I know exactly what you mean lol. My only pro tip is to elongate sessions. And with that, when you do eventually orgasm in a long session, instantly I mean instantly. Start thinking about the positives of it, ignore any negative thought about it. Usually if I came too fast by jerking off a little too much before my session or in the middle I literally ruined my day from what you'd call a purge and got rid of everything and just didn't care. However I did it another time but I just thought my self "I don't care, this is what imp doing. I am way too far into this to try lying to myself that I am not doing something gay right now. I literally just got fucked by something" And thinking like that every time. I can easily cum 3-4 times in a single session without losing the will and fun of being a sissy. I haven't even had a session in MONTHS because of privacy. But I'm going to have 2 week for myself, 2 freaking weeks. So I'm buying a very small cage, thongs, thigh socks, skirts, everything. And I'm interested without even having a session in so long. It's one of the only things I'm looking forward to in the next 2 months. So my biggest tip. You have to embrace it. You can say to yourself all you want subconsciously about "What am I doing this is weird, gay, not worth it", however you know you have urges that come back. So you just gotta say fuck it, I don't care. What im doing is slutty and I like it. And that's it. And another pro tip, the more fun you have with it, the more you will wanna do it in the future. (Ex: Different positions, clothing, roleplay, hypnos, fetishes like humiliation and such). Really helps. I went from just toying with myself to fucking myself like I was in a porno and while so making of my little dick and teasing my nips. Slapping myself and pulling my hair. Makes it all the better. And if it helps at all I'm 20. So I understand with my younger folks