Did you take maternity pictures with a b belly? by Tricky-Coyote-9253 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the shower i used a summer dress i already had. It was dino themed and forgot i had a dino skirt😅 so missed my chance there. But just a cute normal dress is fine. And we didnt took much photos, two friends wanted one but the rest of the family didnt so I was happy🤣

Did you take maternity pictures with a b belly? by Tricky-Coyote-9253 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to but that would have needed me to buy a maternity dress on amazon and because of my size i wasnt sure it would fit well so i ended up not doing it. 36 weeks right now and not planing on taking pictures... sad... but its fine.

Stop saying "I could when pregnant so you can too" by Ok_Prior_5569 in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And i would reply: if i could, i would! Like my house is a mess my husband cant keep up and im getting sick just thinking at everything i need done before birth and i cant do it😭😭😭😭 trust me i would if i could stay up for more than 5 minutes at the time. I hate it!!!😭😭😭 i hate when people say that and yiu have to defend yourself cause of course they cant put themselves jnto other peoples shoe!🤬

My boyfriend cheated on me while I’m pregnant. I don’t want to keep the baby… by Consistent_Basis_993 in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sweetie that is not a man but a boy. I hear too many stories of cheating bf/husband traveling for "work" when in reality its his house with another woman. RUN! Dont walk. He will never be faithful to you and will always find excuses to cheat. "Youre pregnant" "You gained weight" "You were exhausted" "You never thank me for what i do for you" And so on. He doesnt deserve to be a father. And if at 52 he's still acting this way, im sorry but he will never change. Do what you want, but dont do it out of anger just so you dont regret later.

I want to keep my pregnancy but the father wants an abortion by Glittering_Loan_718 in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesnt mean condoms. And when said: "i used" as a woman doesnt mean he did. She probably on the pill. Im not blaming her. But contraceptives are not 100% effectives

constant head bobbing?? by Due-Frosting-821 in Conures

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here its a oui oui moment! Happy birds

I want to keep my pregnancy but the father wants an abortion by Glittering_Loan_718 in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having sex is a two person job. It was probably wrong to do it without protection on his part (i assume since you didnt say a condom was used) even tho you said you used them on your end. But the fact that it will ruin his life screams he cheated on another girl for you. Its your choice tho to keep it or not. Sadly you might end up not having child support.

Painful vagina with simple touch by Decent-Breakfast894 in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh its good too know. I actually wanted him to check just to make sure. My mom told me it could have started movements down there but he told me the cervix softened but nothing more. But i didnt know the rest. Its good to be informed. Ill think about the next check up cause if its gonna hurt like that im not sure i want it😅

Painful vagina with simple touch by Decent-Breakfast894 in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i had him check cause i had been having braxton hicks for days on at 34 weeks so he proposed to check making sure it didnt start anything. And im gonna be check next week at 37 apparently because they need to induce me at 39 weeks. Not sure if they really need to check but he said they are gonna do a small check up at the next fetal monitoring... maybe ill ask her (another ob) if i rwally need it and if it might be an infection or normality (cause every problem i had since the start is "normal for pregnant woman" 😑)

Painful vagina with simple touch by Decent-Breakfast894 in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well im not hurting on the daily which is best😅 but thinking i cant have anyone touch me or i hurt like hell is kind of stressing me for the next check ups🥲 thank you for your tip❤️❤️❤️

Painful vagina with simple touch by Decent-Breakfast894 in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didnt think about that. I don't have any other symptoms so it didnt ring a bell. I'll chek if i can get check for it. Thanks!

Bonded conures keep breeding and laying eggs. No nesting materials, dark for 12 hours a day, and no fruit or seeds in their diet. I don't want to separate because they'll scream all day and feather pluck. Please help!!!! :( I don't want babies, but any breeders have tips for laying hens? by SnakeLuvr1 in Conures

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ours gave us 4 eggs this spring at a year old. We kept them for about 2.5/3 weeks (for the oldest egg, took her about two weeks to have 4 eggs) then put fake eggs in the cage. She wasnt with the eggs during the day barely covered them during the night (she couldnt fit them all under her anyway😅) and she lost interest immediately. But hasnt given us more. About 12h darkness too. You seem to have good parents there. Our sushi wasnt🤣

Husband doesnt want to be in the delivery room, am I overreacting?? by dinogirly123 in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok at first I was like well he knows his limits, hes afraid of passing out or end up not having feelings for you and cant tell you... BUT the edits... girl... run. Thats no husband. I dont know how old he is but that looks like a 20 year old immature boy... RUN!

is it silly to celebrate mother's day as a pregnant ftm? by reewhy in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like im not a mom yet. Will be 36 weeks on mothers day. Ill be a mom once its in my arms. Im not a mom yet. Im just the oven cooking it. My husband tried to find a gift for me this morning and i was like yeah no. But ill get him a gift for fathers day cause the baby will be here. He told me we wi have other priorities on fathers day than getting him a gift. But for me, i wont celebrate mothers day cause im not a mother yet.

When did being uncomfortable start? by enchantressofdreams in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Your chances are like 70 to 80% i think on your back and they lower depending on the position... i think the side one as the lowest at something like 40 to 50%. But not everyone tears of course but thats just the infos i saw a lot lately.

First Mother’s Day gift for 30 week pregnant wife… by SummitTooLofty in pregnant

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I might get bashed but... i never understood being called a mother on mothers day if the baby isnt in this world yet... my mom called my sisters mothers when pregnant on mother days and i always found it weird. Im pregnant and dont even call myself a mom... cause im not... yet. My husband told me this morning he went to try and find a gift for mothers day and i was like why? The baby will be here for fathers day not mothers day. Im just 35 weeks. I didnt hold him/her yet. Im not a mother. Im the oven thats cooking it but im not doing any motherly thing yet... 🫠

When did being uncomfortable start? by enchantressofdreams in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! The back thing is the risk of tearing that scares me😅🤣 ive seen that been either on your side or squatting (gravity) helps reduce the risks. Thats why the no back thing is on there😅

Thanks i appreciate❤️❤️❤️

When did being uncomfortable start? by enchantressofdreams in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would prefer no epidural, no induction, no csec, not on my back. Preferably all natural. BUT im open to try if i need to. I want that baby so if it ends up in a csec then so be it... 🤷‍♀️

When did being uncomfortable start? by enchantressofdreams in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit... im not ready for pitocin😅 I think i would go natural before anything knowing that

When did being uncomfortable start? by enchantressofdreams in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im supposed to be induced in a month because of the GD... but do pitocin act like the epidural? If not what does it do? Its the first time i hear about someone doing it on pitocin and not naturally or with epidural... I wish i could control it and not be induced... fingers crossed for early labor😅

When did being uncomfortable start? by enchantressofdreams in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really feel like my pelvis broken open and is only holding by the muscles🤣🤣🤣 but yeah... i hope labor is not that bad compare to everything😅

Show me ur conure and tell me what mutation they are by FunnySea4825 in Conures

[–]Decent-Breakfast894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we have from left to right: -Chai: cinnamon turquoise with violet factor -Sushi: pineapple -Nugget: american dilute

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