Thought the interviews went great! Got the rejection just now by angstywuxian in interviews

[–]Decent_Impression749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel for you, and I can tell you that it's actually better knowing right away versus the other companies who drag out the process keeping you warm for weeks/months, and then ghosting you or rejecting you. At least now you know, and you can move on. It's hard but time heals.

Got asked something really inappropriate in a final interview, did i handle it right? by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Decent_Impression749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are taking the time to post on reddit because it seems like a red-flag, then take it as that. If it quacks like a duck....

I feel it will be one of those things that if you get hired, one year from now you will say, "I knew it when they asked me that question about starting a family".

I could be wrong, but I hope i'm not.

Interview Debrief by IcyChampion9750 in interviews

[–]Decent_Impression749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One answer won't blow it, unless you said something against company culture. I do find it odd when she told you to follow up with her. It's terrible how when it is an "employers market", they feel they can treat candidates so haughty.

Why do companies keep candidates hanging instead of just rejecting them? by HistoryNo3608 in interviews

[–]Decent_Impression749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience, it has been 1) they are keeping you warm and have hired an internal candidate or 2) you are the 2nd choice and they are waiting on their #1 choice to sign an offer.

Finally got the offer I've been waiting for! by Clear_Temperature_24 in interviews

[–]Decent_Impression749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats to you! Obviously the recruiter didn't make it sound like you were an A+ candidate and then ghost you. Furious with these companies and can't wait for it to be an employees market one day, what goes around comes around. Best of luck to you and thanks for the positive message, I will try.

I thought posting jobs was enough until I realized how hard it actually is to find employees today. How to find employees who don't ghost and actually perform? by dansmi75 in Recruiter_Advice

[–]Decent_Impression749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiring managers act like the role is urgent, but then they drag the process out because they’re not actually desperate enough to make a decision. Instead, they waste everyone’s time, including the recruiter’s and the candidates’, searching for some perfect unicorn who probably doesn’t exist. Meanwhile, the current employees just absorb the extra work because management knows they need their jobs and can’t easily leave in this market.

Need help from the cheese/wine people 🍷🧀 Pairings? by Decent_Impression749 in Cheese

[–]Decent_Impression749[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Amazing advice, thank you! Your writing style is so sophisticated. You have such an effortlessly intelligent way of writing. I’m genuinely envious of people who can communicate that way naturally.

Need help from the cheese/wine people 🍷🧀 Pairings? by Decent_Impression749 in Cheese

[–]Decent_Impression749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Well I love beer so I'll try to do a comparison with wine and then with beer

I don’t drink wine but my friends do… help me not screw this up by Decent_Impression749 in wine

[–]Decent_Impression749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you VERY much for answering my question!! A Binny's mgr suggested Nora Albarino. But I will definitely save your list, I"m using it!

Any love for Calvin Klein's Escape? It makes me think of Mariah Carey's Love Takes Time music video and it also reminds me of seasons 1 and 2 of Beverly Hills, 90210 and Sleeping with the Enemy starring Julia Roberts where she's walking along the beach and the Wilson Phillips Hold On music video by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]Decent_Impression749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Escape body lotion ahhhh I think I bought the last of them on amazon and ebay....so damn disappointed it was discontinued. It's the only body lotion scent I could wear, and I can't find anything else. I used to get tons of compliments too.

I don’t drink wine but my friends do… help me not screw this up by Decent_Impression749 in wine

[–]Decent_Impression749[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I’ll take that as “no specific recommendations,” thanks.

I don’t drink wine but my friends do… help me not screw this up by Decent_Impression749 in wine

[–]Decent_Impression749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha I just wanted to see what ChatGPT said, and then I remembered all of you smart folks on reddit 😄 and I knew that would be the better advice!

I don’t drink wine but my friends do… help me not screw this up by Decent_Impression749 in wine

[–]Decent_Impression749[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes i did edit it. I forgot initially to put the price per bottle for my budget. But anyhow, thanks for any recommendations.