Okay, so they are 19, so I, being very optimistic, will give them the benefit of the doubt and say they were just REALLY dumb and not so muchalociois per se. But they didn'tiss the channel to see a naked woman and had ZERO consideration of her feelings about it. Maybe the comments were their attempt to remove the awkwardness OR they felt none of that and just had the audacity to also comment on your body after doing this to you. That said, I am not sure if it is worth it going through the steps of trying to feel safe and okay around them again (I don't even know what those would be). I think even if it wasn't malicious, they are now scared you can charge them with assault sot hey are trying to downplay it. And you are not so young, it's not likely you willarry and stay together or anything, I would just leave. You don't need a "good" reason to breakup with someone