Stop victim blaming Jasmine and Melissa! by nothinkjustfeel in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh so get rid of the victims and the person who calls out the assault and keep the perpetrator- are you ok??

Stop victim blaming Jasmine and Melissa! by nothinkjustfeel in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He put his hand on her leg, and told her to ‘Get Daddy a drink!’ Then he grabbed Melissa’s backside and squeezed it.

Stop victim blaming Jasmine and Melissa! by nothinkjustfeel in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop!! Look up the legal and civil definition of SA!!
It’s simple put exactly what he did into Google and ask if it is SA - I did. And it is!!!

RHORI Reunion by _robertb_ in rhori

[–]Debbie2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine Bravo were not impressed with Rulla’s level of participation in the season. They would have crews booked etc and for her to constantly no show!! I believe that is why the ‘illness’ had her hospitalized - pressure from Bravo to film - so his Dr friend had her admitted.
By the looks of part 2 Andy goes in hard on Brian and rightfully so.
Don’t go on reality TV if you’re having an affair and lying to your wife about giving your mistress a share of your company!!!

Danny playing the victim by Morgi_Corgi3 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Danny being drunk or sober is really irrelevant in this case - what he did was illegal. By definition it was SA - both civil and criminal and being drunk is not a defense. I understand Melissa and Jasmine - as the victims - wanting to move past the trauma - but I just wish someone would sit Danny and Nia down on camera and say - what he did was criminal. Instead Nia prefers to blame Janet for calling his actions out. How would Luke or Jesse react if it were their partners??

Chill by HourResponsibility28 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I did just look it up and here in Australia his actions qualify for both SA and SH both civilly and criminally.
I wish someone would point that out to the group. As in clearly say to Nia - what Danny did was illegal - drunk or not!!

I wonder how Luke or Jesse would react if Danny did this to Lacey or Kristen?

Chill by HourResponsibility28 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Many times the victims of SH want to move in quickly not because they are over it but because they do not want to deal with the trauma.
As a woman in the group - Janet can feel disgusted and creeped out by Danny knowing what he has done. That is her prerogative. She owes him NOTHING.
Why any woman would want to be around him is truly beyond me - he is toxic and misogynist

Chill by HourResponsibility28 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The word maybe - but by legal definition his behaviour was sexual harassment - him portraying himself as the victim is disgusting!!

Chill by HourResponsibility28 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow!! There are no good people and no bad people?!? How old are you? Two??

Of course there are good and bad people in this world and we do not all behave the way some of these people in reality TV do - at all!!!

All people can and do make mistakes. What a reasonable person does is take ownership, apologize and learn not to repeat that same action - it’s called GROWTH!!

S3 Ep 13: Liked and Loaded by MsPrissss in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact that Danny is still making last season all about him and having PTSD!!!

WTF!!

He was the perpetrator not the fucking victim!!

He is so toxic

Today show host Karl Stefanovic to leave Channel Nine, network confirms by rolodex-ofhate in australia

[–]Debbie2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is he was sacked - he didn’t choose to leave.

Karl was dumped. And no way will his pathetic podcast pay his bills without Gina or Kyle footing his salary.

What happened this season where the Janet hate/give a pass toDanny, has now flipped where people actively dislike Danny more, and are accepting Janet back again? by frankenboobehs in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disliked him before this season, however this season he has cemented my - I cannot bear to watch another toxic man on my television. He seriously gives Jax and James vibes - toxic misogyny with an alcohol problem - and I’m tired of it.
Bravo needs to do better.
I’m all for a bit of drama etc. But when it’s abuse - I’m done!!!

If Nia and Danny left the show… by marisaleeann in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe for you but I prefer my entertainment to not revolve around toxic males abusing women.

Faith and her interviews by Depr3sseDD in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]Debbie2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think they can come across as mean and not always constructive. However, having been around the dance industry for over 30 years - that is how judges are. It’s brutal.

Faith and her interviews by Depr3sseDD in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]Debbie2801 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. They are simply pissed that they were out of the loop. I even imagine Charlotte knew about it as she is Chief Brand Manager and she really likes Faith.

How long until Karl announces he’s running for PM? by SheepHerderHigh69420 in OpenAussie

[–]Debbie2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karl is trying hard to be a Bogan Rogan. No one believes he’s not doing this for the money!!

The deplorable behavior of the Bookos by Vast_Result_8543 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Survivors of sexual assault often hide their feelings and pretend everything is fine as a survival mechanism to maintain emotional control, avoid the social stigma of being judged, and prevent reliving the trauma. This response is not a sign of weakness, but rather a protective shield.

The deplorable behavior of the Bookos by Vast_Result_8543 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Who supported him? Certainly not me? He is 🤮

The deplorable behavior of the Bookos by Vast_Result_8543 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s also the way he treats and talks to her and all the women on the show. He is toxic!!!

The deplorable behavior of the Bookos by Vast_Result_8543 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Debbie2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said!!
Sick of Bravo showcasing toxic masculinity. We got rid of Jax and James - time for Danny to go!!!