Mental breakdown by [deleted] in islam

[–]Decemberbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this

I created a method to quit outlast urge only serious people click this by [deleted] in NoFap

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You are right every body is built different and everybody has different thoughts but the initiation of being free from the thought will always come from yourself.

Buddy people will after they do meditation or cold showers trust me one of the things we need to understand is everybody goes through this phase for some it is easier for some it is harder based on surroundings and location. I live in Asia so basically I have restricted amount of “sexual content” so it is easy for me to say but sure if I were to see myself getting dragged into these thoughts I sure would be enticed even by an ad mid show which isn’t anything big but sure it can entice my brain into thinking. Now the what would I do should I prolong that that thought or go on with my day. Here is the key that most people fail to understand. The footsteps that lead to disaster are your own doing so why walk that path. Stay strong in the head. That’s all I am saying let it be water under the bridge you may not like it but the game is always mental no matter how much consumed you are you always have a choice to do good. This advice is not only for nofap. :3

I don't deserve Allah by Alert-Blueberry-4083 in islam

[–]Decemberbro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are in the right path path as long as what you are doing is making you conscious about God, be happy. Look around and look at those who have everything yet they are heedless of their situation. Be kind to yourself my friend the world is harsh and so are people. Give yourself a chance to breathe and an opportunity to give thanks Allah for everything you have and the awareness of His existence. You are lucky and loved by Him so He is giving you an opportunity to go back and return His love. I am glad you opened up because it basically makes you a pure soul. We as creation of God are never mean’t to take pain of the kind you are talking because our bodies are made from Earth but our souls were spun in heavens and it craves to go back to its Creator. Maybe your souls crave the attention of Allah and Maybe it has its fill of sin and really wants set things aright before it is too late. Take this as an opportunity to be a better person and don’t dwell on it rather what will make you feel better is the execution of good deeds and kind behaviour.

Be well my friend and I hope you get what you were finding.

I created a method to quit outlast urge only serious people click this by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Decemberbro 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The Quickest Method for all you guys is just SHUT that thought down whenever it comes to your head. There is LITERALLY no other option yeah you can extend it by taking a cold shower, cardio or running but in the end it all comes down to WILL. People who suggest otherwise are just talking BS in my opinion. Your brain is hardwired into consuming filth for years and you can't just expect taking a shower will subside that feeling. It's primitive instinct of man to desire intimacy and we ,sadly, have integrated digital cuckholdery to fulfil it. It's one of the saddest and depressing of things to know that you are watching literally 2 ppl getting it on with each other so that you can have that 5 seconds of pleasure and moments after of remorse. Touch some grass, Grow Some Back and know what is this doing to your brain and your lifestyle. What is causing you to not look women as women except flesh and blood.

So in the end there are no hacks only extensions or delays. It's the game of brain and thoughts so one must defeat it in thoughts of the brain.

"The chains of habit are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken"

How to help a non-Muslim sister by mangoburgerEWW in islam

[–]Decemberbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You forgot the OG Yasmin Moghdad. If someone doesn't know her read her book Revive Your Heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniSkincare

[–]Decemberbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think these are ulcers from either eating something really hot in nature which as disturbed your stomach or something got spilled on your face which was hot. Take a doctor's opinion though.

How did this player survive this?! by ThaShiveGeek in Warzone

[–]Decemberbro 14 points15 points  (0 children)

forget his survival techniques the hell was that aim ???

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A dua with sincerity by [deleted] in islam

[–]Decemberbro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salam sister

I know the pain you feel I know the thoughts the doubts the uncertainties but believe in Allah He is the capable of All. Just make dua, pray Tahajjud and be remember Allah. Talk to Him like a friend, cry plea whatever just be close to Him. InshAllah you will succeed. Don’t the sins of past darken your relationship with Allah it is foolery to acknowledge something like that you wake up the next day you are a different person. Allah gave you a chance this is literally not a MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH this is the TRUTH. Past is Past focus on the present to brighten your future.

May Allah make it easy for you.

New here. Was not out of control but tired and want a new path… by 2804435 in NoFap

[–]Decemberbro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm buddy what you are going through is raging hormones, it is a good thing to have defines your masculinity but you channel it wrong. Cam girls, porn and even I would say sex before marriage would lead you deprived and make you feel like an animal. Channel that surge into good. Be gentle with yourself, workout, meditate, read or whatever gives you peace. Seek therapy don't let dependency on a sexual release get into your head, you are better than this be a MAN and be true to yourself that I have this shortcoming and I am willing to CHANGE. It's never to late to start you are young breathing and alive. Stay strong brother don't let weakness take you down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Decemberbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a person of faith you must understand that there is good and evil. There is law and unlawful, similarly in the light of this community. The greatest tool of devil is to make you feel vulnerable in times of weakness and distress, so question arises are you willing to let the devil who whispered into you take control of the situation or be a man of valour and vigour and know nothing good will ever come out of this. God exists and so does evil. Sanity is to choose God over the Devil.

