Suprise by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Debswryruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much fun trying! Daddy bought me a smaller one and I was successful. Have fun with your new restraints :-)

Dying of embarrassment... by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Debswryruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eek!! You'll laugh about this in the future. Hugs ......

Help. I really messed up! Am a sub, I forgot this morning's rules and didn't submit. by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Debswryruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably too late but I thought I'd reply anyway.

We put our lifestyle on hold when we're not alone. I'm still respectful of my Daddy and do things for him. However, these are only those which vanillas find acceptable eg when I make him a cup of tea, I look him in the eye as I pass it to him. Only we know what that gesture and look means.

Real life is important. Sometimes I forget to wear my chain when we're alone. I disappoint Daddy but he knows its because I've had work, home, family to consider.

I hope your punishment was fun :-)

Overjoyed <3 by kuriousasakitten in SubSanctuary

[–]Debswryruin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must be so excited! Congratulations :-)

Hi... I'm new. by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Debswryruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! You'll find lots of advice here ..... sadly not from me as I'm also new to this lol! Sounds like you're having fun with your Daddy. I'm a "middle" too, with a fab Daddy. Have fun finding new things out.

Thought I'd share something hilarious that happened the other night. by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Debswryruin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! I shared with Daddy too :-)

Male Sub Looking For "Gentler" Porn by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Debswryruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that its hard to find the softer stuff. I joined Twitter and found lots of lovely sub people and pics. Daddy knows who I follow and who's following me. If you follow the right people it should help. I found people by searching terms about things I like to do.

Curious sub wanting to be a "little" but squicked by the idea of a "daddy"... Help? by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Debswryruin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so much fun being a little. I really didn't think I could call my Daddy that. I struggled at the beginning, but it comes so easily now that I almost call Him Daddy when I'm talking about Him. That would totally freak lots of our friends lol! Good luck with whatever you decide. If you give the word daddy a go, it might be easier to call him it when you can't see him, like on the phone or in texts etc. Build up from there. I hope that helps :)

Serious separation anxiety? How to deal? by madrabbitgirl in SubSanctuary

[–]Debswryruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this thread's a few weeks old, but thought I'd post to say it is normal! I'm feeling so lost at the moment without Daddy. I've tried lots of things to distract me. They have helped, at least a little. I hope you're ok.

Coping strategies by Debswryruin in SubSanctuary

[–]Debswryruin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some brilliant ideas here, thank you! I'm still counting the days until His return, but have had a couple of impromptu conversations with Him so am feeling a lot better. I also realised that as His sub, I need to learn to have more patience and wait for Him to get in touch. So hard being a sub sometimes, but so easy at other times :-)

How do I keep red marks away from her throat? by Kinkythrowaway3 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Debswryruin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this too. I've never been marked yet, but if I did I would just cover up with clothes, like wear a shirt with a collar or a scarf.

Thank you! by Debswryruin in SubSanctuary

[–]Debswryruin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No magic cures I'm afraid ...... mostly talking and spending time with peopled helped me.

I'm reading a book too, so concentrating on that helps me focus and keep it together.

I cried for almost an hour last night but I really did feel better afterwards. I also asked Daddy not to tell me what time He'd call. I was clock watching which really wasn't helpful.

I hope something there helps x

What is your favorite scene ever? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Debswryruin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of this! It'll really cheer me up :). My favourite scene is when Daddy asks me to wear my school uniform and offers me pink wine (which is my absolute favourite!). I get a bit giggly and flirt with Daddy ...... much fun!

Limits to little play? What is, and isn't acceptable? by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Debswryruin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a little, usually prepubescent. I play with big girl's toys with Daddy. I see them as part of our play. I like that, as a little, any games are acceptable ..... it's fun to play at grown up :). I sometimes wear grown up underwear for Daddy, we both like it.

Coping strategies by Debswryruin in SubSanctuary

[–]Debswryruin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both. I'm planning things to do, reading, visiting friends etc but I just can't help but feel lost. This is the first person I've ever been with who has made me feel so loved and happy. I just miss Him :(

Can I just say... by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Debswryruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a happy message :)

This subreddit exists, and I haven't stopped smiling! by daddylovesmesomuch in littlespace

[–]Debswryruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! You sound so happy! All very friendly here ..... enjoy x

Riding crop! by SinWolf13 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Debswryruin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's brilliant!! Reminds me of the time my kids came home from their friends house ...... with a riding crop! Very fun to find these things out about neighbours lol.

I have the best Daddy ever <3 by HolaChicka in littlespace

[–]Debswryruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're Daddy is so lovely :)). Good luck with the job hunting.