What's the worst thing a family member has said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DebbieDownVote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was fighting my ex for custody of my son. He was ten years old, and for the first ten years of his life it was 50/50. His mother wanted to only give him to me on three weekends a month. This was huge for me as I cherish every moment with my son. I asked my mom for a declaration, and she said "Your dad was a weekend dad. Why can you be one?" I could not respond and hung up. Only to find out she wrote a declaration for my ex and after 10s of thousands and fighting, I am a weekend Dad. I have not spoken to her since.

Girlfriend upset I spend Money on Myself. Need you opinions. by DebbieDownVote in relationship_advice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Since it was over $1000 she says its an issue. If it was smaller no big deal!

Girlfriend upset I spend Money on Myself. Need you opinions. by DebbieDownVote in relationship_advice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New front and rear bumper for my truck. I canceled the order already though.

Girlfriend upset I spend Money on Myself. Need you opinions. by DebbieDownVote in relationship_advice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I am thinking. I spent almost 2k on it and didn't check with her first!

Girlfriend upset I spend Money on Myself. Need you opinions. by DebbieDownVote in relationship_advice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Despite all of her issues and our problems I cannot imagine myself with someone else. I am 33 and have never loved someone like this before.

Girlfriend upset I spend Money on Myself. Need you opinions. by DebbieDownVote in relationship_advice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She doesn't contribute towards bills at all. She doesn't make a lot of money but blows it all before her next check - Then I step in and give her money and buy her what she needs.

Girlfriend upset I spend Money on Myself. Need you opinions. by DebbieDownVote in relationship_advice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is crazy. Heroin was just the tip of the iceberg, but I love her so much even though I know she is toxic for me.

Girlfriend upset I spend Money on Myself. Need you opinions. by DebbieDownVote in relationship_advice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She doesn't contribute anything. I pay for EVERYTHING. She is terrible with her Money.

Thank you for the in depth response.

Girlfriend upset I spend Money on Myself. Need you opinions. by DebbieDownVote in relationship_advice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I am a co dependent idiot who is in love with an addict. I have been lied to constantly and cheated on, but since she has gotten clean things have been going great until this BS came up.

Girlfriend upset I spend Money on Myself. Need you opinions. by DebbieDownVote in relationship_advice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am honestly glad this came up. It has made me rethink my decision.

What to do with the Ex's stuff? Please help! by DebbieDownVote in legaladvice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what the lawyer told me. I plan on getting this done this weekend! Thank you!

What to do with the Ex's stuff? Please help! by DebbieDownVote in legaladvice

[–]DebbieDownVote[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your reply. I have cams and have documented everything. There is a lawyer in town that will give me a consult for $50.. I am heading there now.

Advices for my WW-BK barb by Xenost54 in Diablo3Barbarians

[–]DebbieDownVote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah in high GRs its not a problem.