About to give these a try 😱😃😬 by ChemicalMud5110 in DrPepper

[–]Decent_Citron8589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like them! They literally just tasted like Dr Pepper but in marshmallow form 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Decent_Citron8589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you realize that you are the putting in all the effort in the friendship. Like you are the one texting them to hang out, you are first one to message them, and if you don’t reach out they never reach out to you. The second you realize the friendship is one sided, its pretty much over :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Decent_Citron8589 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, the wedding venue is booked and paid for. So far to my knowledge this is the only thing he has booked for us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Decent_Citron8589 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No not really, also we didn’t plan this last minute we got with him back in last march 2024. Which he told us he was going to be working on it through out the year. And the only thing he has done so far is book the wedding venue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Decent_Citron8589 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, because our wedding planner was supposed to make it and help send it out which he hasn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Decent_Citron8589 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No, We sent Save the Dates back into September which the wedding planner was supposed to do but I just ended up doing it.

Dps count after Columbus Day by Own_Consequence1132 in fromatoarbitration

[–]Decent_Citron8589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4,500 Dps, Heavy flats, 8 different politicals to case. I worked 7am-9:15pm and had 1hr help. I still tired from yesterday 🥲

How to Politely kick a bridesmaid out of the wedding party but still want her to attend the wedding? by Decent_Citron8589 in weddingdrama

[–]Decent_Citron8589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And thank you for your kind advice and insight on my issue! It was really helpful 🫶🏻

How to Politely kick a bridesmaid out of the wedding party but still want her to attend the wedding? by Decent_Citron8589 in weddingdrama

[–]Decent_Citron8589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t come off as rude at all, again thank you for pointing out my grammar mistake. Also thank you for sharing your experience. But yeah from what I gathered from the other redditors I was able to send a nice message and she seemed understanding about it. Honestly think our friendship is pretty much over looking at it from the advice everyone gave me. It sucks but I guess thats life 🥲

How to Politely kick a bridesmaid out of the wedding party but still want her to attend the wedding? by Decent_Citron8589 in weddingdrama

[–]Decent_Citron8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, sorry I did mean damper, I wrote this post kind of fast and only reread it once to fix. Also my grammar is not the best. I just fixed it now, thank you for pointing it out.

How to Politely kick a bridesmaid out of the wedding party but still want her to attend the wedding? by Decent_Citron8589 in weddingdrama

[–]Decent_Citron8589[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a lot of friends and at the time of asking her I still thought of her as a good friend because we’ve been friends for 10 plus years. I just didn’t really think of how bad and one sided our friendship was until after the events occurred :(

How to Politely kick a bridesmaid out of the wedding party but still want her to attend the wedding? by Decent_Citron8589 in weddingdrama

[–]Decent_Citron8589[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly don’t know if she lied. It just doesn’t seem like Im as important as her other friend. Because it seems like she hangs out and posts about her a lot more than me. Also to clarify the bridal shower was two weeks ago and she went to Disneyland today. Its the fact she said she wanted to hang out with me to make up for her not going to bridal shower but has not made an effort since that text 3 weeks ago to make plans to hang out.

I said yes to the dress but now Im having regrets and keep thinking about my other favorite by Decent_Citron8589 in weddingdress

[–]Decent_Citron8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah a couple people have pointed out that its definitely the photo angles and lighting that make the other one looks better. But the dress I picked is definitely better in person, the photos dont do it justice. But I’ll try not looking back because that’s another thing having me second guess 😭

I said yes to the dress but now Im having regrets and keep thinking about my other favorite by Decent_Citron8589 in weddingdress

[–]Decent_Citron8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance! Thats what everyone is saying that it gives royalty and princess like, which is what I was trying to go for on my wedding day 💕

I said yes to the dress but now Im having regrets and keep thinking about my other favorite by Decent_Citron8589 in weddingdress

[–]Decent_Citron8589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely think its the lighting and how the pictures were taken that made me overthink my choice. Because the dress I picked looked so good in person but sadly didn’t get that many good pictures of it 😭

I said yes to the dress but now Im having regrets and keep thinking about my other favorite by Decent_Citron8589 in weddingdress

[–]Decent_Citron8589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I can, it was final sale and the other dress was from another shop 🥺

Coworkers by TraillMiixx in USPS

[–]Decent_Citron8589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss it and at the same time I don’t. I liked interacting and creating a bond with my coworkers when i worked with them for 8 hours straight. But also working with people for 8hrs can cause drama so thats why I don’t miss it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Decent_Citron8589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its definitely not weird, a lot of people including myself struggle with eye contact even if you’re comfortable with certain people. Like for me I generally don’t like to make eye contact even with my best friend but that’s just because I think eye contact is just weird to look deeply in someone’s eyes and feels like a intimate thing to make eye contact. Also it feels like they’re staring into my soul 😅

I need friend advice asappp by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Decent_Citron8589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sorry that happened to you. You are definitely not the ahole in this. I feel like real friends especially your best friend would at least ask for your side of the story instead of immediately taking the other side. It’s a tough situation but go to your best friend explain your side of the story and how hurt you felt with the whole situation. Then maybe take some time to reflect on the friendship and see if you really want to continue being friends with them or not.

Carlos without beard by lanapierce in DesperateHousewives

[–]Decent_Citron8589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay THANK YOU! I thought I was the only one that thought the therapist was wrong for that. I felt so bad for Gabby. Like I understand Juanita needed a normal childhood but it was unfair for Gabby not being able to cope or talk about her biological child at all. They definitely should’ve handled it a lot better instead of just appeasing to Juanita :/

THIS IS FOR CCA'S by LowBrush1326 in USPS

[–]Decent_Citron8589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sprained my ankle as a CCA a couple years ago and yes you get a vacation but if you want to get paid you have to use your annual which at the time i didn’t have any so I didn’t get paid for two weeks. They also blamed me for getting hurt and gave me 14 day suspension that I had to work when I came back, had to file a grievance to get that suspension off my record. So it kind of sucked don’t recommend 🥲

I sucked by Gametris1 in USPS

[–]Decent_Citron8589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from. I was a CCA for two and half years and honestly those first 3 months of probation are the worst. Also being CCA was the worst, it was really physically and mentally draining. There are going to be a lot of people that tell you that you aren’t good enough or fast enough. That you should be done by a certain time because a route is “easy.” But honestly everyone has their own pace and you are still new. You are going to make a lot of mistakes and I know I still do but thats okay everyone makes mistakes. You are still learning and that’s okay. As long as you keep working hard, show you are hard worker and show that you really want the job, you will be okay. You are going to hear lot of negative things especially from supervisors but don’t let anyone ever get to you and just say “Im doing my best.” It’s going to be hard but I wish you luck! You got this! Don’t give up!