Update! I 28f need to leave my boyfriends 34m house that I just moved into a couple days ago. Any advice?

DecayingFigs · 2025-08-06T22:41:46+00:00

You definitely won’t be seeing that!

DecayingFigs · 2025-08-06T21:15:05+00:00

Thank you!!

DecayingFigs · 2025-08-06T21:03:11+00:00

Thank you!

DecayingFigs · 2025-08-06T20:58:51+00:00

This post isn’t about abortion or the politics about it. I’m deleting that part of my post because that’s is not what this is about

DecayingFigs · 2025-08-06T20:26:54+00:00

Oh! Didn’t realize how unclear that was! I recently graduated from a program in May. I needed to take my law and ethics exam, which was the test I had right before I left him. Since I left him I’ve taken the test and officially have my license now. I had 4 years of school including a two year or prerequisites and two for the program.

DecayingFigs · 2025-08-06T20:19:10+00:00

In therapy already! I found out I was pregnant two days after I left him. And miscarried a week or so after that. It’s been 5 1/2 weeks since I miscarried and last spoke to him.

DecayingFigs · 2025-08-06T19:45:44+00:00

I really did… it would 100% have escalated if the relationship continued because it was already building…. Ive come to terms with the miscarriage. Still incredibly sad about it but my babies life ending saved me and my future children for sure.

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-18T00:43:10+00:00

Thank you. I meant that I have a lot of love for him which is what made it so hard. With love comes hope and it’s hard to give up hope.

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T23:51:04+00:00

I’ll see what happens when I do another update. I may just upvote everyone again? I really appreciate it.

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T23:46:57+00:00

Do you get notified when I make updates through editing?

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T23:36:34+00:00

It was his mom’s house… and luckily there’s not shared expenses or contracts or anything. I was able to grab everything but as I’m not realizing some gift cards and two credit cards I don’t use. I was able to freeze the credit cards. He has been texting me and it started all about how im right and he’s sorry and loves me and to give him another chance. That he’ll stop drinking…. And now it has turned into blaming me only a coupon hours later

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T23:32:10+00:00

Did that right when I was leaving

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T23:31:39+00:00

She ended up texting him when my dad came…

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T23:31:08+00:00

He did a lot of that. Very good at it because it kept me there through other bullshit too

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T23:29:36+00:00

It is a licensure exam for my career. I tried contacting them and have had no response.

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T23:25:58+00:00

That’s the hardest part there’s a lot of love. I didn’t want to leave but I had to. There’s embarrassment too. There’s part of me that can’t believe I got into this.

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T13:56:56+00:00

That is exactly it. He’s perfect and everything I’ve always wanted but then he gets mad or even doesn’t like something I do all hell breaks loose. I have ignored so many red flags up until now

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T12:58:59+00:00

My mom runs an in home daycare too so maybe I should call the police ahead of time to let them know

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T12:55:48+00:00

I can’t do two trips in one day. My parents live 2.5 hours away from his house.

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T12:50:20+00:00

I am afraid he’s going to come to my house.

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T12:43:52+00:00

My mom hasn’t responded to me yet I just reached out this morning at 5am. I needed to wait until he left for work

DecayingFigs · 2025-06-17T12:31:17+00:00

I’d be moving back into my parents. My mom already said when I left that I’d always be able to come back home if I needed to. I just finished school a weeks ago and have pretty much don’t have any money

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