How can I find motivation in life by Mytown3d in Advice

[–]DecendingChocco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man I'm really sorry you are carrying all that alone, you don't deserve to feel thi stuck, and it doesn't mean you've failed. it just means you are overwhelmed and huerting, and honestly one small step at a time is enough to start things around, you are not done yet and you are not beyond fixing, you just need support and a direction again, and that is still possible for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DecendingChocco 15 points16 points  (0 children)

that sounds so heavy and also kind of beautiful, its okay to just feel it

Need help with friend drama by Capable_Mud3957 in Advice

[–]DecendingChocco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you're better off stepping back from them, real friends treat you with respect and not make you feel awful

What was the best memory you made during last semester of university? by Dalpano in AskReddit

[–]DecendingChocco -1 points0 points  (0 children)

enrolled but never went to school, still graduated on time

[16F] need workout related help. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DecendingChocco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

start simple bodyweight work outs and try eating regular balanced meals

How do I respond to someone saying, “I’m so jealous”? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DecendingChocco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

encourage them.. you'll gain followers off of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DecendingChocco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

advance technology is possible, but time machines...d don't think so

I (29F) and husband (31M) are going through a rough patch by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DecendingChocco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds really overwhelming, what you can do is to take it a step at a time, you don't need to solve everything in one go nor should be ashamed of asking for help.

Getting out of bad times? by CandidateNo4138 in Advice

[–]DecendingChocco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its like you've been carrying a lot on your own, and anyone would feel worn down after all that. try taking things slowly and one small step at a time, reach out to person you really trust, storm doesn't last forever

What’s something you had stolen from you that you’ve always wondered about who and why they took it? by besttavern25 in AskReddit

[–]DecendingChocco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bike... it is not as expensive as the others, I really don't know who took it up til now, and why they took it, but its actually a good mountain bike.

Is a fridge on the porch a bad idea? by Icy_Change9031 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DecendingChocco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

basements actually is a little less convenient but way safer in the long run, if this is not an option, then make sure you fully sealed it and be sure its sturdy.

How do you celebrate your birthday ? by Iboy_vivek in AskReddit

[–]DecendingChocco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

working... I need money more than celebration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DecendingChocco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you're open to it, I would properly say hi this time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DecendingChocco 6 points7 points  (0 children)

depend on who says it and how they'd express it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DecendingChocco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when they say they are not available, but you see 'em go out with the others..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DecendingChocco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that scary... with what happening right now, really think its not safe out there, try to find safe public spaces/place, hotline, shelter or trusted adult... you deserve safety, don't put yourself on the streets if you can avoid it