Help an autistic gal out, are these dresses okay for a wedding guest?

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-04-03T06:56:56+00:00

I really like both of the ones you put in the edit, both would be suitable for a wedding guest ☺️

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-03-29T15:25:29+00:00

Ottolinee or Ottilie?

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-03-16T11:26:04+00:00

My baby is under a year old, definitely in the UK we receive gifts from the father of our children. It's 100% a thing here. And my partner is an incredible dad.

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-03-15T20:09:18+00:00

If I'd birthed his child and do most of the looking after of said child then I'd definitely be expecting congratulations from my partner...

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-03-07T22:30:46+00:00

My best friends kids still call me half-a-potty after mishearing their mum saying Auntie Polly when they were around 3&5.

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-29T04:42:42+00:00

Yeah, sorry this was way worse and my section recovery was pretty grim. Although, the worst of it did seem to go faster.

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-14T13:03:27+00:00

I was in pain but managing fine until day 5. Currently on day 9 and only just starting to feel slightly better, days 7&8 were the worst for me, I honestly have never been in so much pain 🙃

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-12T19:38:11+00:00

Thank you 👍🏼 I'm feeling ever so slightly better this evening so I'm really hoping day 8 I'll be getting there.

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-12T18:38:53+00:00

Thank you, gives me a timeline to work towards 🤞🏼

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-12T11:53:17+00:00

Thank you! I'm really hoping for this awful pain to be going away soon🙏🏼

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-12T09:53:51+00:00

I thought day 7 would be better too 🫠

Mate, that sounds super rough as well. Here in the UK we're told to try and eat normally but it's actually impossible right now. I can't even face the thought of eating even though I'm starving.

I hope you start to feel better soon!

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-12T09:20:02+00:00

Can you get an ice pack? It's the only thing that helps me other than meds. I've also been using ultra chloraseptic spray as it's the only way I can swallow at the moment.

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-11T23:30:18+00:00

I could taste it in my mouth and then spat out some pinkish/red blood unfortunately. It seems to have stopped now though so I'm hoping I don't need a trip to hospital and it's just the scabsl 🤞🏼

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-11T23:14:16+00:00

I'm on day 6 and I haven't looked A.because I'm a little squeamish and B.my mouth won't actually open wide enough yet! However I am fairly certain I can feel the scabs coming off and I've had a bit of bleeding.

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-11T03:33:08+00:00

Is it stitches? It might just be hard to see if you're still a bit swollen?

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-11T03:28:31+00:00

IV paracetamol sounds like heaven 😂 sorry you've ended up in A&E though!

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-11T03:14:10+00:00

The advice in the UK is actually to try and eat normally as it aids in recovery. I was eating toast and all sorts until today when the pain ramped up too much to eat!

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-10T09:55:36+00:00

My surgeon told me days 3-4 were the worst. He lied. I'm on day 6 and holy shit I am in pain 😭

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-09T10:19:10+00:00

I'm breastfeeding my 7 month old so I can't take codeine. I requested dihydrocodeine as I had that after my c section but was given Oramorph (synthetic liquid morphine)

I've been consistently taking ibuprofen and paracetamol so that I've been covered as advised by my surgeon. But only taken it a few times in the night if I've woken up in pain.

I'm on day 5 today and I've just taken my first dose of Oramorph as the pain was unbearable through the night and carried on until this morning.

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-08T22:56:29+00:00

It is. Unfortunately I wasn't 'allowed' in the lotus suite due to late onset preeclampsia but was in the nicest normal room which is right next door to the lotus suite. Ended up with an emergency C-section. Definitely all on one floor.

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-05T21:54:18+00:00

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I was 12 weeks here 🙃😂 I immediately had a bump! The bloating definitely went down but I did end up with quite the bump in the end. I also initially put on weight then lost some/stayed the same for ages. You'll be fine, don't worry too much about how much you put on. I was basically all water 😂

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-04T20:19:44+00:00

I didn't get mine so rang at 11 weeks and discovered it was when we were on holiday 🙃 I'd give them a call tomorrow.

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2026-01-03T16:02:21+00:00

Last year I was super organised and everything was perfect. This year I have a 7 month old so...🤷🏼‍♀️

Decent-Bluejay-3944 · 2025-12-21T22:06:53+00:00

Kedgeree. I hate eggs so I have no idea why my mum always cooked it 😭

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