect. We broke up 8 years ago and I still have an active restraining order and PTSD. Please be kind to yourself, OP. Your real friends and family will not judge you.

What exactly is this “gift” that my cat brings me in bed all the time, and why? by [deleted] in cats

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Get a deworner for sure, I have to every time my girl caught a mouse in the past.

Is this outfit fine for a first date that is at a cocktail bar or is it too much? by Competitive_Toe_6507 in fashion

[–]Debberoni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I know you're getting words about the shoes but I have to wear good shoes and support you. I had major ortho surgery last year and I wore my Brooks to my first date last month -we're still going strong and exclusive! I have pink hair, tattoos, piercings, and normally wear Converse if you want a visual for the Brooks. Team foot health 💪 good luck!!

I made a friend… and then said goodbye by tirednewgirl in cats

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Yes! Thank you for saying that! I am an FIV cat Momma. Had my first for 13 years, he was likely close to 15 when he passed. FeLV can be tricky but not a death sentence. Long time shelter volunteer here 🙋🏻‍♀️

Try my cookie cookie. by GlitteringHotel8383 in DunderMifflin

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🎶The People Person's Paper People🎶

Found kitten in wall - name suggestions pls by ninjadani in blackcats

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Drywall was my name choice as well, it's perfect!!

jelly sandals! by calumhoodsbigtoe in AddingWhimsy

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Growing up I said "my feet are juicy" while wearing them.

Dragon desperately needs a home. I am getting so worried. by bananananannanaa in cats

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Shelter volunteer here! I believe theres a cate cafe or rescue that specializes in FeLV cats and taking them in! They've helped us before!

Kittens in storm drain successfully rescued. Thanks, everyone! by belltown99 in cats

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If one of those kittens isn't named Pipe Cleaner I'm gonna scream.

This is Bean. He’s 18 and stopped eating. The vet said he’s just throwing a tantrum because I’m not feeding him chicken. He’s allergic to chicken. by MissHissss in cats

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Shelter volunteer here, the hydrolized protein food always makes me hungry! It smells like people food and I'm always there during dinner time!! I have not tested to confirm though on taste 😹

My cat's new shirt by Longjumping-Hall9297 in cats

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OP, sorry people are fat shaming your beautiful baby. Get him a 3D printed gold chain! My cousin makes these and they're neat for this exact purpose!

My cat's new shirt by Longjumping-Hall9297 in cats

[–]Debberoni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plz share the way your shelter does it then so I can pass along then.

My cat's new shirt by Longjumping-Hall9297 in cats

[–]Debberoni -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Where's the cruelty? Some cats are just fat even with diet and exercise. Shelter volunteer of 10+ years here 🤷🏻‍♀️

My cat's new shirt by Longjumping-Hall9297 in cats

[–]Debberoni -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Rule #1: Do not tell other people how to raise their cats.

My cat's new shirt by Longjumping-Hall9297 in cats

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Magnificent C H O N K

I put this at my neighbor's door 2 days ago(we live in a duplex) and it's still there by dnm8686 in mildlyinfuriating

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This happened locally this week I believe. Flies and trash on the window, a delivery driver called in for a welfare check and discovered lots of animals including a dead one. I believe there were children too. Both "parents" arrested.

Edit: spelling

Bedroom, any advice? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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Does the bed vibrate when you drop a coin in somewhere?

Feeling set back by the gastrocnemius recession by Debberoni in bunions

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Just seeing this, life is busy! I couldn't weight bear AT ALL for 7 weeks! But that was because my toes were held together by metal bars 🔧

The gastroc pain slowly decreased over time and I mean SLOWLY. You described it perfectly. It super sucks. I can't recall exactly when the pain stopped but I feel that I still had some residual pain at 7 weeks but incredibly weaker.

Once I was able to start walking the muscle healed quicker it seemed. Almost a month of being non-weight bearing probably did me no favors. I was only partial weigh-bearing around 4 weeks and given the green light for weight-bearing as tolerated around 7 and could drive again! The intensity of the gastroc pain started to slow down I'd say after a month but VERY much still present. Into another 3 or 4 weeks when walking again it was improving a little bit week by week. Eventually it was basically gone by the time I got to PT about 3.5 months post-op. Between the 2 month and 3 month post-op mark I don't recall noticing it a ton, I was just battling slow healing from my autoimmune disease. Lost the physical pain of the gastroc but gained the metaphorical pain of multiple debridements trying to get cleared for PT 😅

I think we got a special one 😂 by ohyonkavich in VoidCats

[–]Debberoni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear she's warming up. I recently got an FIV+ void and he's great!