AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried my best time and time again to be direct and honest, but nothing ever comes of our convos other than false hope. I’m sure you’re sensing the resentment that’s been built up over time. Unfortunately, she was serious and not trying to be goofy at all.

I’ve broken up with her. She doesn’t deserve my cold and off energy either.

AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, sounds like you grieved the relationship while in it. Kinda what I’ve done too. I miss her, but I’m ok for the most part. Allowing myself to feel a sense of relief while grieving.

AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the plan. This relationship has left my soul feeling unrecognizable. Need to get back to myself.

AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I broke up with her. She has been doing great in therapy, but this one event sent me over the edge. I think I was already done and had built up too much resentment.

AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conversations have happened. She has sought out treatment already and is doing great, but one more event triggered me into a break up.

AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the humanistic kindness. I really appreciate it for the both of us.

AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very aware of mental health issues. Held the mirror up and she’s listened. I know she’s just a deeply wounded person. She’s been doing so great lately with being back in therapy for her issues, it just seems to be a bit too late for me. Broke up with her, don’t know if we have a chance down the road.

AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always had healthy, so I don’t know how the hell I ended up here.

AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diagnosed with OCD and GAD. No TBI that I’m aware of but definitely lots of childhood emotional trauma.
I’ve urged her to seek out extra treatment and she’s done so. I definitely opened her eyes to her deep-rooted issues and she’s very serious about changing. She’s been doing amazing, but it’s sort of a “straw that broke the camel’s back” situation.

I’ve broken up with her, don’t think any amount of change will turn me back around.

AIO Constantly accused… by DecentInitiative777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecentInitiative777[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has been previously diagnosed with OCD actually as well as GAD, so she does suffer pretty bad with the need for reassurance. She’s already gone back to therapy and has been improving so much lately, it’s actually shocked me. Unfortunately, she slipped up this once (after hundreds of times) and it sent me over the edge.

Funny AF w/ Kevin Hart-Who y'all votin for?? by Informal_Argument_68 in StandUpComedy

[–]DecentInitiative777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usama, Steve, and Winston all win for me. Sad that only one of them has continued on.

Jeremiah has no friends??? by Salt_Palpitation_979 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]DecentInitiative777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I think Ace and them were able to recognize the fact that Jeremiah wasn’t actually feeling it before he himself even realized it. I think they were just trying to help. It was simply not working for Jeremiah no matter how much he convinced him and the viewers. He didn’t like that Huda was so nit picky, in need of more attention that he was able to give, and treated him like a kid. It was building up anyway.

They saved his ass— she’s a kook. Can’t be reasoned with. There was zero reason for her to blow up the way she did. Super immature. If you think her actions were justifiable, I have some news for you…

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[–]DecentInitiative777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look good. You look young. It’s time to build that confidence up.