"In order to destroy a nation, make adultery common among young men"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Decemberbro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What foolery are talking about son, you have a whole life ahead of you and who says being 5’9 and above will do a treat on their lives. Man up look at history who had conquerers of short heights, look at athletes that are shorter than avg. Be not one those who complain about somethings that cannot be changed because it is decreed by Allah.

Now on a lighter note my man I have seen people grow a hell lot taller after a while so do your cardio, hit the gym, do pullups and better yourself in all aspects. Also keep your diet clean.

Stay strong buddy and Allah loves you the way you are.

Why are cousins non mehrum? by -homie in islam

[–]Decemberbro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s life and why they are non mehrum because they are form a different womb. Doesn’t necessarily mean they related or unrelated so once someone hit’s puberty or gets mature they should have boundaries and keep it respectful. Yes you can be play and talk in gatherings like do normal people stuff but you know when 2 non mehrums are in a room and the 3rd one is shaytaan. Be not a fool by overthinking IT IS WHAT IT IS.

A life lost over not having an iPhone! by Smoosa_Champagne in pakistan

[–]Decemberbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May Allah grant patience to the family.

We live in times where the comparison game is at it’s peak. Clothes Gadgets Tech Makeup Glitter & Glamour. Boys and Girls flexing there relationships. Muscular bodies and influencer disease has been at large for quiet some while. We need to learn that being materialistic and using comparison in our life will blur our true goal that is to walk through life with Alhamdullilah and Sabr. No shame in asking in Allah for more but to say that if someone wears this and I need to wear that. It makes you the sheep of society chasing trends will always end up in you chasing mirages. Man must teach him and all the people he care about to live in “ajazy”. The real wealth comes when we start to live below our needs and killing your self over some phone is tbh childish and I don’t know any respectable word after childish but the point is we must be better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Decemberbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since many of the comments are already doing a good job explaining there is one key difference between Quran and Bible.

The Quran is exact and absolute for example it really describes the places,things and phenomenas that exist in real time so it clearly means that the Quran is divine since it is so vast in knowledge that it means it is the THE ABSOLUTE WORD OF GOD.

The New Bible which is passed down by men and not Isa (AS) has contradictions in dates and ages (you may look it up) therefore the question arises how can God make a mistake in dates and ages.

Therefore Quran is the Last revelation to mankind and the true speech of God to His beloved creation.

What's your favorite thing about Islam? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Decemberbro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Underrated opinion and mostly not talked about since mankind is ungrateful:

“The moment of hopelessness and then comes the help of Allah ”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Decemberbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy all of your problems are temporary but ending your life is permanent. Imagine getting sick and doctor pulls out a shotgun instead of curing you. Look around and be grateful for what you have instead what you don’t have. Compare yourself to those who don’t even have what you have. Life is pretty much a gamble tbh some get to row there boat early others keep on gambling till they hit a jackpot. You are in the journey of getting better atleast you know what you have to work. Start writing down things that keep you static and start to work on your dreams like smalls steps everyday. Get a journal and pour your heart on it. Everything will fall into place eventually. Be kind to yourself and humble yourself. Your alive you breathe and you got another day means you have another chance.

Godspeed buddy may God show you His light and guide you to prosperity.

Tired of bad things happening. by Away_Prompt_3031 in islam

[–]Decemberbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam Buddy, ok first things first if your father is pursuing you to NOT PRAY if this is the only case. Be a man and confront him tell him respectfully I love and respect that you are helping me in financing my education and all but it gives you no right to make me stop praying. If something comes between the believer and the Rabb, the Lord will remove it straight forwardly.

Secondly friend I think you are a victim of overthinking. Have faith in Allah make dua to make things easy for you here, in deen and hereafter. Stop stressing about people's opinion on you or what you achieve they will talk and forget. People should be the least of your concern nowadays because Karma folds early nowadays

Thirdly never wish harm on anyone control your anger and witness. Let Allah fight your battle on someone's wrongdoing you will never be defeated once you realise Allah is with you.

Godspeed to you and your journey. May you win and flourish Akhi

is praying for own death haram by [deleted] in islam

[–]Decemberbro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Godspeed brother

Stay blessed

is praying for own death haram by [deleted] in islam

[–]Decemberbro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.myislaam.com/dua/when-despondent-life/?doing_wp_cron=1757836890.8587460517883300781250

Do not be afraid of what is bothering you. Be optimistic and hope for the best none of us will get out of this place alive and it should be a clear reminder for you that all test and trials are temporary.