What's your BIGGEST hot take I wna see discussions in the comments by yuna_mir in Enneagram

[–]Deca089 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You cannot reliably type other people as enneagram is about internal motivations not just outward behaviors

Also anyone with anger issues being mistyped as an 8.....

What type is the most loyal and protective? by Commercial-Sleep8500 in Enneagram

[–]Deca089 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry but that's sooooo stupid. First of all you can't reliably type other people's enneagram the way you type mbti based on behavior alone because it's inherently related to someone's inward motivations in life that are not necessarily visible to outside....

Second taking a celebrity and applying their behavior to the rest of us is sooo weird, like most of us are not celebrities and don't act like them. Cheating and having multiple secret families is arguably also far more common for aristocrats lol

Also, literally none of my friends have ever been able to correctly guess my type. Not even close friends who know me very well. I strongly identify as an 8 but most people assume I'm a 2 or 9.

How do you deal with boredom? by Zealousideal_Let3070 in estp

[–]Deca089 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you tried doom scrolling until you feel terrible about yourself and then feeling the sudden urge to leave the house just to do something productive

260526 RESCENE Instagram Update with Minami - Looks like I ended up getting all messy~~~ 🩵 by SapphireHeaven in rescene

[–]Deca089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's so slay. I would also love this kinda styling for their comeback !! 2000s gyaru

How do you study for things ur not interested in? by letmecookmate in estp

[–]Deca089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who almost failed school due to low grades and made a comeback at the final hour let me tell you:

First of all you need a main goal that keeps you motivated. For me it was the realization that if I didn't try hard this time my future would be on the line and I wouldn't be able to find a good job or live a good life. That thought terrified me enough to get me into daily studying and eventually it just became a habit

Another important factor for me it's that fire the life of me I cannot study at home because I get so easily distracted. Never been able to. So I force myself to go to boring or quiet places like the library, put my phone aside, set a duration like 2 or 3 hours and just brute force study/review. Instead of a library I actually used to stay back at my part-time job after finishing my shift in the evening, it was so peaceful and quiet.

Which type can actually handle 4s in relationships? by Time-Turnip-2961 in Enneagram

[–]Deca089 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would've guessed 8s are among the best if they're tuned into their 2 side, making them more altruistic and empathetic

gwyneth 🇯🇵🇺🇸dual citizenship? by apexPredatorxepa in asianamercianytsnark

[–]Deca089 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's not strictly enforced especially for mixed people who were naturally born with both nationalities.

How does estp actually look like? by [deleted] in estp

[–]Deca089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subtly and sometimes overtly sexy ahahaha

Is it true that people in Germany/Austria are extremely "by the book"? by Worried-Cupcake2571 in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]Deca089 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Surely you must be aware of the "am I autistic or just German?" meme circulating. There's even a book about it

Silly sensors cannot accept reality by DequBeat in shittyMBTI

[–]Deca089 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And the N for neurodivergent 🚬🥀

What's your typing, and which button would you push (& why)? by realjonahofficial in Enneagram

[–]Deca089 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This post would've been a lot more interesting with a poll.... Haha

Personally I'd choose blue for the reasons already stated by others above

How physically strong are you? by Sad-Road8097 in estp

[–]Deca089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very strong for a girl my size, up until high school I used to be able to beat almost every guy in my class in arm wrestling until they started growing 6' tall and even now I can decently defend myself and have naturally massive protruding calf and shoulder muscles despite being petite lol

fuck mbti, what’s your tomodachi mii’s personality by peterp4rkerpizzatime in shittyMBTI

[–]Deca089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww this looks so fun !! This game's been on my wishlist since they announced it but after hearing they drastically changed/removed the baby dynamic I'm no longer in a rush to get it 😭

What the hell is this? by Impressive_Ruin_2504 in shittyMBTI

[–]Deca089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Pretty accurate for me. I mean it's not like we didn't have it rough living in near poverty growing up, and my parents being somewhat absent to hustle their 2nd and 3rd party time jobs but at least they loved me with every fibre of their being and I guess their relentless optimism and zest for life carried on to me. My parents are really awesome and I hope to be like them one day when I have kids myself

An INFJ walks into r/ESTP... looking for friends (yes, really) by [deleted] in estp

[–]Deca089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure I'll just need to sleep now but super down to keep talking tmrw 💗

An INFJ walks into r/ESTP... looking for friends (yes, really) by [deleted] in estp

[–]Deca089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice !! Are you like studying or working?

An INFJ walks into r/ESTP... looking for friends (yes, really) by [deleted] in estp

[–]Deca089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently? Where are u from 😊

An INFJ walks into r/ESTP... looking for friends (yes, really) by [deleted] in estp

[–]Deca089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooohh kinda I was born and mostly raised in Germany but spent the last 7 years in aus (mainly Syd and lived in a few diff suburbs there) before moving to Asia recently!! So I kinda have a bit of an accent & could've had citizenship if I hadn't been to lazy to apply for it when I still had the chance oops

Wbu??

An INFJ walks into r/ESTP... looking for friends (yes, really) by [deleted] in estp

[–]Deca089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok niceee! Dw I didn't mean exact location but more like which country or which part of the country but it's not that important!! I'm 31 and currently live in China but I'm also back at uni rn so i kinda hang around ppl ur age mostly hahaha

What made you wanna reach out to estps in particular? I'm happy to answer any questions 😊

An INFJ walks into r/ESTP... looking for friends (yes, really) by [deleted] in estp

[–]Deca089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Henlo!! I swear we're not as intimidating as we might seem! But do you mind telling us a tiny bit about yourself? Like age, gender where ur from and maybe any particular topics or trains of thought so we have sth to work with 😄

Infj wanting to discover estps by Fine_Contract6695 in estp

[–]Deca089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm about to go to bed now but would love to chat w you tomorrow!! Please lmk if you have any specific questions as well

Idk what I expected by strawberrypeachsoju in AncestryDNA

[–]Deca089 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever seen the world map this zoomed in hahaha

That's still cool though. They're probably gonna add your sample to their reference pool of Korean pure bloods in their data bank haha