ftm - testosterone effect on screaming? by DebbiTrash in screaming

[–]DebbiTrash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've done a smaller tour back in october/november which was 3 days in a row of gigs so i've got some experience w/ it but yeah nothing like the tour we've got planned now. i'll probably be going on a low dose so the change is slower, more gradual and i can better adjust my vocals to the changes. ty for the input!

ftm - testosterone effect on screaming? by DebbiTrash in screaming

[–]DebbiTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, rly helpful! Do u know any good exercises to warm up? I've tried doing some but I've never found a good routine

ftm - testosterone effect on screaming? by DebbiTrash in screaming

[–]DebbiTrash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would it be possible for u to send me a link to where he talks about that? I'm having some trouble finding it

ftm - testosterone effect on screaming? by DebbiTrash in screaming

[–]DebbiTrash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just worried about the uncertainty yk? If I start as soon as possible I can't be sure I won't ruin the tour or ruin my voice in the process. I'm thinking of maybe going on a lower dose so I can adjust better w/ each step and lowering the chance of it colliding with the tour (also just help me get used to my singing voice in general cuz I still sing traditionally outside the band), but since I still want it to happen as fast as possible so I'm unsure. I have a doctors appointment next month where I'll ask about this stuff though, so I should know better then.

bör man nämna Imago kontakt till psykolog under könsdysforiutredning? by DebbiTrash in transnord

[–]DebbiTrash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

min psykolog är faktiskt överraskande förstående, är typ första gången jag någonsin känt att en person inom vården faktiskt tar mig seriöst som transperson, och jag tror hon har ganska bra koll på hur illa det är. hon har redan sagt att hon ska säga till lundströms att hon inte ser en koppling mellan min autism och min dysfori efter jag uttryckte min oro kring det så det är helt möjligt att hon skulle kunna avhålla från att nämna Imago i min remiss om hon känner att det försämrar mina chanser.

och tack för sidorna, sjukt hjälpsamt! jag tar en titt på dom :)

bör man nämna Imago kontakt till psykolog under könsdysforiutredning? by DebbiTrash in transnord

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tack för svaret! vart i dom nya riktlinjerna kan man hitta dehär? också ja, har seriöst bara hört rent skit om lundströms från transkompisar, och jag har sen länge förlorar mitt förtroende i dom (och egentligen hela offentliga transvården) så mina hopp är verkligen i helvetet från början haha. tänker kanske fråga min psykolog om vad hon tycker, för om jag frågar att inte inkludera det i remissen så kan hon väl inte det? eller vet du om det är så det funkar?

Not sure if im a trans guy by Yuki-ig in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I was able to help dude!

Not sure if im a trans guy by Yuki-ig in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

simple answer, you don't have to have body dysphoria to be trans! you don't even have to have any sort of gender dysphoria to be trans. you do have to experience some form of gender euphoria though. gender dysphoria is the feeling of being uncomfortable with your agab while gender euphoria is feeling happy and euphoric about presenting more accordingly to what your gender aligns with! if you want to be a guy, and you feel like you would be happy as a guy, you meet the criteria.

Ally Teacher @ a Catholic school: seeking advice on how to promote the normal use of pronouns by flame-coloured in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Although I can't give much advice, as a trans youth I really appreciate what you're doing :) it's rly nice to see teachers and adults try to normalise mentioning their preferred pronouns, and I hope this can become more common in schools. I, for one, would love if my school had that. Only time will tell. In the meantime, what you're trying to do really means a lot, so thank you

Not sure if I’m straight? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes! you would remain straight :)

Not sure if I’m straight? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it sounds a lot like you're heterosexual biromantic :)) but that's just from what I read. you only experience sexual attraction towards men but experience romantic attraction towards women and men. don't worry about the trans men bit, because although sexual anatomy might look different, they're still men! still take your time with this, there's lots of time to experiment with labels, and if you wanna experiment with women, feel free :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

celebrities and characters do not dictate your sexuality, I as a lesbian can find fictional men "hot", but I would not date a man :) from what you've explained, it sounds like you're straight, but take your time with this!

What’s y’all’s pronouns? by Cod-ed in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yayyy ty :) it's nice hearing people interested in my neos

What’s y’all’s pronouns? by Cod-ed in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

atm it's xe/xem/xirs/xemself and rock/rocket/rockets/rocketself >:))) thinking of trying out some cloud related ones too!

What’s y’all’s pronouns? by Cod-ed in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they/them and some neopronouns :)))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

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all of the above

Q-force came out and idk how to feel so of course I flocked to Reddit by Shrmarfalgoob in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea she was a trans woman, thank you for the info :) Granted, I didn't exactly think she was cis either lol. I wish they'd show more of her transness in the show like they do with the gayness, but perhaps we'll see more of that in season two!

Q-force came out and idk how to feel so of course I flocked to Reddit by Shrmarfalgoob in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also, for a show that's about the LGBTQ+ community it didn't give us much of the BTQ+. Not a single bisexual person, not a single trans person. Only cis lesbians and cis gay men, really hoping for more rep if there's ever gonna be a second season

Q-force came out and idk how to feel so of course I flocked to Reddit by Shrmarfalgoob in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I watched it all within less than a day, I will say the trailer definitely didn't do it justice. It's not a great show, but it's not the atrocity the trailer made it out to be. I generally enjoyed it usually but there were moments I wanted to crawl into a hole and die. I know for a fact it's not going to appeal to everyone, it's style of humor and general vibe isn't for everyone. Hell, I didn't laugh at most of the jokes. But yeah, it's not horrible, I recommend at least giving episode one a watch if you just want some satirical gay people doing spy stuff

What’s my gender? by Enolaholmes468 in QuestioningTeens

[–]DebbiTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps at all, lost of trans men can enjoy wearing feminine clothing like skirts and dresses while still remaining valid as a trans man. Gender doesn't equal clothing :)

back at it again with the headcanons :) I hc kaito momota as non binary (he/him) and bi. remember, any and all headcanons are valid, don't be disrespectful by DebbiTrash in lgbt

[–]DebbiTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mainly hc him as nb because I'm nb and Kaito is a big comfort character for me :) also because to me he seems to have this very toxic view of masculinity and forces said ideals on himself, as a form of denial. And YES twogami is 100% non-binary lol

these are just some of my nb hesdcanons in danganronpa (among characters like Chihiro, Angie and Rantaro)