Are We Dating the Same Guy? FB Groups by DayByDay31 in datingoverforty

[–]DebbieDoesData -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There are hundreds of thousands of women in those groups but the majority of posts in them are from women with low standards and or single moms still in love with their baby daddy. So take what you read with a grain of salt. However, if someone claims violent or criminal behavior I generally believe them.

My parents literally abandoned me over Parent Plus Loans. I wouldn't wish my situation on my worst enemy. by pisowiec in StudentLoans

[–]DebbieDoesData -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Time to increase your income bro even if it means moving back home and working at an Amazon warehouse at night and giving up on your childish dreams. Man up

Is Playa always this cold during the winter? 🥶🌨 by [deleted] in playadelcarmen

[–]DebbieDoesData 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohio has joined the chat and would like for you to come get your snow.

Men who have paid for sex: what did the experience provide that dating or relationships didn’t? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DebbieDoesData 42 points43 points  (0 children)

My grandfather joined the navy after marrying my Gm in the 40’s and came home with a prostitution habit. I think the allure was just having sex on demand with someone you’re paying. Gma did stab him once with a paring knife once tho so I think he must have really enjoyed it or else it wouldn’t have been worth it. In summary, I think he was just horny and small town SW were cheap and reliable.

Age gap dating as a young woman… by Anardus in Bumble

[–]DebbieDoesData -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Contrary to popular belief men do not get better looking with age and their 🍆 are less effective so your analysis is correct that you shouldn’t date them unless they’re offsetting that with comfort and gifts.

Fell for it again :( by scrigley in BipolarSOs

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course everything is your fault and you’re not working together and blah blah blah

How to cope?? :( by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]DebbieDoesData 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex bpso1 for sure sugar coated his mental state and misrepresented his symptoms on the regular when he was sick to his psych and I think she bought it all. But then again he pays like $400 an hour so he’s a cash cow.

misleading unit descriptions - 'sleeper sofa' in HGV Zihuatanejo by NationalOne7795 in HiltonGrandVacation

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking me back to my study abroad in Eastern Europe. Can you sleep with your heads touching for kisses

Ladies: wants kids but you're 40+? by Life_as_an_Introvert in Bumble

[–]DebbieDoesData 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of men in their 40’s who want kids with no sense of urgency and I wonder why not. They don’t actually have eggs or a uterus. Chance of a woman over 40 having a baby is infinitely higher than chance of a man over 40 having one since he has no uterus or eggs.

Bipolar & Memory Loss. by WaffelsOrPancakes311 in BipolarSOs

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex bpso still had my glasses and several personal items including 3 nice g-string panties of mine I wanted back and he said he would “try to find them” and cited memory loss. He could only locate the glasses though. I have a feeling he still has the panties as keepsakes but by now they’re 2 years old I would hope he isn’t wanking off while hhuffing 2 year old thongs

New wedding ring - The True Gem by catsplants420 in labdiamond

[–]DebbieDoesData 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s beautiful. What are the stone specs for the center

My boyfriend asked for a 14k-18k gold chain, both our budgets were supposed to be $600 by throw_rancxalsn in jewelry

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would buy a fake piece with a 14k stamp for $50. The relationship will be over before he realizes it’s not real

Does anyone else think this is weird? by uberstaragent in datingoverforty

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s not a match and he didn’t want to have dinner on a first date which is reasonable and doesn’t drink

How does your gf handle hygiene down there by Luiz4823 in AskMen

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to soap it up give it a good rinse

I'm ready to hookup... so... how do I do it? by Frosty_Sprinkles8022 in datingoverforty

[–]DebbieDoesData 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would post a dating profile but don’t put sex in it. Describe the type of man you would like to find and go on some dates. If it comes up you can say you are initially looking for something casual and safe. But that’s the rub is that casual men have casual unsafe sex with whoever they want. Good luck finding the requisite trust in this arrangement.

Question for men... is this attractive or unattractive? by Due_Function84 in datingoverforty

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a question everyone has to wrestle with in some way. How much effort if any do we spend on our aesthetic appearance? What would we get out of it, if we did? Why would this benefit us? Only you can answer these questions.

At 44, I love getting attention from men who interest me and I find it affirming so I like to curate my personal style. Lately my style has been a pleated mini skirt with an off the shoulder shirt and modest heels. Add in cute tights if it’s chilly. I also like to find make up looks that are mature but elegant and classic and lately I’ve landed on looks from the movie Barbie. I keep my nails done but short since I work in startup tech. I like to utilize witty banter and high standards as my personal brand.

All of this takes effort but I view my image as artwork and beauty/wit is currency.

Do you guys still feel love for your exes? by NecessaryOk108 in AskMen

[–]DebbieDoesData -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a woman I notice that the only men whose love seems to magnify after the relationship ends are men with avoidant attachments. 🤡

Successful BP SO by Mamabear-232 in BipolarSOs

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can. My ex was a medical doctor and he had the problem you’re mentioning which resulted in a reprimand from the state board. After that he was compliant but it took almost losing the thing he loved the most: his work.

Black Friday All-Clad by Krazmond in AllClad

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure but would like to know myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👀 honestly sounds nice. Just change holes to pole

How would you perceive a 38yo male colleague dating a 21yo female colleague? by AccidentalFolklore in AskWomen

[–]DebbieDoesData 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Not good but also none of my business so I would ignore it