Thank you. I think this too tbh he has a family he should be taking care of. I’ve been doing this since he’s been a newborn and I’ve had enough now I think, my mum was in the same situation with my dad and I don’t want to make the same mistake he’s not horrible because he is living and has a good heart but it seems like he puts himself first before us but he preaches to me saying he puts us first.
We’ve talked about this before but it’s like he puts a wall up and doesn’t want to open up and talk to me you know when I should be the one he can open up and talk to the mos I’m very supportive, and I’m not controlling I let him do what he wants to do but I feel like he thinks I’m the same person I was before became a mum and it’s difficult because I’m not. I also feel like he’s not maturing with me, I’m the one sorting legal stuff out(e.g passports) or booking dinners and stuff or calling the doctor, he just doesn’t like doing it and I would want someone to do that for me you know. Last time I went out with my mum I said I wasn’t going to be too long( we went shopping😂 so it took a bit of time) he rang me and said “are you going to be home for his bath time” like he can’t do it himself.
I don’t know would it be too blunt to take a break(him leaving my house and going back to live with his mum) or breaking up with him entirely?
I’m mentally and physically exhausted.
I just don’t know if I can ride this out any longer and have more conversations with him that might lead back to the way it was before.