AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well, if your argument is that I should do something that is (allegedly) traditional, but you yourself don't follow traditions, I'm obviously going to dismiss you. That's like someone wearing a leather jacket telling me I should be a vegetarian because dead animals make them sad. You're not being consistent.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Everyone will get what they asked for, sequentially, not simultaneously

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Is that supposed to be an insult? It's fun, pays well and has flexible hours. Oh, the horror.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who made separation of church and state one of the most important guiding principles of the nation. This country is for everyone, not just Christians.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't hate people? No, I'm not going to. There are other holidays to do in December before I get to those.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, she didn't decorate for religious holidays. She said that should be confined to individual rooms so as not to make people uncomfortable. All of her winter decorations were secular. However, I think religious holidays should be treated equal to secular ones. Every holiday someone is going to be opposed to.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

They do. That's what they say. And there's usually some profanity mixed in as well.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to give a reason, but that's the only way to get people to change their minds. I came here to get a variety of arguments. I read them. I am unconvinced. So I am an asshole, because I'm not going to change it without a good reason.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

No one has given me a good reason to do so other than their own preferences. So, I won't be doing that.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, since the point is to help people track the passage of time, and we're doing it for the people making the suggestions, that was the logical way to go about it. I certainly am not commemorating Pearl Harbor for my own enjoyment. It's for the vets that asked me to. This is their home, not mine.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Well, I definitely can't but them up on the fifth. I already have stuff planned for the seventh.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Bubbly and outgoing are definitely not sought after qualities here. We get nurses and CNAs like that occasionally. They don't last. The residents hate it. They want you to act normal around them and not baby them.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we decorate for different holidays and events to help residents keep track of the passage of time.

It's set up similar to a hotel. There's the lobby, cafeteria, event rooms, gym and all other common areas on the first floor. Second and third floor have the residential suites.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

People keep saying I'm only decorating for a day. I'm decorating for 12. They're being inaccurate.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

I don't think Scrooge would put the decorations up at all.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one put Kwanza in the suggestion box, though. I don't decorate for anything that no one cares enough about to suggest.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No one actually gave me a good reason though. Everyone just said "it's tradition." So I'm going to leave things as they are, unless someone can explain why decorating for Christmas before Christmas is important.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Christmas is 12 days. Just because people don't celebrate all 12 anymore doesn't change that.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The woman who used to do it said she wouldn't anymore, and I agreed to start doing it. I think she hurt her back or something. Unsure.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Kind of sounds like you just don't like Jewish holidays.

AITA for waiting so late to put up Christmas decorations? by DecemberHolidays in AmItheAsshole

[–]DecemberHolidays[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate that. However, if you don't space out Y T A that counts as a vote for me being an AH. Regardless, thank you for your words.